I wonder how many wives would have bandwidth for sex if their partners were doing equal share of the work, including the mental labor. Most women are exhausted, and it is hard to find someone sexually appealing, who has you do their mental load and share of the home. Treat her like a mother and expect her to treat you unlike a sexual partnerβ¦.
Get a realistic looking dildo, and have him show you how he wants you to do it. Practicing without seeing him do it the way he wants isnβt working. If he doesnβt take that thing to the balls he doesnβt want it bad enough.
this, personally I would prefer to loose any chance of having a kid then risking having one now. it's really about the pros and cons for certain people, different people have different priorities, some people will think differently and some will think the exact same as me, not to mention that adoption/surrogacy exists so it's not the end of the world if someone does loose fertility.
Thank you for that. It would be funny if I met someone at a orgy and it just clicked lmao. But I promise I will start slow and keep my expectations in check
Might as well rip his balls off with a wooden spoon while you're at it, maybe it will hurt less than the years of insecurities and the dread feeling of not being enough for his SO. I mean if that's such a deal breaker for you why keep going? Do the man a favor and leave, look for the oil driller you so much desire.
I personally like wearing a penis extender but not everyone one will. I'll do what I can to make my wife get off. The only way I can think of is start looking at sex toys together and just come across them and see how he reacts. Try to figure the best way to word it when looking at them. Maybe those are pretty cool, just some small comment that won't be a blow to his ego. Even that maybe a little iffy
Iβm extremely fortunate that I can cum from piv and itβs absolutely incredible! But it has to be certain positions, I have never cum from being on top and I have put in the effort lol.
She has got to the point where she is about to but her brain stops herself, or Atleast thatβs what she says, kind of like stage fright when pissing in front of someone
My ex said she never experiencing so much wetness until we started having sex. Told me i knew how to turn her on the right way and she couldnβt help it. She was embarrassed but i thought it was super hot if I made her that turned on. I was always covered in her βlubricantβ and i loved it. Itβs normal I guess.
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I am 25 and he is 32. Yes, it is true, I do tend to have that problem. I mentioned the lube once during a fight I caused due to unnecessary jealousy. It is something I definitely need to work on, he also told me he sense that I am jealous and he is scared that I might not be ready for a mature relationship. In the fight, he didn't say anything about the lube but joked about it couple days later when he told me he thought I was jealous.
Seriously maybe there's a smell that's turning him off and he's afraid to tell you? I love giving oral but was in this kind of situation and it only got worse before I left.
Iβm curious why it would be just for one night or weekend and with no further contact. If itβs just sexual, and it turns you both on, why would you not have it as an ongoing thing?
You're getting riled up for what? A fun way to say giving head? Most people, if not everyone, knows the term cunnilingus, and if they don't, they are gonna look it up.
DO NOT TELL HIM YOU WANT MORE!!! Just ask him if he would like to go another round. If he says he is not ready, just reply we could start with oral and then maybe you'll be ready in a little bit. That should be more than enough to get the ball rolling and wont make him feel bad
I'm a guy who prefers to wait a bit too. There's a broad spectrum of people in the world, and everyone has their own preferences and deal breakers. Just be upfront and communicate, that's all you can do.
If they were serious, but you botched your response/reaction when they asked, they may never mention it again. The ball is in your court my friend…bring it up again!
Lube is your friend. Also, the sensation isn't for everyone.
Yes for a week or two. She didn't want to do anything intimate either
I wonder how many wives would have bandwidth for sex if their partners were doing equal share of the work, including the mental labor. Most women are exhausted, and it is hard to find someone sexually appealing, who has you do their mental load and share of the home. Treat her like a mother and expect her to treat you unlike a sexual partnerβ¦.
Get a realistic looking dildo, and have him show you how he wants you to do it. Practicing without seeing him do it the way he wants isnβt working. If he doesnβt take that thing to the balls he doesnβt want it bad enough.
You have nothing to do with their relationship tho
this, personally I would prefer to loose any chance of having a kid then risking having one now. it's really about the pros and cons for certain people, different people have different priorities, some people will think differently and some will think the exact same as me, not to mention that adoption/surrogacy exists so it's not the end of the world if someone does loose fertility.
