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This happens to me too. Try cbd or aloe lube. And maybe keep a small dildo in the fridge to ease the pain afterward.
IANAL, but I'd speak with legal representation before I went to HR since HR is out to protect the company and not the worker (esp if it's several he saids to one she said in this scenario). And definitely get screenshots of the entire conversation, if possible, maybe ask the boyfriend if you can see the entire thing again to know what you are dealing with.
That was the real reason he can last longer the word shazam for your penis
You should get toys for him to use on you first
Idk anymore
Inducing lactation wouldn't hurt your body. It's something that comes natural to many women some point in their lives. But inducing it can be very difficult and demanding to do. Constant pumping on a schedule is tough and having an actual dedicate partner can be surprisingly hard to come by. Is your kink purely ANR/ABF? Is it something you can do dry only? Some folks use a supplemental nursing system when they can't produce themselves for their partner.
Typically, yes – but ask your doctor, don't take medical advice from internet randos. Keep in mind that your doc may have only written enough refills under the assumption you'd never skip a period, and as such, you would run out early.
Amen. I don't remember a single time in my life where I've ever felt the need to try to 'convince' a woman to sleep with me – it's usually pretty obvious they want to, why would you need or want to convince anyone to fuck?? I do have to challenge you on saying men don't seek or accept advice from women – I definitely do and always have! Partly because a lot of the readily available sex advice out there is by women, but partly because I'm fascinated by sexuality, male, female, straight, queer, whatever, I enjoy finding out more about it all. Maybe I'm in the minority of straight guys, I don't know. And I do think there are things that women talking to guys about sex can't replicate compared to guy on guy, like concerns over premature ejaculation or performance issues or hang ups guys get about their fantasies and desires etc. Sure, we're all humans and everyone can empathise. But I don't think a 'it doesn't matter, babe' from a woman when a guy cums in his pants is quite the same as another guy saying 'Er, yeah, I've been there too, it's fine!'
the world rejoices!
It's entirely okay! Good for you taking your pleasure into your own hands! With that said, there's going to be people who don't think so, there's still a stigma attached to sex-toys in many circles, and even in progressive circles that are positive, or at least accepting of female sex-toys, the concept of men using sex-toys can be let's say… less favorably received. So keep that in mind.
Levels in testosterone will affect this. Changes in diet, how active you are, how often you cum, how long you wait between cumming… It can all play a huge factor in that. As much fun as it is to blow a big load, going from doing it to not isn't that much of a concern unless you've stopped ejaculating all together. Supplements will only do so much, staying hydrated, edging, masturbating less frequently can help. But you're older now, your body has basically reached it's equilibrium as far as hormones go, but I'm not a doctor.
yea i think that might be it too. although, i dont feel much pleasure and i can't finish from penetration which is why i dont do it much so i'm not sure if that can be considered overstimulation as well. probably more like being distracted 💀 anyway, thanks for the reply!!
What's wrong with me? Nothing's wrong with you. It's a little needy that he won't do FMM, and you did FFM. You have to weigh whether this is something you will be able to have a happy & thriving relationship with this guy now or sack him.
Get a bidet. The Amazon seat adapters are affordable. They really make a giant difference.
Honey, this is something alot of women lie about because we dont want to hurt your ego. Most women have a hard time orgasming from a man, Im included. Best way to help her out, read professional books on the subject from experts, not porn. Porn is fantasy, not reality. Antidepressants block certain receptors in the brain, but you should still be able to help her. I haven't had an orgasm from a man since I was 26, Im now 42. This is a really good book, look into it, Sex: Woman First – How to teach him You come First – An Illustrated Guide to Female Orgasm by Jean-Claude Carvill
Yes! Get her a damn bidet
Redditors when people in a long, loving, committed relationship do a thing without submitting a signed, notarized waiver: 😰🤮😭😳
Lol 38
He’s on vacation and you think that means you should be able to date other men? Is that what you’re saying? That’s like, ridiculous.
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He knows, I have told him a multitude of times when we just hang out and grab drinks etc.
You do not need to use soap on your vulva. You can use something VERY gentle, unscented. Not whatever the fuck summer’s eve is still peddling. The only thing you need to use is water.
