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  1. Nah, if it was with poise and grace, he wouldn't have mentioned going out with another girl. That's straight up saying “I disrespect you.”

  2. I'm sorry to hear you're having such difficulty and that it's causing you such distress. You have quite a few options here, but they all start with clear communication. Be clear with your wife that sex is important to you, and why it is important. Ask if there is anything you can do to make the prospect of sex more exciting for her. From the other comments it seems like there may be some cultural and generational trauma and expectations around husband and wife dynamics. If you are happy with all other aspects of your relationship, you could open the relationship to allow you to meet your sexual needs with others, while staying committed to raising your children with your partner. Alternatively, you could decide to separate if money is not an issue, as a separated couple may likely provide better parenting than an unhappy couple. If you are concerned that your partner inherited unsustainable expectations around partners from her parents, perhaps it is worth thinking about the example you want to set for your children. Good luck, seek therapy if it is available to you.

  3. That last part is what bugs me the most about it. I don't like contributing to that. Your preferences don't come out of nowhere, and I'm sure society's views on desirability play a role in mine. That said, who I find attractive definitely deviates from the norm in certain regards but not all, and it can turn me off from conventionally attractive women too I think that the porn suggestion is a good one, but I tend to find that my preferences in porn come more from people I become attracted to in real life, as opposed to the other way around

  4. Oh trust me we enjoy sex a lot more than we enjoy masturbation, it's just that masturbating is basically to release pent up sexual energy and satisfy a bodily need. For example some guys, myself included, kinda get cravings for sex at certain times. Masturbating releases all of that and helps our body feel better. It's not a substitute for sex, but it helps. Also usually we see just wanting to get to an orgasm quickly. At least in my case because I've usually got other stuff that needs done but my body has needs too. Sex on the other hand is something we want to savor. Want it to last. An we really want to satisfy our partner and literally every man ever has been told by society that he needs to last an hour or more in the bedroom, so there's genuine shame and nervousness over the idea of “underperforming” in bed by cumming too soon. Over recent years I've learned that some women actually don't want you to last an hour in bed and they themselves feel like they're not satisfying you if you do. Some women actually want a guy to cum because they enjoy his pleasure too. When I found that out my mind was blown. I'd been taught all my life that all anyone cares about is that a guy lasts as long as possible in bed. Dating someone who felt otherwise was very freeing because when SHE feels pleasure it makes everything so much more intense and erotic and puts me closer to orgasm too. Being able to cum at the same time as your partner is damn near spiritual. Having them prefer that is like ultimate acceptance. It's amazing. Having that freedom means exploring a lot more fun and stimulating sexual positions and situations without fear of “not lasting” and just being in the moment and grinding like an animal. It's hot as hell. So yeah. We love sex. We love it even more if we know our partner wants us to orgasm too.

  5. It sounds like you are feeling pain from being in an awkward or uncomfortable position. I strongly encourage you and your husband to explore different positions that may be more comfortable for both of you. If the discomfort persists, it is important to talk about what feels good and what does not with each other, so that your sexual encounters can be much pleasurable for both of you without any strain on either person's body. If this pressure in the back of your head becomes unmanageable or consistent, please consult a medical professional right away.

  6. I can only have an orgasm from just penetration when it’s large enough to hit my g-spot and most men typically just can’t. Nothing you’re doing wrong just focus on other parts of her body

  7. This is the case for a lot of women, especially if you have a darker skin tone. Let put it this way, I’m the whitest dude ever but my dick/balls are almost black… it’s just the way skin works when it’s not stretched to it’s full capacity (labia, etc)

  8. Obviously late af responding to this BUT … I’d imagine if you were dope sick then I could help with that. That said you’ve probably completed a 12 step program by now and are no longer sick at least… I could help with the other part of that too, if you’re looking to slip back into sluthood. I’m your Johnny on the spot with regards to your username it seems.

  9. Do you just want permission to break up with this guy? Because you can just break up with this guy. I mean I wouldn't tell him you're breaking up with him because he has a tiny dick and is insecure about it but that can still be the reason.

  10. Yeah, sex was like a taboo. I've come to learn about these things in high school. Fear of getting pregnant and all. Thanks I think I will try that.

  11. yes, you might lose your girlfriend but have some respect for yourself. if she wont reciprocate, then you should stop doing it. especially if she is grossed out to the point she wont kiss you after it.

  12. Oh no honey. The first step in getting anything you want/need is losing that type of self-talk. Of you’re attractive enough for them to fuck, then you’re attractive enough to get your needs met or they can fuck off (pun intended).

  13. She sounds toxic and immature. You asked her a reasonable question directly related to her statement and she acts upset. Also in what context is she asking to be a third? Who just asks that? Sounds like she wants to be main gf/bf not the third.

