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Hi I’m also on a LDR and have just realised that death grip is a thing I’m suffering from. I think LDRs add to the issue on his side. Less real sex and more fapping to a fantasy of intercourse + porn. I suggest you send him a link so he can understand by himself and “get a grip” (sorry) on the situation by himself. He needs to sort this out on his side.
I recommend eating more pussy. It’s an acquired taste. Like coffee.
Honey there’s no need to worry. He likes you’re body and it turns him on.
You say ‘ok my turn. You are not done sir, get over here and lick my pussy’ or you roll over grab a vibrator and put it on your clit and say ‘come here’ and put your boob in his mouth. You can’t just expect him to know what to do.
yea, this here… if you don't PREP + PREP-PREP + PREPPITY-PREP… you're literally ass-king for accidents, smells, and tastes that aren't sexy for most people. even with the most well prepared ass… there's still the chance of assccidents
Ignore him for a while and see how he will react
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That’s not invasive it’s completely relevant to the conversation which she started! Don’t feel bad about it
How is preferring a Latina racist? You would be racist if you only dated blond women. Race preference is determined, to some extent, by society, so if a society prefers a race, the individual will prefer too. But it's not racism of the individual, it's a racist cultural context. I have a black wife and a mixed race son, imagine someone calling me racist because I married a black woman, this makes no sense.
Maybe try a clit stimulator type vibrator? They feel great and just pulse air onto your clit rather than direct stimulation.
I don't really want to think about why that happened all the time, I was 18 and her mom 45+ .. Although she told me that she always wanted a boyfriend like me when she was our age, which was also pretty weird .. Anyway, about the bear, he'll definitely know what's goin on, he'll give you your space. Bear 🐻 wingman
Didn't you notice the only correct answer while writing?
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I had a LDR through college. Of course you’re sad saying goodbye. If he says that, it’s okay to say you are, because you miss him and want to be there next to him. Most of the time hanging up my wife and I were both sad.
I unfortunately disagree with this. He should not have to compromise on his boundaries to please her. Yes, it may cause resentment if she doesn't get the opportunity, but that also doesn't mean he should feel obligated to have a threesome.
As a dude, I'll never understand how guys will do the deed, get poop on them and then be disgusted by their partner. Probably one of the most fuckin moronic things I've ever heard in my life.
That is so disrespectful! My husband absolutely goes nuts when I the moving. That it's how it should be! I hope you find a better person!
lol, you had nothing really nice to say about him. I’d not want to be with you if I were him, honestly. Why be with someone you clearly don’t respect?
It could be a getting older thing too. Body starts acting differently with booze.
You might want to see a Dr. about that. As far as moisturizers go, I would stick with coconut oil for sensitive areas. That's what I use. Granted, I don't have a penis, nor do I have skin so dry it would be a concern. I just like to keep that area very soft since I remove my pubic hair.
Those are just lube ingredients.
It can still be a preference. If he likes it shaven and subconsciously gets more into it that way, it's his right. It doesn't feel like the BF made a deal or pressured OP to do it.
The topics of dirty talk and praise are covered extensively in prior posts (Rule 3); please search these up for ideas.
I’d be very careful with random objects. Your fingers might be your best bet. Just wash good before and after.
She could, but she isn't doing that. And I definitely don't want to say that I would like her to do that. As it's not my place to say. I'm just searching for a polite way to bring it up in conversation again, to see how she is feeling about the hair removal now.
Nice strawman. By the time you have sex with someone, you should be comfortable enough to say what you want.
Hey got embarrassed that he couldn't keep his dick hard because he's been death gripping it with too much porn. Instead of realizing this he misdirected that frustration on you instead of being self aware and confronting his own issue. This specific incident is probably indicative of how he handles other problems in life if I were to guess. Not something I'd put up with if we talked about it and it keeps happening or he's not willing to address it.
It’s literally traumatizing hearing a parent have sex idc. I wouldn’t disrupt their sex life cause good for them but I also wouldn’t continue listening to that. Invest in some headphones, earbuds, sleep sound machine, earplugs, etc., good luck to you op I still cringe when I get flashbacks of that happening with my mom
Can confirm you were spying on /u/Gold-Tackle8390
I said sexually we are compatible
Couldn’t agree more. Especially 3 and 4. Also more playing with breasts and nipples please!
The way you enjoy pleasure doesnt mean its the same way she enjoys pleasure. Ex: typically when men get close to orgasm we like to go faster and harder. But women typically dont like that change of pace. Start off slow and build anticipation instead of going just head on into it. Dont just jam your fingers in n out slowly explore her insides gently with 1 finger then 2 or 3 depending on whats comfortable with her.