Oh dude I'm sorry you feel that way :/ it's not nice at all , but trust me she does desire you! I'm sure the first place her mind would go to if masturbating would be to you! Despite me and my partner having infrequent sex , I still desire him a lot and he is the only thing I think about when masturbating and I'm sure your girlfriend feels the same way , it is just much faster & low effort & less mentally taxing than sex. Even if she doesn't masturbate, trust me she does desire you I know it's easy to slip into negative thoughts and I wish I could help you out. I'm sure you're a great guy and I understand your frustration , I hope you can find a way to find a compromise of some sort together because it does sound like you really love her , I'm sure if you give it time and properly communicate how you're feeling about this to her she will then give her side of the story and you can work something out. Keep your head up and have some faith in yourself , please please please know that it's genuinely not anything bad that you're doing as a person or lover at all , some of us gals are sadly just wired a bit differently and tbh it sucks , I wish I wanted to do it more often cause I love my partner a lot , but the brain is stubborn!! I really wish you luck with this I'm sure you've spent a lot of time stressing over it 🙁
You are ‘amazed at hurtful things people say’ then instantly call a stranger a definite piece of shit. Wow. It’s not like we are talking rape here. Guy is immature, sure but also no one wants their genitalia hurt. Imagine if a woman on Reddit said that something a guy did hurt her vagina and now she wants to avoid sex with him for a while. Would she be a piece of shit?
Did OP mention somewhere in the comments that there is a consistent odor? From the post itself, it seemed like he saw stains but didn't describe a small until this last isolated incident. Which could be IBS or could be the rare shart and she just didn't know. I had to leave work once because I sharted and hadn't noticed until I went to the bathroom.
Usually, but there are different shit smells. Some just hit your nose like a musky gamey smell that you don't really identify it as shit until it's already happening, and some knock you over and practically peel the paint off the ceiling. Either way, offer to shower with him, and you wash his pits and ass thoroughly so he gets the idea.
Having vaginal orgasms are rare for any age. Younger women may feel more sexully empowered and making their pleasure a priority. Men often get post nut clarity and can lose interest in sexual activities after getting off. So some women would prefer to have one before he gets off. Also you don't have to have an election while getting them off, it's great but not mandatory.
Yeah I like small women too as a small guy but I guess not being over a foot taller than short women isn't sufficient enough
Do you mean you wouldn't want to date a girl who uses toys at all? Or you just don't want to use them with her?
It might be uncommon. Never forget r/sex naturally gathers up a bunch of horny people, the average sex drive is likely higher than typical here. We are not an accurate representation of the general populace.
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Yes enjoy making yourself cum but don’t get too use to it.
Intense overwhelming sex is great, like when you stand up after and your legs feel like they ran a marathon, your hair is crazy, and your insides ache (in a good way) from being stretch. It’s fantastic haha
The visuals?
I know that I'm not the target for this question, but if I were asked by a partner to shame them over some previous partners and there's currently sentimental attachment, I'm going to feel uncomfortable. This said, it's all about preferences, everyone will be different, communicate and see what the other person thinks.
Ah so I’m not the only one that makes me feel a bit better 😀
Come take my husband for a spin, you’ll think differently 😩
Forgetting to eat is familiar. She usually schedules her meals because otherwise she can forget to eat until she's famished. I've tried getting her to initiate more with sexy texting and stuff like what worked for you, but it doesn't get her to initiate unprompted. If I instruct her on what to do, however, she'll do it, circumstances be damned! Not in a creepy, socially stunted way or ignoring my feelings, but more like that I started this and now we're going to finish it. She'll get frustrated and demanding in kind of a sexy way. If I tease her by being late for an appointment or initiating at home and then withdrawing, she's going to come and get her due from me. She seems to get something out making the sex happen, even when she's not the one who started the whole thing. That's part of my confusion as to why she doesn't initiate herself.
The person who made that comment wasn’t the OP. They weren’t asking for any help.
Get his gills cleaned out.