Thank you for that. It would be funny if I met someone at a orgy and it just clicked lmao. But I promise I will start slow and keep my expectations in check
Might as well rip his balls off with a wooden spoon while you're at it, maybe it will hurt less than the years of insecurities and the dread feeling of not being enough for his SO. I mean if that's such a deal breaker for you why keep going? Do the man a favor and leave, look for the oil driller you so much desire.
I personally like wearing a penis extender but not everyone one will. I'll do what I can to make my wife get off. The only way I can think of is start looking at sex toys together and just come across them and see how he reacts. Try to figure the best way to word it when looking at them. Maybe those are pretty cool, just some small comment that won't be a blow to his ego. Even that maybe a little iffy
It's all one long orgsm.
Think you responded to the wrong person my dude
Iβm extremely fortunate that I can cum from piv and itβs absolutely incredible! But it has to be certain positions, I have never cum from being on top and I have put in the effort lol.
“Its annoying to communicate with someone I'm supposed to love and value” RED flag
She has got to the point where she is about to but her brain stops herself, or Atleast thatβs what she says, kind of like stage fright when pissing in front of someone
Boyfriend is wrong. 58 yrs old, decades of fantasies not acted on. Married 30 years, faithfully.
You communicate like a fucking adult and tell him you wont ever touch him again because he can't bathe himself.
No problem bro. I was just curious.
My ex said she never experiencing so much wetness until we started having sex. Told me i knew how to turn her on the right way and she couldnβt help it. She was embarrassed but i thought it was super hot if I made her that turned on. I was always covered in her βlubricantβ and i loved it. Itβs normal I guess.
Oh hell yes! Get it baby!
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I am 25 and he is 32. Yes, it is true, I do tend to have that problem. I mentioned the lube once during a fight I caused due to unnecessary jealousy. It is something I definitely need to work on, he also told me he sense that I am jealous and he is scared that I might not be ready for a mature relationship. In the fight, he didn't say anything about the lube but joked about it couple days later when he told me he thought I was jealous.
Plot twistβ¦why havenβt you seen him in almost a year if heβs the father of your kid? Is he in the military?
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Seriously maybe there's a smell that's turning him off and he's afraid to tell you? I love giving oral but was in this kind of situation and it only got worse before I left.
No, it isn't petty. I would offer to explain it to him but we both know what a waste of time that would be.
Be MORE petty.
Lube has more uses then just sex with a partner.
He will quite possibly instantly want to break up with you if you put mmf on the table
Oooh that's great one! Writing that down for use on my partner.
“Chewing gum in line??”
Iβm curious why it would be just for one night or weekend and with no further contact. If itβs just sexual, and it turns you both on, why would you not have it as an ongoing thing?
Hehe doucher ππ
Life is too short for bad sex when ur partner is making no effort. Don't feel bad about asking for what you need. It's totally ok to move on
i do and have, trust me. i think itβs just down to my sex drive lmao but its so annoying
You're getting riled up for what? A fun way to say giving head? Most people, if not everyone, knows the term cunnilingus, and if they don't, they are gonna look it up.
Do you perform oral on him? Ask him to return the favor?
Great advice, you all need to communicate and express your feelings and concerns ultimately.
DO NOT TELL HIM YOU WANT MORE!!! Just ask him if he would like to go another round. If he says he is not ready, just reply we could start with oral and then maybe you'll be ready in a little bit. That should be more than enough to get the ball rolling and wont make him feel bad
I'm a guy who prefers to wait a bit too. There's a broad spectrum of people in the world, and everyone has their own preferences and deal breakers. Just be upfront and communicate, that's all you can do.
Hmm he doesn't have any issues with eye contact in general, though.
r/nonmonogamy
Depends on which half of the pill you took
Congrats for having amazing sex! π How would you like this relationship to continue? π Or was it just a one time thing?
If you requested it be happy he obliged, if it was unsolicited just ignore it, unless it's a REALLY NICE ONE..lol
If they were serious, but you botched your response/reaction when they asked, they may never mention it again. The ball is in your court my friend…bring it up again!