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1. Thank you.. I definitely don’t want to be a bad person. This is all really out of my character and NO ONE around me would expect this of me. I first made the decision when I was in a really dark place and then of course got caught up in my emotions when my uncle reciprocated. I dug myself into a deep hole. I did screenshot the comment, I know it will help me. Do you think I should apologize to my uncle for this?

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2. She just hasn’t had sex with u in 9 months. But someone… somewhere… they cracked that wide open buddy. Realize it now. Let that go. At 34 the sexual prime window is closing fast. Don’t throw good years away.

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3. Problems OP states they have badgered SO into saying OP is beautiful, then immediately pivots to their own conclusion that SO is not attracted to them… implying SO is not initiating? Why might that be? Perhaps there was a honeymoon phase where there was more initiation from SO. How can they recapture that? What made it hot, then? Perhaps OP's SO is bored, or OP isn't quite GGG; perhaps OP is dealing with their own sexual struggle/journey; impediments to partnered orgasm, closed-minded about using what OP needs to get off, like toys, with SO, or perhaps sex with OP is unfulfilling for SO due to SO's passivity, again perhaps due to SO's resentment over being the one to initiate or for instance, SO holding static in royal dominion over a pillow throne, etc. Is OP refusing to initiate, or just complaining about having to initiate (“it feels like I have to beg for it”, a statement that oozes with passivity and entitlement)? Maybe OP and SO have a history of OP turning SO down, but because of toxic gender role expectations, this should only go one way and be okay (clearly it does not seem to be okay with OP that SO is not initiating, and having to initiate themselves, indicating some resentment, but perhaps it is mutual and a standoff has resulted)? Perhaps SO or OP are having less sexual ideation or finding themselves less physically fit after the pandemic or suffering COVID, something that seems to have occupied all the time of their 2 year relationship, and conveniently bookends OP's prior experiences of receiving the desired affirmations of beauty and sexual attractiveness (i.e. ego stroking and compliments)? What has changed? Maybe OP's SO has ED or performance anxiety? Perhaps meds or therapy are in order? Solutions OP gets some perspective on to what extent their ducks are in a row (are they Good, Giving, Game?), express to SO that they are resenting having to always be the one to initiate sex, then talk to SO about what is stopping SO from initiating, and what might make SO more interested in initiating sex, and then work through their resentment about initiating sex (checking that sense of entitlement over not wanting to initiate in feeling as if begging, and processing the feelings of insecurity of not being sexually wanted without that initiation from SO). Obviously SO likes porn; perhaps OP can make peace with that and share in it with SO? If SO is fucking you, OP, then OP is attracted to you. Foreplay and fantasies (closing your eyes and thinking of your favorite heartthrob is simply not infidelity) are not proof of a lack of attraction, and getting off on being sexually attractive to your partner is likewise not the same thing as being sexually attracted to them. If you can get the time to be together while you're both aroused (whether from feeling like you're attractive and wanted, from you and/or your partner finding each other attractive, or external fun and fantasies like dirty talk about whatever works for you two, porn, toys, etc), you're winning at sex. If you're not interested in sex you have to initiate, OP, or too insecure to think of your partner being aroused by porn (or seeing other people at work or the gym or whatever, and unwilling to get over this), but not attracted enough to your partner to stay because feel like you're getting the better end of the deal (treats you well, good in bed even if you have to initiate, etc), maybe you're right to move on; consider, though, that these problems will likely present themselves in your next relationships, on repeat, until you deal with them. Subreddit Rule Issues Finally, OP and most commenters flagrantly violate rule 4: ALL CONTRIBUTIONS MUST BE SEX POSITIVE. Porn critical (as a general statement) is not sex-positive; criticizing problematic gender ideas or depictions in porn certainly can be; this is not that; all the comments seem to be concurrences with this perspective of the “yass queen” or “white knight” variety, i.e. “DTFM, dude watches porn but doesn't feed your self-esteem by fucking you”. OP looks like a bit of an anti-porn crusader and active in anti-porn subreddits prior to posting this; maybe this post is real and in good faith and that is just frustration, but r/sex isn't a place to post polemic about porn, it is a place to seek advice in comments.

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4. Agree! So he must not be sad about that. He should feel good because he’s making you feel comfy, it’s a good thing

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5. Idk for me it is usually like swallowing nothing when it's already down my throat. Like it bypasses your tongue, so it's almost “easier” that way. Like taking a shot lol Most of the time when I can tell he's getting close, I'll go deeper. But sometimes not of I actually want it in my mouth/on my tongue.

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