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My lady just sits on my face but leans forward (when facing my legs) cause she is afraid to hurt me, but i always want her closer. So from my point of view she sees a problem where there isn't one
Mine as well give her a kid
Literally yes bc (not with the added bit about bjs) but if I have coffee on an empty stomach I get a stomachache too lol
That book is awesome
Usually when someone is unsatisfied in sex it's because of the lack of effort from their partner but that doesn't seem like the case here. Sexual incompatibility is a real thing and sounds like that's the case. Many of the issues like him being too small, Cumming too quick can be fixed by using toys like penis sleeves but not everyone will be into that. Even communicating about issues like this is a very tricky thing as this is something that could make him self conscious forever. I mean sure you could go forward hoping that things will get better but problems like size incompatibility isn't something that'll naturally go away. I think it'll be best to give up on this one because both he and you deserve better.
Don’t read into it too much man
I’d think about calling the police to make sure he doesn’t post them online. Could really ruin your life otherwise.
This alone is reason not to do this. Even if you were 100% in, your friend will catch stronger feelings and your friendship will be harmed. If you're possessive now, do you wanna hear her talk about how good he made her feel? Also, she'll start resenting you, either because she'll get jealous or her relationship will end and she'll blame y'all for it. You also don't know how you'll handle it. I'd def start with a stranger first.
The funny thing is that as you get aroused, your vagina lengthens, opens and relaxes. Doing kegels around your guy can make you feel tighter, but relaxing your muscles and allowing yourself to receive pleasure makes it physiologically easier to orgasm. Tensing up might create friction that feels good for the penis and may make more contact with your vaginal walls, but tensing up delays and limits orgasm. So focusing on “how tight am I for the other person” kinda takes away from the experience your body meant you to have.
And do the laundry more often please. Either one of you…
the planning is, but her input needs to be brought to the table and you can decide from there
You're welcome. I don't want to seem like I am placing blame on you because I'm not. I figured insecurity is to blame from the beginning, which is why I suggest refraining while still showing her you think she's amazing. The refraining also builds anticipation, and the frustration of it brings on the imagination. She knows what she likes but needs a kittle motivation realizing or voicing it. I read this many years ago in Cosmopolitan, and It really does work.
Bro I'm ded
Why would I?
They absolutely can, mine asks me specifically to tap his leg and move so he can automatically stop. Scared him a bit when I moved and he didn’t stop cause he wasn’t sure.
“would u like to have sex?” i’m js if u cannot communicate like an adult don’t have sex
I know this probably doesn’t belong here, but that’s unfortunate that he continues to watch porn considering the fact that he gets head from you daily along with sex. But just be natural in bed, don’t fake moaning, or fake orgasm. Let him know how good he feels, tell him how you want it. Switch up positions some…
That’s true. I mean there are also men who can cum more than once. But I would say there are wayy more woman who can, then men. And by sex I didn’t only mean penetration. Sure there are woman who can’t really cum only by penetration. But there are a lot of other things you can do of course. But ultimately this is just my experience, yours might vary.
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Marriage vows are important to me and we have a child together that is still young. Divorce isn’t an option. He is an awesome dad, provides for us and has other amazing qualities (humor, responsible, loves fixing things, can be generous, loves to travel, etc). He has been diagnosed with PTSD, anxiety, etc. so I know that can have an effect on sexual functions and more obviously, mental/emotional health. I’m just hoping someone from male perspective can help me figure out a way to say things so it comes across as me not blaming him for lack of sex but being truthful how I feel and why I avoid it.
I’d say the majority of men. Of course not all. No statement can encompass all people. But she is talking about meeting up multiple men and hasn’t found a guy who just wants to regularly have sex.
