I've spent my share of time over at SDCalc, I confess. But OP probably is facing a big problem, not least that his writing style is drier than a Scottish oatcake in a heatwave.
I've found this to help me. You can still have good foreplay but have it focus heavier on him so he cums, then he focuses on you until you cum. After that his refractory period should have passed & he'll be ready for an extended round.
I've spent my share of time over at SDCalc, I confess. But OP probably is facing a big problem, not least that his writing style is drier than a Scottish oatcake in a heatwave.
I've found this to help me. You can still have good foreplay but have it focus heavier on him so he cums, then he focuses on you until you cum. After that his refractory period should have passed & he'll be ready for an extended round.