My wife needs a more wide flow of water. She does not like the shower head. She has scooted her butt down and laid under the tub faucet as it “poured” water down on her vulva/clit. But, her favorite is positioning herself next to the hot tub jet. The shower head just might not be the right “patter” or “forcefulness” that you need. I don't know if your shower head unscrews from the hose. But, if it does, you might try doing that and directing the bigger/wider flow of water onto your vulva/clit. YMMV
My wife needs a more wide flow of water. She does not like the shower head. She has scooted her butt down and laid under the tub faucet as it “poured” water down on her vulva/clit. But, her favorite is positioning herself next to the hot tub jet. The shower head just might not be the right “patter” or “forcefulness” that you need. I don't know if your shower head unscrews from the hose. But, if it does, you might try doing that and directing the bigger/wider flow of water onto your vulva/clit. YMMV
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