No, hiding asexual tendencies is absolutely ripping someone off. Sex is part of a relationship and if you suddenly stop because you were only doing it to get the person you wanted that's intentional deception and incredibly shitty.
So, saying she wants to open an OF is not a red flag, agreeing and amplifying is? She wasn't serious, bow do we know he was? Maybe he was just calling her on her bluff
It seems the children came later
No, hiding asexual tendencies is absolutely ripping someone off. Sex is part of a relationship and if you suddenly stop because you were only doing it to get the person you wanted that's intentional deception and incredibly shitty.
You can try spooning, women on top positions Et cetera. But having two solid fallback positions is already quite good.
So, saying she wants to open an OF is not a red flag, agreeing and amplifying is? She wasn't serious, bow do we know he was? Maybe he was just calling her on her bluff