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1. You leave giving a cheater 1 chance is the max you should ever do. Leave and find someone else

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2. You sound like a very caring and empathetic person, you try to be open minded and giving. A bet you are a great partner. and I bet you think your husband is usually kind, charismatic and charming. and I think that is why people here see this situation as potentially manipulative. Your husbands behaviour is very much outside the norm, even in the kink communities. These are bad behaviours, and in the posts you are clearly very protective of him. People are not black and white, there is no such thing as “good” or “bad” people. Instead we can judge particular actions and behaviours. and everyone gets to make up their own mind about the persons character. Someone can be good with some people and bad with others. You seem to feel guilt for even posting this. You are being honest and truthful here. So here is nothing malicious in you sharing this. You likely don't have anyone close to you to talk to, and were lacking outside perspective, but the perspective you are hearing is going to be difficult to process. These behaviours you describe are bad. You are naturally going to feel an instinct to protect him. This is someone you love, you supports your family and whole way of life. You have tied yourself to him, have a family with him and excusing the behaviour is the more comfortable option. Someone being a good to other people doesn't change the fact that this particular action is bad, it is unkind, callous and cruel. People don't get to act in that way to one person, just because they acted kindly to another. Even if he was an uninvolved father, would that make you change your mind about the behaviour? This isn't just a minor sexual preference. it's very extreme. This kind of behaviour can only be healthy when done with a willing participant who has enthusiastically consented. Wanting to do this to someone unwilling is quite a red flag. Sexual masochism (wanting to be hurt) is not that common, and in the people who DO want it, they are completely in control about how it will be done, where it will be done, and will have signals to indicate if they need someone to go softer or stop all together. In the kink scene, the person getting hurt is in complete control of the encounter, thats a requirement. For someone who enjoys causing pain, they NEED to be partnered with someone who enjoys receiving, and who will direct HOW they want to receive it. The harsh reality is, you've found yourself with a partner who enjoys hurting you, causing you pain and knowingly distressing you. The rules of the kink community are “SAFE, SANE, CONSENTUAL” You don't have any of those, There is no care for how your body is impacted. you are not in a clear head or good mental state, and you are not consenting. Are you going to endure this very unpleasant experience for the rest of your life? If you knew this will never change, would you be happy with that being your life? Also ask yourself how would you feel about the situation if it was happening to someone else, such as a close friend? or a daughter one day? Safety doesn't just mean someone will kill you, it also means your emotional and mental safety. usually, to feel that in relationships, you need to be able to feel some sense of control. An ability to communicate boundaries and have them respected. not wanting to be physically harmed or in pain is definitely a boundary that no one should question. You said he is scary, that if you try to stop him he “makes it harder”. What would happen if as soon as he put a hand on you, you told him to stop, and said “don't hurt me, I won't allow it”? What would happen if you left he room if he tried again? In a healthy relationship you would be able to stop him and leave the room without any particular negative consequences other than, at worst, slightly hurt feelings. Overall, there is no reason to allow this to continue, you have allowed him to “experiment/explore” if you want to call it that. but its completely nonsensical to let this continue. It is only going to cause a greater and greater strain on you, not just physically, but mentally. Feeling constantly harmed, violated and scared in your own home is very damaging over the long term. it will affect your ability to live your life happily. You could develop anxiety and depression form the stress you are under. No rational woman should endure something so serious for his “stress relief”. There are plenty of other ways to relieve stress. He is being unreasonable. if you have told him you hate it, that it makes you scared of him, and that you feel violated, there is no excuse for him to continue. You have every right to say “if you love me, you will stop. if you don't stop, I will leave”. Anyone who you tell the truth to would support you in doing that. it would be the completely reasonable and rational thing to do. After all, someone continuing after you have asked them to stop makes them not a safe person. not someone who respects you and your boundaries. and if someone doesn't respect your boundaries, the only rational thing to do, is remove yourself from them. Even temporarily. to stay with your family, to show you are serious and to give yourself some perspective, and see how it feels to at least have a break from needing to endure all that. Sometimes even “good people” get their perspective so warped they are making excuses and have convinced themself something is okay when it's not. In that situation you have a duty to bring them back to reality. Opening yourself up to outside perspectives is the only way you can compare your relationship to others, to see what is and isn't 'normal'. If my partner started regularly punching me in the face and said it was “stress relieving and hot” you would still urge me to not make excuses for the fact I was still getting beaten. That's whats happening here. take care of yourself. You don't need to be a doormat, you've already proven you are a kind and empathetic person. Sadly, other too often will take advantage of those traits.

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3. I have an onlyfans, primarily a solo creator but my partner makes content with me on occasion….and he's never demanded money from me. Granted it's my hobby/side gig but a business all the same. Since it's all hypothetical on your part, I'd move past it. But If he's displaying overbearing, controlling tendencies elsewhere in the relationship…. P.s. it's actually really really hard to get success as a creator. The average person makes $100 a month so don't stress too much about hypothetical scenarios

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4. Its easier then being brutally rejected and bullied I suppose.

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