That’s a big red flag for a “I’m a shitty, self-centered“ partner. You should question whether or not this relationship is worth the trouble you’re putting into it because it certainly doesn’t sound like it. If this is the level of maturity you’re dealing with.
Wait… how old are you and him and your past partners? How many partners have you had in your life? Long term? Hook ups. I feel there might be other stuff going on but don't want to say so without some more information.
That’s a big red flag for a “I’m a shitty, self-centered“ partner. You should question whether or not this relationship is worth the trouble you’re putting into it because it certainly doesn’t sound like it. If this is the level of maturity you’re dealing with.
Wait… how old are you and him and your past partners? How many partners have you had in your life? Long term? Hook ups. I feel there might be other stuff going on but don't want to say so without some more information.