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1. Replace sex with love, or a relationship. Would wanting those make you any less of a good mom? I don’t think so. You can love your kids and love your husband and wanting sex doesn’t make either of those any less true. I’m not saying it’ll be easy (whether your pursuing sex, a relationship, a career change, moving to a new city, or anything else), but think of it as an opportunity to teach your kids the value of taking care of yourself. They don’t need to know that you’re going out to get laid, but they can see that their mom is out “having fun” and will learn that life doesn’t stop for grief. I lost my dad when I was 7, and for years I wanted my mom to date, to find love again. She kept saying that I was her priority, but I don’t think you have to have just one priority. You can be a mom and be the person that you are (including the person who wants sex). You can teach your kids that emotions are complex, nuanced, multifaceted; that there can be darkness and light at the same time, and neither cancels the other out. Them missing their dad doesn’t mean they don’t want their mom to be happy. You grieving your husband doesn’t mean you can’t also want (and frankly, deserve) happiness in this new life. Your love for your family isn’t diminished by you loving yourself too. You are also part of that family, and deserve love and happiness (whether that’s love from and to yourself, or from someone else).

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2. They’re losers and probably children. You don’t have to hold yourself to some high lofty standard that nobody else would be expected to uphold.

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