I have had the same issue in the past with my past partners. For me it was smell. I could eat them out no problem. The smell just threw me off. I could only stand it for a little bit. So what I would do is to try other forms of foreplay. From what it sounds like it you like it but maybe he doesn't. I would bring it up one more time. This time try and understand where he is coming from. When it comes to sex I have found that understanding and communicating are what is best to make it an awesome experience for both parties
OP can’t help unless the person who lost it can identify why they lost it and how to bring it back. It IS on the one who lost it to figure this out. And to ASK for help if they need it. If OP is the only one trying to change this, it will never change.
To me it sounds more of a self esteem issue more than a “its never gunna happen” or “im too small” issue. I would reccomend seeing a therapist and im not trying to be rude just give the best advice i can.
She’s right, you are incompatible. Either she isn’t trusting you because of stuff you are hiding, or has too many issues to be in a healthy relationship. One if not both should work through your own issues before bringing another Person into your life
28(M). I might be in the minority here, but I hate sexting. I won’t turn down the occasional nude. But full on sexting? There’s never any pay off at the end. She wants to do things to me? Great, do them in person.
Interesting. Well, I find if you expect someone to give you head, it's expected to give it as well. Not doing foreplay and just skipping to sex means you miss out on a lot.
and neither one of them is very mature
Have fun but by all means have a safe word. You are both very new to this, and a safe word. You don't want to truly hurt/damage her.
I have had the same issue in the past with my past partners. For me it was smell. I could eat them out no problem. The smell just threw me off. I could only stand it for a little bit. So what I would do is to try other forms of foreplay. From what it sounds like it you like it but maybe he doesn't. I would bring it up one more time. This time try and understand where he is coming from. When it comes to sex I have found that understanding and communicating are what is best to make it an awesome experience for both parties
OP can’t help unless the person who lost it can identify why they lost it and how to bring it back. It IS on the one who lost it to figure this out. And to ASK for help if they need it. If OP is the only one trying to change this, it will never change.
Pretty awesome isn’t it lol
Pretty awesome isn’t it lol
To me it sounds more of a self esteem issue more than a “its never gunna happen” or “im too small” issue. I would reccomend seeing a therapist and im not trying to be rude just give the best advice i can.
I definitely plan to I have an appointment booked
She’s right, you are incompatible. Either she isn’t trusting you because of stuff you are hiding, or has too many issues to be in a healthy relationship. One if not both should work through your own issues before bringing another Person into your life
Sexuality is a spectrum. Almost everyone is somewhere in the middle of 100%gay and 100% straight.
Some fantasies are best left in the mind and not brought to life.
28(M). I might be in the minority here, but I hate sexting. I won’t turn down the occasional nude. But full on sexting? There’s never any pay off at the end. She wants to do things to me? Great, do them in person.
I get that. But if she really wanted to impress me the best approach would be to own what she has
who would like it?!?! It's a pain in the ass to deal with as a man. Sometimes I prefer condoms just for the sake of making cleanup easier.
Feel free to play with her while you recover.
Interesting. Well, I find if you expect someone to give you head, it's expected to give it as well. Not doing foreplay and just skipping to sex means you miss out on a lot.