She’s an asshole for that reaction. I’m really sorry, I can’t imagine how upsetting that would feel to hear those words after being so vulnerable and open with someone. I have no helpful advice on avoiding that happening again, but you have nothing to apologize/be forgiven for.
If you live this man like you say, do you both a huge favor; do not marry this man. Sexual fulfillment is such a significant part of any marriage; if he's not what you need when it comes to sex, that will negatively impact the entire relationship, no matter how much y'all love each other. You can't force him into sex he doesn't want, that's rape. Your don't wanna badger him until he reluctantly caves; that's coercion. You want a partner that gives you his enthusiastic consent for rough sex with you, anal, etc. You won't get that with your current partner; are you willing to live the rest of your life without being sexually satisfied- ever? If so, then marry the guy, but duct expect him to change.
I know what your saying. Men have a hard time doing therapy in general, but it's important. Maybe you can get someone in his family to help convince him. You don't have to go int detail as to why with them. I meant to say in my first post. I feel bad you had to go through something like that. Hope the MF is dead or in jail.
The concern here is that she's not ready to hear reasonable posts like yours because she's deleting her own comments. I suspect she'll show her own “maturity” by only responding to comments that agree with her and validate her relationship.
While I am at a loss. It sounds like clenching, but it seems very unlikely that four partners would all have the same problem. Have they had problems with other guys or just you?
It is hormonal birth control.
She’s an asshole for that reaction. I’m really sorry, I can’t imagine how upsetting that would feel to hear those words after being so vulnerable and open with someone. I have no helpful advice on avoiding that happening again, but you have nothing to apologize/be forgiven for.
He’s 6’1”, stocky, and is 275lbs (muscular and has some “cushion for the pushin” as he calls it)
She's probably just being nice.
Yeah mine too
My brother is 40 and his wife is 20. You're fine as long as it's consensual
Its been a while since I've used “modern condoms” but before it used to be part of the “proper use” to ensure advertised efficacy (prevent breakage) to put that drop of lube. https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/condom/how-to-put-a-condom-on#:~:text=Most%20condoms%20come%20pre%2Dlubricated,once%20you're%20wearing%20it.
If you live this man like you say, do you both a huge favor; do not marry this man. Sexual fulfillment is such a significant part of any marriage; if he's not what you need when it comes to sex, that will negatively impact the entire relationship, no matter how much y'all love each other. You can't force him into sex he doesn't want, that's rape. Your don't wanna badger him until he reluctantly caves; that's coercion. You want a partner that gives you his enthusiastic consent for rough sex with you, anal, etc. You won't get that with your current partner; are you willing to live the rest of your life without being sexually satisfied- ever? If so, then marry the guy, but duct expect him to change.
I know what your saying. Men have a hard time doing therapy in general, but it's important. Maybe you can get someone in his family to help convince him. You don't have to go int detail as to why with them. I meant to say in my first post. I feel bad you had to go through something like that. Hope the MF is dead or in jail.
The concern here is that she's not ready to hear reasonable posts like yours because she's deleting her own comments. I suspect she'll show her own “maturity” by only responding to comments that agree with her and validate her relationship.
my bf hated it, said it stressed h im out. i thought it was well done.
While I am at a loss. It sounds like clenching, but it seems very unlikely that four partners would all have the same problem. Have they had problems with other guys or just you?
Ive ate Nutella out of the wifes pussy and ice cream off her asshole