Thank you for the link! I will definitely check it out
well i also have a fwb (or filf, as we like to call it) and i feel somehow in the right place to have an opinion. there haven't been a single time in our relationship when the question “do you want to have sex?” didn't come BEFORE engaging in anything. even after some hot foreplay, we would always make sure the other one was down for the intercourse. and i can't stress thing enough, like every. damn. time. we both like it rough and barbaric and all that kind of stuff, but this never meant not asking for consent or making sure the other one is down for it. even tho the answer is most of the time “yes”, sex should always be consented before. and whenever one of us wants to stop, the other one stops in a second. so whatever your fwb did was out of line, especially if you explicitly said “no” multiple times and there is no such thing as an excuse for what he did. our bodies get excited and produce fluid even tho our brains are not down for it, it's just how it works. it is normal for you to feel bad, afterall you've been assaulted. after you have a conversation with your therapist, i suggest reviewing your relationship with the dude and, if you feel like it, having an open conversation about consent. if he's not on board with it, leave him. wish you all the best.
Okey. Here is the thing that i have pointed out on this forum before. Do you need it to orgasm? If yes – then we have a problem and you might not be compatible Do you not need it for orgasm and just want head because you give head? is that how the bedroom works? is it only how it work around giving head? or is it same in other positions? We need to get same treatment as we give? If he doesnt like it he doesnt like it. What you need to figure out if he can be there for you in other ways. If he can stimulate you. Dont think of it as a tit for tat.
What helps me is before PIV, I like to do extended pussy licking sessions with the lights on. Watch carefully and get some good closeup visions of her beautiful pussy burned into my mind. Then use those visions to help me finish.
Him just not caring that it hurts you, coupled with him being jealous of your vibrator, as well as not being able to get you to finish is just a mess. It sounds like his insecurity is turning into frustration that he’s taking out on you and that’s just fucked considering it’s not your fault at all. Have you talked to him about this before? Sat down and told him what you like and what gets you going? Is his usual routine just jackhammering into you until he’s finished?
There is the chance you two just are not sexually compatible. You wanting frequent sex is valid. But so is someone who doesn’t. Maybe you two are just in different boats. Nobody is wrong, you two just are not meant for each other. You can still be friends.
ACHIEVEMENT POSTS. These include appreciation, humblebrags, “I just had to share,” “I just want to say,” etc. These belong in the Daily Sexual Achievement Thread, not in the main forum. Posts which are JUST sex stories belong somewhere else entirely — like r/sexstories or a similar forum. Stories DO NOT belong here!!
I'm guessing it's the fourchette. I'm not a doctor so take anything I say with a metric ton of salt, but maybe dilator exercises and perineal stretching massages could work?
MyONE Perfect Fit and MySize offer almost tailored custom sizing options. Lovense RealSize is new to the custom sizing game but that's an option, too. The last version of the Durex XXL might be a good choice off the shelf. Good luck.
Finasteride alters how your body converts testosterone to DHT, DHT is what maintains the size of your sex organs, so if you have a permanent change like you can have from Finasteride, you'll have a significantly smaller penis & will possibly develop Peyronies disease because your body will be confused by the estrogen dominant environment in your genitals, causing scar tissue. BUT I think there might be a solution (I read a lot about steroids/hormones for other reasons) Finasteride affects the 5-a reductase enzyme, so if you use something like Proviron(oral DHT medicine) Proviron is actually already “5-a reduced”, which means that the enzyme doesn't matter, it will “probably” act like DHT in your penis regardless of previous Finasteride use. But Proviron is pretty potent so I'd suggest you get on testosterone replacement as well if you're gonna use that, otherwise you'll crash your estrogen because DHT counters estrogen essentially, which will cause less blood flow and libido. Best of luck my man, from what I've come to understand, Finasteride is a god damn nightmare to deal with.
Sounds like the issue is “new partner” and he is just feeling some performance anxiety. When this happens try stopping with some cuddling and fondling and kissing. This should help relax him and get him going again. Going down on him just gives him more anxiety to perform again. Once he performs a few times the anxiety will pass.
I suggest getting off of the pill, and if your partner is okay with it go with male condoms and pull out. Especially if you’re monogamous. The BC pills have a lot of bad health effects including weight gain. In addition to this, try to cut calories down by at least 400 a day, and I would try working out at least for one hour four days a week, even just simple cardio. You’ll start to see things improve a lot, the same thing happened to me and it was a combination of BC pills and eating my feelings all while I stopping being active (because of Covid restrictions). You’ll be okay soon 🙂
Thank you for the reply. Be careful of the plastic failing. Sorry, what do you mean by that? Thanks again!
