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1. If you are not ready, you are not ready. There is no harm in taking things slower, at a pace that allows you to develop a natural comfort. That said, it sounds like you’re comfortable masturbating, so I’m curious what it is about someone seeing you or touching you that you find “nauseating”. Anxious or uncomfortable makes sense to me but the term nauseating suggests there’s some level of disgust at play.

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2. She might be Asexual. She might have trauma that is preventing her from enjoying sex in a typical fashion. She may simply not be able to orgasm often. It happens. It's possible that she might be on medication that causes anorgasmia. Often, it's better to be on said meds than the alternative. (Trust me! An orgasm isn't Everything in life.) Maybe, she could have a higher quality of sex with another partner but the actual calculus means she is happy enough with you. Sex just isn't as high of a priority for her. You should have some conversations about the long-term implications. But…as long as everyone is actually happy & healthy…why question it?

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3. Yeah, but if we knew how to get people to have more sex than they want to then it would be plastered all over every website ever made and you wouldn't need to ask us cause what to do would be common knowledge.

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4. Your feelings are ALWAYS valid. Full stop. End of story. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. Never invalidate your feelings. You have a right to feeling your feelings, however you feel. Let me shift the perspective a little for you. We have established you're allowed to be angry. You are allowed to have your feelings. Whatever they are. They are your feelings. The question then becomes, do your feelings fit the facts? What are the facts? You stated the facts yourself. You always make your boyfriend cum. He is not left wanting. Fact. Deep throat is an option, not a need. Fact. Porn has likely made your boyfriend think everyone should be able to deepthroat. Many don't. Thats debatable. But the reality is, while you don't yet deepthroat, he still achieves orgasm. As far as needing practice… for what? Deepthroating? Is this something that YOU want to learn to do? Or something HE wants you to learn to do? What are the facts there? Is he pressuring you into learning how to deep throat when you are happy not doing it? Are you happy just doing regular blow jobs and maybe supplementing with hand jobs and lube? Maybe you need to assert your boundaries and say you don't need to practice as you aren't interested in learning. At least, not right now. Ask yourself what the facts are. If you DO want to learn, he was just incredibly insensitive in the way he said it. Sure, you are still learning. But did he praise you at all? The fact may be you need practice, but practice takes time. That is a fact. And him.pointing out you aren't where he wants you to be is hurtful. So I would say your anger is justified. Also, on the separate but related subject that he doesn't make you cum…. why doesn't he make.you cum? Does he stop too soon? Do you struggle to achieve orgasm? Does he just not know how? Especially for the last one, advocate for yourself. Outside of sex, sit him down and tell him you aren't satisfied. You want to cum too. Tell him what he can do to help you achieve orgasm. But also…. tell him how his words were hurtful. That saying something about you needing practice isn't helpful and is only hurtful. That you need praise and acceptance, not critiques. Have him tell you what you do right, not.what you need to improve on. You can do the same. Unless of course, the thing he needs to improve on is hurtful.

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5. Some items yes, some no, it depends on the cost and sentimental value. I'm not throwing my stand mixer away which was a present. It's expensive to replace. At the moment, I'm planning to keep jewelry as well, even though the relationship is over it's a symbol of love that existed at the time. Valentine's day cards I think I'll throw away. It would be painful to read and it feels like picking at a painful scab to keep these. I'm female. If I kept some of them, yes there might come a time when I use them with a future partner but my question really was whether this was appropriate. Curious if other people threw theirs out or kept them.

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6. I’d recommend holding off on the kids. I’m in my 40s, married with 2 kids (12 and 1) and we still manage to have a very active sex life (average twice a day), but we are certainly not the norm. Kids really do change everything. You can’t truly understand if you have them. My husband and I travelled the world before we had kids; we had all sorts of adventures and life experiences and we are SO glad we did. You have plenty of time. Don’t rush things.

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7. You are allowed your agency and preference. Don't do anything you don't want. Be that as it may, many couples have some degree of mismatch kink and make decisions. In terms of why he's acting off? It could be because you essentially asked him to make a decision right then and now over a kink. That can be a bit shocking, and he's likely evaluating other parts of relationship. I.e. is there enough of spark/connection that it's worth giving up that kink. We also only have your POV, so it's difficult to know if the conversation came off as you stating preferences, or chiding/shaming him for his kink. In terms of deal breakers, for most people it's about the totality of other kinks and how well the libido matches.

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