  14. My boyfriend won’t let me finger him every single time we’re intimate, to make him finish faster but he asked me not to, I’ve completely thrown all of my toys out of the pram and put it to him that I’ll never touch him again because his protests angered my ego, embarrassed me and I’m desperately clinging to guilt tripping. Do you realise how ridiculous the reality of what you’re saying is? Where is your empathy and compassion?

  15. Do you “romance” her and flirt with her the rest of the time? Maybe that’s what’s missing for her. Anticipation and getting courted so to speak. This would make me in the mood way easier personally.

  16. Then I have a really special guy. No matter how macho a man is, I think he would still want to feel loved and cared for during sexy times. Thanks for your response 🙂

  17. Sounds like she has similar feelings to you, so try to be cool about it and find a time for you both to talk. If she was drunk, she may not fully remember, and she might feel some shame about it if she’s been harbouring feelings for you for a while.

  18. It’s serious stuff. People think it’s harmless and a turn on but laws have been created around the world due to the injuries and deaths that have resulted from “breath play” There is now a requirement legally that it be discussed prior and that alone is NOT an authorisation to mean anything goes. The guy cannot just decide in the moment he is going to start choking and stop means stop. There’s regular cases across the globe of mostly guys being charged and convicted of offences and it’s increasing. There was a hallmark case in the UK where the guy used the I just got carried away defence when the girl died. He is serving a very long sentence. Most of the major countries along with law enforcement and community groups have set guidelines. The Washington post in the US is just one of many publications that have done reports on the topic

  19. I knew of the anklet bracelet for years (been I'm the swinger scene or so I thought for almost 9 years now/ but just recently learned about the pineapple being a sign, lol. Actually learned about that on a sitcom (ghost's?)…learn someone new everyday!

  20. You guys really think I came on here to be a douchebag?I'm not being a douchebag I'm just being real . And if by “understanding relationships ” means that I have to accept that people don't leave emotionally draining relationships because that's how relationships work then I don't want to understand relationships!!

  21. I have. I am not sure if she will or not, but her physical responses (her body) indicate to me she just may do it at least once

  22. My foster sisters doctor told her it would be impossible to get pregnant due to trauma. She went and gave me all her condoms and got off of birth control (hormonal does give a lot of side effects and was making her gain weight). She now has 8 biological children. A different foster sister didn’t get her period until she was 20. The doctor told her that she wouldn’t be able to conceive. She now has 2 daughters. I had personally seen doctors tell woman who were capable of having children that they couldn’t about 4 times before I hit 20. If your bf went to med school he knows not to base whether or not he uses protection off of that. Not to mention that it’s always smart to use condoms to protect yourself against STD’s. At 30 he’s being very reckless.

  23. There’s a small business on tiktok that makes clay pieces out of dried sperm. Would be a better lasting alternative.

  24. sounds like she took it a bit too far but I would start the conversation like this: Hello wife, I feel upset when you were complementing other guys body because it made me feel self conscious about myself. Please in the future can you tone it down a bit?

  25. Not a problem unless you want more out of sex than what you have. Self exploration is always useful. Either doing it alone with a toy, touching all over your body and seeing what you like touched the most, or experimenting by trying out new things with a partner until something clicks. Could be movements, caresses, words, any little thing could make a difference. Take note of it and keep searching. You won’t find it right away, but it’ll be faster than bot even bothering to try.

  26. Sex is always new with a new person. To be good everyone has to communicate what they want/don't want. If you want things to go well, talk about it… Before and during

  27. Imo there is no strict line between foreplay and (piv) sex. It's all part of sex. So you can start with oral sex, or with kissing, or whatever you want.

  28. Three very important phases: 1) Foreplay. Spend the most time here, lick, suck, kiss, caress all alone. Find out what feels good first before you feel obligated to go on. If step 2 happens, let it happen organically 2) Intercourse. Go slow, lots of lube. Most of what you see in porn is not what you want to do. Use protection. Know how to put it on, and how to withdraw and take it out properly. Don't ask her if she came. Literally every ounce of whatever brain capacity you have needs to be laser focused on the signals she's sending. Did she just wince? Better slow down or lube up. Are her eyes rolling back in her head and she's got her legs wrapped around me – probably good to go. 3) Aftercare. Cuddle, kiss, caress. This is a very important phase for a women – it reinforces the relationship bond now that intercourse is over. You're going to want to get up and urinate in the toilet within the first dozen minutes or so afterward to clean out your urethra and personally remove and flush your condom down the toliet. Return and cuddle and compliment her on how she made you feel and how close you both are now. Also, it's going to be a lot LOWER on her than you think

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  30. it's pretty normal, as a teenager, to have sex on the brain – I know it's a cliché about boys, but it's normal for girls too. try and not judge yourself for this, you aren't wrong for having thoughts! it doesn't make you a hypocrite or anything to want only committed, monogamous relationships in the future, while also having sexual thoughts/fantasies/urges. and of course, masturbation is the safest sex of all.

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