Foreplay. Ask her what feels good. Read her body. how she reacts and go with it. Dont rush its not a competition make the moment feel sexy not just sex
Oof! You have my sympathies! I donāt tend to hook up unless thereās a strong vibe and chemistry personally, that helps, but more importantly.. communicate x The guys really ought to be asking what feels good etc or for direction from you but there is nothing stopping you directing the action based on what feels good for you. Comm your needs and wants – get what you desire. If thatās an alien concept (and sadly itās is for many of the women I am/have been friends with prior to our time) then youāre gonna need to lead the charge for your own pleasure. Even if you do communicate your needs there will be some men who carry on with their 5 min pump and crash crusade regardless. In the bin with that lot x Find you a FWB who focusās on your pleasure or is willing to learn and donāt bother otherwise x If he isnāt willing to listen and learn you wonāt be cumming anytime soon by any other hand than yours š Get him reading on foreplay, erogenous zones and vaginas generally if heās open to it š People who make women cum get laid š¤·āāļø whatās he got to lose?
Foreplay. Ask her what feels good. Read her body. how she reacts and go with it. Dont rush its not a competition make the moment feel sexy not just sex
Oof! You have my sympathies! I donāt tend to hook up unless thereās a strong vibe and chemistry personally, that helps, but more importantly.. communicate x The guys really ought to be asking what feels good etc or for direction from you but there is nothing stopping you directing the action based on what feels good for you. Comm your needs and wants – get what you desire. If thatās an alien concept (and sadly itās is for many of the women I am/have been friends with prior to our time) then youāre gonna need to lead the charge for your own pleasure. Even if you do communicate your needs there will be some men who carry on with their 5 min pump and crash crusade regardless. In the bin with that lot x Find you a FWB who focusās on your pleasure or is willing to learn and donāt bother otherwise x If he isnāt willing to listen and learn you wonāt be cumming anytime soon by any other hand than yours š Get him reading on foreplay, erogenous zones and vaginas generally if heās open to it š People who make women cum get laid š¤·āāļø whatās he got to lose?
With current silicone lubes and toys this is no longer true. Yes it is. It has nothing to do with current or older lubes and toys. Liquid Silicone will always be absorbed by solid silicone and change its structure. Here's a reddit post that explains this in detail: https://www.reddit.com/r/askscience/comments/823q24/why_does_siliconbased_lubricant_degrade_silicon/
There is no right or wrong way to masturbate.