With my previous partner, I would come every time, in 5-10 minutes because sex was mechanical, mimicked the way I masturbated, and my partner wanted it over quick. She was dry and I would just pound away really fast (after she came first from touching herself), reaching the “goal” as quickly as possible. With my current partner, I almost never orgasm. I don't want to come. I'd rather keep going as long as possible. It's slower, wetter, and much more connected. We end when she has had enough. If I need more, I can use my hand and be done in a few minutes. The sex is way, way better, and my sex life is way, way more satisfying. As someone who gets even more out of giving sexual satisfaction than receiving it, I understand where you are coming from. It would be frustrating if I couldn't give my partner orgasms. But…not everyone is the same. Some people would prefer quickies. But don't equate orgasms with overall sexual satisfaction, or your abilities as a sexual partner.
With my previous partner, I would come every time, in 5-10 minutes because sex was mechanical, mimicked the way I masturbated, and my partner wanted it over quick. She was dry and I would just pound away really fast (after she came first from touching herself), reaching the “goal” as quickly as possible. With my current partner, I almost never orgasm. I don't want to come. I'd rather keep going as long as possible. It's slower, wetter, and much more connected. We end when she has had enough. If I need more, I can use my hand and be done in a few minutes. The sex is way, way better, and my sex life is way, way more satisfying. As someone who gets even more out of giving sexual satisfaction than receiving it, I understand where you are coming from. It would be frustrating if I couldn't give my partner orgasms. But…not everyone is the same. Some people would prefer quickies. But don't equate orgasms with overall sexual satisfaction, or your abilities as a sexual partner.
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Be slow and easy and then let evolution and body language take over