To you 3rd point…many women become a mom and turn off the wife. Your last sentence applies to both genders. It’s isn’t always the husband being a bad, lazy guy. There are plenty of examples of women turning off the being a girlfriend and doing the things that attracted him to begin with…on Reddit and in real life. It’s both partner’s responsibility.
As a guy.. it depends on both of you, but he sounds a bit less experienced than he may be leading on. Sex can just be a quick release for either sex, or it could be a day or night of long passion. I can hold when I'm ready, but I definitely believe in satisfying my partner. If you're really new to the guy, he may be overly excited.. it should also wear off quickly.. if it doesn't, he has some issues that need to be addressed.
To you 3rd point…many women become a mom and turn off the wife. Your last sentence applies to both genders. It’s isn’t always the husband being a bad, lazy guy. There are plenty of examples of women turning off the being a girlfriend and doing the things that attracted him to begin with…on Reddit and in real life. It’s both partner’s responsibility.
As a guy.. it depends on both of you, but he sounds a bit less experienced than he may be leading on. Sex can just be a quick release for either sex, or it could be a day or night of long passion. I can hold when I'm ready, but I definitely believe in satisfying my partner. If you're really new to the guy, he may be overly excited.. it should also wear off quickly.. if it doesn't, he has some issues that need to be addressed.