Laser is the answer… All the money you will eventually put into waxes can go toward laser. Best decision this hairy girl ever made.
Sorry but no. If you are asexual, there is no way for you to enjoy sex. However, you have to understand that sex is an important part of a relationship. Lying to your boyfriend is not good for him nor you. It is better if you find an asexual partner, because no man or woman want a sexless relationship.
If you are sexually repulsed asexual, you won't suddenly like sex out of nowhere. It's completely fine. But don't lie to yourself or to him, because it will destroy you and your relationship. Talk to him. Tell him you don't like/want sex. But be mindful that he will need it. In my opinion you have 3 options: – open your relationship for him to have sex with other people – find common ground in sex – do only the things that don't disgust you very much – end the relationship and you both find someone compatible But remember – don't force yourself to do things you don't want. And don't force him to stay completely out of sex. At the beginning in may work, but the longer any of you is frustrated, the more problems it will cause to the relationship. If you can't find common ground, break up. I know how horrible it sounds, but trust me, I've been there. On the side of your boyfriend (dating ace, we were not having any sex). I ended up frustrated and distancing from my partner, which made her feel isolated, sad.
Well i think that relationship is doomed. Either you pretend the rest of your life together with him that you have fun or you tell him that you are asexual (no idea why this isn't already a thing you two talked about) and stop it. I for sure wouldn't want to force me doing something i don't enjoy for someone for the rest of my life. Since him getting it somewhere else is a no go for you based on your text i would assume there is nothing he could do to get sex anyway else without it being a problem. There is no pill you can swallow to suddenly enjoy having sex. You define yourself as asexual for a reason and now you want to change that reason. My advice, unless one of you do a 180° break up OR talk to him to find a solution for both of you.
Buy them a sound machine for Christmas. Don’t say anything, but they should get the hint.
You need to see your doctor, never ignore out of the norm headaches or try to diagnose them through Google.
She's broken. Trade her in. 45 minutes is stupid and totally abnormal. I'm also willing to bet she doesn't find you sexually attractive
Who is responding to OP to say they recognise this from a similar experience of their own.
Do you love yourself and your body?
But do you have to have sex when you get home from work? I mean, you just said you work 12-hour shifts 4-6 days a week. That’s exhausting just thinking about it. Why not plan your sex time ahead? I mean, it doesn’t really make sense to come home that tired to indulge in another hard work that is foreplay and sex. And your girlfriend needs to learn to adjust. If getting wet takes long for her, then consider water-based lubes to aid the process. I dunno. What do you think?
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OP apperantly is 16, he is 30. There are bigger concerns here…
The person had a FWB relationship with someone who after 10 minutes of focus on her pleasure needed more of the same focus on her pleasure, before proceeding to the next step of focussing on her pleasure. The guy responded this as a similar story to OPs experience: being in a relationship where the other person needs so much of their needs met that it starts to become unpleasant because it's a one way street. They decided it was better to break of off the FWB relationship because it was not working for him – something you ironically later boast as something you learn to do with age. And you went ape shit, projecting your horrible ex partners onto him, leaving everyone flabbergasted and downvoting you, mentioning you haven't read the post properly. Yet you are adamant you did no matter how many people tell you you probably didn't. Fair summary? Let's leave it with that either way.
I don’t think I do excessive masturbation, about 4/5 times a week. Porn isn’t necessary for me, I can even masturbate with the imagination of the prospect of a date with a hot girl.
So yh you can get those easily
We need to do a better job with sex education for Gen Z. In many countries/states/provinces around the world, that is considered STATUTORY RAPE. He is using you because of your age and ignorance (case and point this post). Break up with him. Four years from now, you’ll look back and cringe about this.
No: https://www.babycenter.com/baby/breastfeeding/can-men-breastfeed_8824 If you're a cisgender man, and you're lactating, then you see a doctor, because your endocrine system is fucked up in a major way.
No: https://www.babycenter.com/baby/breastfeeding/can-men-breastfeed_8824 If you're a cisgender man, and you're lactating, then you see a doctor, because your endocrine system is fucked up in a major way.
No: https://www.babycenter.com/baby/breastfeeding/can-men-breastfeed_8824 If you're a cisgender man, and you're lactating, then you see a doctor, because your endocrine system is fucked up in a major way.
It’s not about the money I’ve paid.
Yeah! I should love myself instead dragging me into the past mistakes.
When you are getting penetrated, is there much that's rubbing on your clitoris? No, there isn't? Well, you have just learned the anatomical reason why 70 to 80% of women don't have orgasms solely from penetration. =) So how do you do it? You experiment with positions and see if you can find ways to get his body to rub against your clitoris. Or one of you gets a hand down there.
