He should have respected your first no. That’s on him. But in life you will be inundated with people who don’t respect your boundaries. You need to learn to enforce them. If he kept pressing it’s ok to be mad. To say NO AND DONT ASK AGAIN OR IM KICKING YOU OUT. You dont need to be nice all the time. You dont need to be a people pleaser. It’s ok to be a “Bitch Think of yourself as your best friend. Or your daughter. What would you do if someone was ignoring their “no”?
You sound somewhat like me, we can generally be open since we have our own share of kinks. That’s why I didn’t post this on a kink subreddit. I was more wondering if the more vanilla types are thinking “ugh let’s get this over with” you know?
He should have respected your first no. That’s on him. But in life you will be inundated with people who don’t respect your boundaries. You need to learn to enforce them. If he kept pressing it’s ok to be mad. To say NO AND DONT ASK AGAIN OR IM KICKING YOU OUT. You dont need to be nice all the time. You dont need to be a people pleaser. It’s ok to be a “Bitch Think of yourself as your best friend. Or your daughter. What would you do if someone was ignoring their “no”?
You sound somewhat like me, we can generally be open since we have our own share of kinks. That’s why I didn’t post this on a kink subreddit. I was more wondering if the more vanilla types are thinking “ugh let’s get this over with” you know?
Yeah, like this
Get a babysitter, be safe, and have wild sex. Perhaps get a dildo too.