If you want or like something, it's better to ask for it with confidence. Sec it's better being honest and open. Personally, I like to finger a lot. I also enjoy a lot giving oral, but as I understand, not all men enjoy it the same.
It definitely sounds like it'll be worthwhile to look into learning more about asexuality, then. It's possible for someone to be asexual and find the idea of something arousing to masturbate to but not be interested in or excited by sex with anyone. And just not being sexually attracted to any person as an individual is a cornerstone of asexuality.
If you want or like something, it's better to ask for it with confidence. Sec it's better being honest and open. Personally, I like to finger a lot. I also enjoy a lot giving oral, but as I understand, not all men enjoy it the same.
It definitely sounds like it'll be worthwhile to look into learning more about asexuality, then. It's possible for someone to be asexual and find the idea of something arousing to masturbate to but not be interested in or excited by sex with anyone. And just not being sexually attracted to any person as an individual is a cornerstone of asexuality.