Pussy lol
My fiancé and I are ethically non monogamous. We are both bisexual and have accepted the fact we cannot fully fulfill each other’s sexual needs (but we also both agree the more the merrier.) We are specifically seeing another couple. If we had a falling out with them, we would go back to being monogamous. If and when we found another person/people that fits it might change again. We love each other more than we could love anyone else, the fact that we have sex with other people doesn’t change that fact.
I also have sensitive skin. Thanks!! I'm looking into it now.
I love my partner to death and she's my favourite person,and I love our sex. But I'd like to have sex with other people as well,without compromising the relationship we have. And people on here will try to tell you that you don't really love her if you want to have sex with other people, which is BS. I don't know if this is something other people think about Yes they do. All the time. And yet they all like to pretend they don't, and will even gaslight people like you and make you feel like a bad person, so that they can deflect from their own feelings on the matter. We all hear about people cheating and how bad that is but doesn't everyone have these urges? Yes they do. But again, they like to play pretend and gaslight people like you who are honest. We all have a favorite friend but that doesn't mean we don't hang out with other friends and do fun stuff with. Exactly.
Okay, fine…just do all of them 🤗
I've made my peace with it. I mean sometimes when other things bother me, this might bubble to the surface of my thoughts, but I'm fine with it. For my wife, It's about security. Worrying about making a house payment made it difficult to be in the mood. Again, a bit of an oversimplification, but that's the gist. Sounds like OP has a problem feeling respect for a guy who isn't successful. That's also common.
You're right. It was so bizarre to me.
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The drug was most likely Valtrex (or it's generic form) commercialized by the pharmaceutical GSK Herpes has 2 variations : genital & mouth / cold sore The drug (and it's a hefty dose that is taken 2x at 12hr interval) is meant to cease / control the reproduction of the virus & outbreak. Must be taken early when symptoms are noticed. If not, it's effective as greatly diminished. Herpes comes & go. It's not necessarily cyclical or recurring on a consistant regular basis. It is contagious within a precise window when the sores are yet in the healing phase. Be careful when it's rather on the “puss” looking side of things. Also be careful how cross contamination is possible. For example if you have a cold sore & you go down on her, there is risk of contamination & transmuting genital herpes. Generally it will last maybe ~7-10 days. Definitely wrap it up during that time. Or be 100% safe & don't stick it in. Don't get overly mad at her. STI can be very embarrassing & not something you want screamed from roof tops.
Thank you for this input! One thing I did end up saying to him yesterday was “based on my past experiences that I’ve told you about I don’t know how I would react in a CNC scenario and right now I’m focusing on trying to heal and move on from that”.
Confidence is the sexiest attribute to me… and knowing what you want, and demanding it!!🤷🏽♂️
Be yourself and stick to your mature decision – that’s what makes a better man
Low libido I guess. I don't find you as a reason for all this… To be honest which you describe about yourself.. You must be magical beauty.. So you can't be reason for this
Vanilla flavored sex? Sounds like it tastes good
No no no. the problem isn’t what he’s into, it’s an over consumption of porn in general and choking his chicken too often.
Second this. Try it, may work !
I’d find this hot but all women are different I guess
I think your analogy to post nut clarity is spot on. It's feels great in the anticipation, and in the moment, but immediately after it feels like “what the hell was I doing?” Totally normal imo.
She said that I can come over today and that we will need to talk before we start, so I assume she really knows what she's doing and we both will have fun. The safeword part sounds good, I will make sure to tell her about that.
So there's a strange thing about these posts. If you visit the profile there are a ton of F4M posts in hookup subs etc. Whatever entity is posting these makes new accounts, farms karma in hookup subs pretending to be a woman in her mid 20s, then posts fake stories here. I think it may be some kind of bot, but its been through literally dozens of accounts now. I have no idea why someone would make a bot like this as it doesn't even get any results; these threads always get removed almost immediately. I don't know whether the content is copy pasted or made using a chatbot. It's just spam basically. So strange.
bc climax is not the only aspect of a romantic relationship.
He’s 20 years of age, needs to get his shit together