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5 thoughts on “darcyotter, 📛”
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This is really the most real world comment and it's buried beneath a pile of downvotes. Lol I'm a trans woman who has been downvoted massively in threads similar to this by a bunch of cis people who were so quick to want to coddle the OP of that thread and his newfound love of having his asshole stuffed “while still being straight” that they didn't like the fact that an actual trans woman piped up about it being super problematic and gross that everyone's response to “wanting to try a real dick/being a bottom in the relationship but still being straight” was to throw trans women at the OP like that was somehow a viable option instead of largely a fetishistic porn fantasy. This subreddit (not the mods but the users in the subreddit) coddles cis people who fetishize trans women but treats actual trans women like shit when we refuse to go along with their fantasies and actually speak up about how negatively that fetishizing of trans women's penises will be perceived in real life. Similarly regarding /u/thickjuicylatinaa's comment being downvoted, this subreddit is incredibly precious about cis male ass play, pegging, and “liking dick but not men”. The moment a cis woman says that this would be a dealbreaker for her personally and she couldn't be with a guy who wants this she's treated like an absolute wretched villain on here, and the way people react you would think that she just threatened to set a school bus full of puppies on fire, not that she just said she personally couldn't have a partner into pegging/male ass play. Reddit especially tends to forget that cis women are allowed to have “inconvenient” dealbreakers for their own personal sexual relationships without this saying anything about them as a human being. I too would not date a cis man who wanted me to fuck him in the ass. With me being a trans woman I have certain past-encounter-related reasons why I would never date any cis man who is obsessively into the idea of me being a “woman with a cock”, but my extenuating circumstances are not any more legitimate than a cis woman just deciding she wants nothing to do with topping her cis male partner/with ass play on him. 🤷🏽♀️ I think a fairly huge portion of Reddit is cis men that think because they've just discovered their own prostates and are obsessive about it, that cis women are just required to also suddenly get on board with strapping on a dildo and pegging them and/or sticking their fingers/toys/etc up their ass. Cis women are not allowed to have fully realized limits and turn offs of their own, they must be reactive to whatever the cis man in their life decides gets them off. 🙄💅 -Geisha
Nope. Live is just beginning for you. There is someone for everyone. It's true that the first word that women use to describe attractive men is tall, but there are plenty of women who would be interested in you for who you are. As for your looks, enjoy it while you can. As an old lady told me, enjoy being young. You'll be old for a long time.
I mean I have a few friends that I occasionally spend time with but not so often. If we do spend time together, it's usually spent in the gym, cafe, or we go to the cinema but it varies. And I don't bring new people in to my life so often… I would agree with you, i do tend to overthink things and expect stuff. I've never looked at it from that perspective before. I'm sorry got stood up but happy that you made a friend! I'll try to look at it from this perspective, thank you for your opinion 😊 I really enjoyed reading your comment and I appreciate it! Have a nice day or evening!
If she doesn't complain, what are you worried about? If you think she may be uncomfortable but not saying anything, ask her about it.
Gross I hope she reads this