I am shocked no one brought this to your attention, but man, get a better job … You are not only missing out on sex, you need to workout, have hobbies, have friends, pray, grow,. If you work 12 hour shifts you will be dead on all those other important aspects of your life …
I feel like it’s just natural. More bodies, more chance of STD. Plus men and women look for different red flags. Lotta bodies for a woman could mean she’s unfaithful/promiscuous, has low self esteem, possibly has kids. (Not that this is true, it’s just what I would think of if a woman told me she had a lot of past partners). To look passed that, would be me pretending to be okay with something I’m not. Because literally men will have sex with anything so it’s not an achievement. Lotta bodies for a man means he’s desirable and a worthwhile partner. Some Women can think he’s gross but others will be like “well there’s a reason so many wanna be with him.” But even the women who think he’s gross think so because he may have gotten there by manipulation. Women have a lot of selections to pick from. Getting to sex means you have to stand out in some way or manipulate. Either way, it’s an ego boost for a man. Men and women are inherently different. Shiet humans are incredibly different person to person. Some might love a high body count, some might not. It’s not something that we simply have to get out of our heads. it’s always gonna play a factor for some. I, personally, don’t want a partner with a high body count. Hell, if I like someone, I just avoid the topic of past partners altogether. A body count isn’t somethin to be shared with someone you’re serious about unless y’all decide to be that open for some reason.
Sexual assault means performing or attempting a sexual act on someone without their consent. They did not have your consent to penetrate you without protection, so yes, it is assault. I'm sorry that happened to you; if I were you I wouldn't see them again.
(Man here) But I want a woman to find my male body hot from a distance, i want her to be visually turned on by the male body without there being an emotional connection. It really does bother me this considering many women are demisexual towards men while can be turned on by womens appearances without a emotional connection. It makes me hate my male body and Im even considering suicide becauss I feel unattractive thanks to women
If basing on physical aesthetics, then for me I’m more visually attracted to a woman’s body, be it in real life and when watching porn. However when it comes to sex both genders offers different experiences, and I love both. Why have to limit oneself?
Maybe he wants to put the friend in fwb
Personally I'd say that 3-4 partners a week is a lot, but I don't think there's a clear rule on it, and I'm female so maybe teenage boys are more horny than me 😂 during my hookup phase I had 3-4 partners in total and I met 1-2 of them a week for a month or two, before i realised started to take up too much of my time at the expense of my sleep, hobbies, work etc. More fundamentally I think there are a few things you can discuss with him and should be concerned about (1) if these women are significantly older than him, then whether they are “taking advantage” of his inexperience, just to ensure that he is a completely willing partner not being pressured into anything he's not comfortable with (2) the motivation for him having many casual partners (3) the amount of time spent on sex, and whether it is detracting from his social life or school or other endeavours and (4) helping your son to understand the difference between casual sex and meaningful relationships, and ensuring this phase doesn't negatively skew his future relationships. To elaborate I'm all for sex positivity but I think it's quite clear that if sex compromises other aspects of your life then it's time to draw a line. Casual sex can be really fun and empowering, and allow for you to explore yourself, but it all depends on how he approaches it and what he's trying to get out of it. Why is he having so many casual partners? Is he horny? Is this an exploration thing? Or is he trying to have more partners to boast to his friends? Is he using this as a substitute for attention? Is he lonely? Some motivations are more healthy than others. Hookups were great for me at first but I realised that I began using sex as a way to plaster over things – when I was having a bad day, my solution was to arrange for sex instead of facing the problem because the highs were fun, when I wanted to avoid work or was having personal difficulties, I'd just have sex with these partners so I could run away, and when I was lonely I would use it as a substitute for deeper connections, like actually engaging with a friend or family to help me address it (because sex with a near stranger is so much less emotional effort), and I would feel even emptier after because of the impersonal nature of it. There's also the time aspect: Everything done in moderation is fine, but even if it was something like gaming, if you spend hours gaming into the middle of the night that can't be good for you. Another thing is that the people you meet when you try hookups may also not be positive influences. I guess this could happen with any other hobby, but from my experience from the people I met, many people use sex as a drug to cover self destructive behaviour, like alcohol and smoking and self harm, or to get over a long term relationship, etc. Given that your son is only 17, if many of his partners are like this, and these are all the partners that he sees, it may skew his worldview on what is a healthy relationship and it may later affect what he thinks women expect to be treated (for example, an FWB would not care if you cuddled after and talked about her personal life, but you probably shouldn't throw someone you were in serious relationship with out of your house immediately after). An FWB also is not obligated to help you with any of your problems, which is very different from a partner you share your life with, but your son may start to confuse the two if you do not discuss with him (resulting in him becoming a bad partner next time in a serious relationship, or mistaking a bad behaviour from a partner in a serious relationship as “normal”). I have no regrets trying the hookup culture, and I met so many interesting people and learned so much about my body and sex. But the impersonal nature of hookups can be a bit desensitising, and hopefully he can take away the great parts of hookups and not get caught up in the bad.
