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You can’t really force him to be dominant. I can’t help you there. It has to come from within. But you can tell him to be more vocal. When you peg him whisper this in his ear. “I want you to moan like a good little slut for me.” That should get him going.
I agree that it’s wise to use a condom for your first time, especially since you sound like you’d be far more comfortable using one. An alternative for you is to use an internal condom (often called a “female condom”). Instead of going on a penis, it goes inside of a vagina (or anus, if you’re using it for anal sex). You can practice putting one in by yourself, so when you’re ready to have sex, you can put it in yourself and your boyfriend won’t get “distracted” and go soft. There’s lots of tutorials online. They’re harder to find in stores than external (traditional) condoms, but available online and you may be able to find them in a drugstore near you.
I feel bad for the husband too. You’re totally correct about shit show. This definitely isn’t ENM. This is bulldozing. Just a lot of excuses and a lot of therapy needed.
Can I just say that as a woman, I absolutely love all these comments.
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Have you also tried the cowgirl position yet? In this position you can control how deep it goes in and how fast or slow you want it to be
don't forget the playgrounds at the dark. :p
You can’t really force him to be dominant. I can’t help you there. It has to come from within. But you can tell him to be more vocal. When you peg him whisper this in his ear. “I want you to moan like a good little slut for me.” That should get him going.
I agree that it’s wise to use a condom for your first time, especially since you sound like you’d be far more comfortable using one. An alternative for you is to use an internal condom (often called a “female condom”). Instead of going on a penis, it goes inside of a vagina (or anus, if you’re using it for anal sex). You can practice putting one in by yourself, so when you’re ready to have sex, you can put it in yourself and your boyfriend won’t get “distracted” and go soft. There’s lots of tutorials online. They’re harder to find in stores than external (traditional) condoms, but available online and you may be able to find them in a drugstore near you.
I think he just said don't do it. No one will give 50% profits for free. Feminists just exaggerating to spread hate again.
I feel bad for the husband too. You’re totally correct about shit show. This definitely isn’t ENM. This is bulldozing. Just a lot of excuses and a lot of therapy needed.
Go for it! Forget what a child said, he'd probably only seen vaginas in porn.