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1. The best thing you can do is listen to her and ask her what she likes and what feels good. If she says she likes it, stay RIGHT THERE

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2. This makes way more sense, thanks for the clarification. These distinctions are important because if I just assume what you mean and get it wrong, then I might tell you something that doesn't apply to you. I’m still able to feel but I just don’t feel pleasured. I assume you mean the satisfying afterglow? I’ve always been a dry masturbator as trying to masturbate with lube never helped me feel more sensation/pleasure. Just to be clear, massaging the tip with lube is usually what feels really good. Not stroking the shaft with lube. I meant that I’m unable to achieve an erection through just looking at porn by itself. On a simple level, taking a break and coming back after a while usually helps. Also, getting horny throughout the day helps. Also, even me, with how much I watch porn, what gets me hard is fantasies that are basically my strong fetishes. There's general stuff that I like but it doesn't get me hard on it's own. Then there's stuff that really gets me going. I didn't realize what those things were until more exploration. And even now I'm still exploring and learning new stuff. Also, when I do finish, the orgasm isn’t there. I just ejaculate. It’s really complicated and weird So once again, the first thing I'd think about is trying to massively reduce porn usage and try to let your receptors resensitize. I'm not even saying never to watch porn again, unless that's specifically what you need. I'm just saying treat this like a torn muscle. You can't train with it once it's healed. You still have to complete physiotherapy. THEN you can ease into training with it again. In your case, you might not literally need to abstain from porn for a month straight. But focus mostly on your girlfriend and only use porn every 1-2 weeks. Train yourself to look think about what you want to do with your girlfriend and let yourself build some excitement for what's to come. The goal isn't to get off as fast as possible and use porn if need be. The goal is to focus on your main relationship with your gf. One more thing. If you fail, that's fine. You're human. Beating yourself up every time you fail is pointless. What's important is getting back on the horse and trying again. Until you figure out how to stick with it. The goal isn't to do it right the first time. The goal is to get better at it until you can do it right eventually. There's a middle ground between hating yourself everytime you fail, and lying to yourself saying that it's not really failing and it doesn't matter. That's what you need to work toward.

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