Yeah there’s a few ways it could hurt. You could have a hymen that doesn’t want to stretch past a certain point or starts to tear. You could have a vagina that’s just not very elastic and doesn’t want to stretch. You could have muscles around that area that are slightly tense and you’re fighting against them. Honestly I don’t think you’ll have too much trouble if you can already fit 2 fingers and you can stay relaxed. You can always add some lube as well, but make sure it’s compatible with the condoms he’s wearing. Another thing that sometimes causes painful sex is that his penis goes far enough in to hit the cervix at the back of her vagina. That could happen even if it was narrow enough to slip in comfortably. I would say you’ll be ok, you just need to find some reliable way to not get pregnant.
During the times that it’s extra sensitive, it helps when my wife completely stops moving and let’s me control all movement while I cum. And then after I’m finished, we just stop and make out until it’s comfortable for thrusting to continue again.
Marriage counseling first to resolve the feelings of betrayal and what made her decide it was ok to sleep with this man. Personal therapy to help you work through your emotions. Finally if you work through everything and still are aroused by the thought of her with other men, not completely uncommon, look into open relationships and the possibility of her being a hotwife. Please go through the counseling first. It is an important step, but there are many options that allow you to stay together and continue to explore. Best of luck to you.
Thank you for the advice! Trust me on this one… Never going to the ER again unless something REALLY bad happens. Way way way too expensive. I know it's not an STI because I haven't been sexually active in almost 2 years now and the last partner I was with, I wore condoms and we didn't ever do oral. Like you said, UTI's in males is rare, but if it were one by chance, wouldn't there be pain or something off about my urine? idk, like cloudyness or pain or even blood?
Really not a great option long term unless its your only one. Can causw bone density. Mass amounts of hormones are bad in general, which is why most people opt for the pill, since its a MUCHH lower dose at a time
This … and also beware that people can react defensive when being touched in their sleep 😅
Probably not the wisest move, but damn would it be cathartic for her
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As others say, demisexuality is sort of like that, tho that isn't a strictly female thing
Yeah there’s a few ways it could hurt. You could have a hymen that doesn’t want to stretch past a certain point or starts to tear. You could have a vagina that’s just not very elastic and doesn’t want to stretch. You could have muscles around that area that are slightly tense and you’re fighting against them. Honestly I don’t think you’ll have too much trouble if you can already fit 2 fingers and you can stay relaxed. You can always add some lube as well, but make sure it’s compatible with the condoms he’s wearing. Another thing that sometimes causes painful sex is that his penis goes far enough in to hit the cervix at the back of her vagina. That could happen even if it was narrow enough to slip in comfortably. I would say you’ll be ok, you just need to find some reliable way to not get pregnant.
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Congrats on this, but where’s the question?😂
Just fuk her brains out, thats what she is aiming for. Some hc stuff…
By knowing what not to do you mean not developing feelings? Or do I get this wrong?
During the times that it’s extra sensitive, it helps when my wife completely stops moving and let’s me control all movement while I cum. And then after I’m finished, we just stop and make out until it’s comfortable for thrusting to continue again.
Would he be up for 3somes?
What are you even on about?
Yes it's a huge red flag and a serious lack of respect
Including if he focuses on the clit?
Dont complain if you try it and that makes the relationship fall apart. Just saying
Marriage counseling first to resolve the feelings of betrayal and what made her decide it was ok to sleep with this man. Personal therapy to help you work through your emotions. Finally if you work through everything and still are aroused by the thought of her with other men, not completely uncommon, look into open relationships and the possibility of her being a hotwife. Please go through the counseling first. It is an important step, but there are many options that allow you to stay together and continue to explore. Best of luck to you.
If took almost 7 years for my husband to do it right. Learn how she likes it. Get good at it.
OK that's so good to hear haha
Thank you for the advice! Trust me on this one… Never going to the ER again unless something REALLY bad happens. Way way way too expensive. I know it's not an STI because I haven't been sexually active in almost 2 years now and the last partner I was with, I wore condoms and we didn't ever do oral. Like you said, UTI's in males is rare, but if it were one by chance, wouldn't there be pain or something off about my urine? idk, like cloudyness or pain or even blood?
Shock+loose sphincters?
Blood rushes to and engorges the labia and clitoris during arousal. This is perfectly normal.
Really not a great option long term unless its your only one. Can causw bone density. Mass amounts of hormones are bad in general, which is why most people opt for the pill, since its a MUCHH lower dose at a time
Seems like ur girl got that good good my friend
Terrible take for something someone is revolted by, please domlnt ever coach anyones relationship lol