It all comes down to communication. It's perfectly ok for someone to say “not right now” or “I'm not feeling up to it”. This is not a personal rejection. Ask for a rain check! 🙂
I dont think thats healthy advice to be honest. If he’s not into it hes not into it
Just tell him you don't want him to do that while you're sleeping. Btw that's sexual assault since you didn't consent to that…
I have a more direct approach to initiating. I just start playing with my husbands dick. He certainly knows what I want after that.
One word – therapy
Do you want Death by Snu Snu?
Why did people downvote this :/
He felt your body reaction and wanted to make sure your good with what happened (he might not know you had a full on orgasm but he felt something). He kissed you, he likes you. Meet up with him and tell him you like him and you want to explore things with him.
He’s also become more possessive and control over the last month, wanting my location and wanting to look through my phone etc. He’s always been jealous but it feel like recently it’s been 2x.. he’s shown up to my job, left work early to make sure I was home and calls repeatedly when I don’t answer him fast enough. You are with someone who is showing all the classic signs of being a potential abuser. Please please please take this seriously. Look at some of these resources: MOSAIC Threat Assessment Systems National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) Sex is not your issue. Keeping yourself safe (and by extension, your two year old safe) are paramount here.
I dont know why guys ask. I've done it before as well so I'm just as guilty of being a dumb ass. Sorry that happened bro.
It's still very early, it is ok if you're feeling shy and don't want to give him every detail. Just tell him you really enjoyed the kiss but were a little surprised since you didn't know he liked you back. Tell him you'd like to do it again sometime and ask if he wants to go on a date with you. If y'all like the dynamic together and things progress towards a relationship, this would be a fun and cute story to share. Communication is important in a relationship, but you're still allowed to have privacy. This isn't something detrimental for him to know, it's ok to take your time.
Threesomes are typically just random fantasy fulfillment. Why would you pass on someone who was a fantastic fit for the rest of your life over threesomes? Also it’s kind of wild to me because I only know like one or two people who have ever had a threesome in real life but so many people (mainly guys) seem to think it’s just a normal part of a sex life or something. The average person has not had a threesome. But I sure see a lot of people on this sub wrecking otherwise good relationships for them or in an attempt to chase having one.
Discuss the use of dietary supplementation with maca root with whoever is prescribing your bupropion. In a double blinded RCT, maca root restored sexual dysfunction in a decently sized cohort on anti-depressants. Oddly, this is the second time I’m talking about this study on Reddit in less than a week.
First of all I think he should at least give you a direction with specific porn suggestions but I digress For me it starts with light touching. I run my fingers at the base of head /top of his shoulders and then just kind of proceed from there. I’m pretty vanilla to be honest lol. If that drops enough of a “let’s do this” vibe I’ll move straight into kissing and then just roll with it from there
Talking you down is one thing. you should ask her to tell you what you do right. Build up your confidence. You are like a kicked dog right now. It sucks when you are trying to please your partner and they are trying to give feedback and it's negative and gets in your head. Perhaps offer suggestions on how she can give feedback without it messing with you
birth control took away my libido, came off it and a year later im so horny I can’t form a thought
Yeah, his name was Jack. We hooked up a few times lol
Boomer here just to say (1) that “unhappy marriage” comic was old when I was young, and (2) I remember my own parents getting pretty blatant about how much they enjoyed sex in their 40s – 50s. They weren't going at it in the living room or anything, but they loved dropping innuendoes that made me blush, and I don't blush easily. I think in Western culture that “women don't really like it” trope goes back only to Victorian times, I think — before that, women were mostly regarded as insatiable. And the Victorian sex phobia is odd, because Queen Victoria was all over her consort and had the babies to prove it. Anyway, either belief is a comfort to men: if they don't satisfy their female partners, it's either because women just don't really like sex, or because they like it so much a man can't realistically hope to satisfy them.
100% yes
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I don’t find it a turn off at all. It can be a hard conversation just due to the social aversion to talking openly about sex and the vulnerability that comes with bringing this topic up. I find that it deepens connection and communication to have this conversation though. As far as bringing it up, I would ask if they would be willing to discuss the topic and just take the conversation slow.
I like talking to nice people, if you are nice I will always talk to you now matter what you look like, because It doesn’t matter