That is completely irrelevant. My ex raped me and by your logic, because my dick was hard and in her I was to blame. That is beyond disgusting and the true definition of victim blaming.
Instead of fighting it, don't let them stress you out. It's okay to have bad thoughts, everyone has those, but as humans we don't have to actually act on everything we think of. Just think logically, is every horror writer a psychotic maniac? Far from it. Its okay to have a rich inner fantasy world as long as you don't do anything stupid or confuse reality with it. Just relax, let your brain go. And then come back to reality and be a good person. There is no thought police.
All these posts with good relationships with sweet BFs then ops describe an asshole bf.
Everyone is different. Do them all and figure out what works best.
That is completely irrelevant. My ex raped me and by your logic, because my dick was hard and in her I was to blame. That is beyond disgusting and the true definition of victim blaming.
Instead of fighting it, don't let them stress you out. It's okay to have bad thoughts, everyone has those, but as humans we don't have to actually act on everything we think of. Just think logically, is every horror writer a psychotic maniac? Far from it. Its okay to have a rich inner fantasy world as long as you don't do anything stupid or confuse reality with it. Just relax, let your brain go. And then come back to reality and be a good person. There is no thought police.