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No. But he may be exaggerating his discomfort because that is easier than saying I don't want to have more sex. Lol.
DUMP HIS ASS, fuck him, you deserve to feel sexy and loved and have all your needs fulfilled just like he does.
We don't risk being uncomfortable. We just keep sipping our drinks (or something equally fidgety) and wait for the other person to make a move. Stalemate.
Apps have ruined getting to know people. It takes a ton of practice and guts to walk up to a strange and say hi. Apps just ruin the ability to start that conversation
Read what I said again. Cumming faster is not the same as feeling more pleasure.
Na bro. I just want this girl trying to force feed all her future bfs cream of wheat no context for the rest of her life.
My major takeaway from this is that your husband's desire (its origins unknown to him) was focused on you, and passionately! I think that's really cute and just goes to show that exposing yourselves to new situations and stimulation can have interesting effects. How often do you stash a piece of nice underwear somewhere he'll find it? Might be an interesting experiment…
Head over to /r/Selfsuck/ lots of info there.
Be nice to her and tell her good things, like it’s the best relationship you ever had and you feel grateful for being with her, opening the conversation. Be blunt about that it manifests because of your condition and that you feel terrible feeling this way and you hate the thought of hurting her. You can also tell her that you don’t know what to do with it, you only know it’s there and it’s happening. Of course this is not a pleasant conversation to have, but maybe you are overthinking this and your GF will act supporting. Give her the opportunity to decide for herself. I wish you all the best
Yea, we know it's still a little ways a way. She's definitely the more tame of the two of us so it was so hot talking her through what to do and watching her fall in love with it
The answer is whatever the answer you and your partner come up with. You could have two high-libido people who need it every day to be satisfied. You could have two low-libido people that are happy with it once a quarter. Every relationship is different based on the needs and desires of you and your partner. Finding a comfortable zone where you’re both happy and satisfied is a million times more important than ensuring you have it X number of times a week.
You are talking to real human beings. If we were all in a room face to face, would you still have told that story the way you wrote it?
You handled that very poorly… She had protected sex, with someone she loves in a save space. Even from your description you can tell how great she handled the situation. You should apologize to her and talk openly to her. What you did could mess her up really bad…
You have an opportunity here to either make or break your relationship with your daughter. She's an adult and had safe consensual sex. She did nothing wrong and her being autistic does not entitle you to take away her autonomy. I would advise you to cool off and apologize for your reaction. From everything you said it seems she is with someone who genuinely loves her and cares about her. You seeing her as “your innocent little girl” is your issue to deal with, not hers. Don't become someone she will resent in the future.
You “live up” to his anime fetish by being ok with it and asking if he'd be ok sharing that with you too and learning more about him by talking with him about just what about it give him the interest.
I disclose anything that could have an impact ok our sex life, and I would expect them to do the same. I wouldn't need to know if a partner was assaulted, but if they have specific boundaries because of the assault, I would at least need to know what the boundaries are. It's more helpful to know that a sexual trauma took place, however, as I'd be more likely to extrapolate that a partner couldn't do x because they also explicitly told me they couldn't do y. That having been said, the choice to disclose the trauma is up to them. Everyone has their own reasons for being able to talk about it or not talk about it. An inability to talk about it with me isn't a judgement about me. It could just be that they're not ready to talk at all. I'm not going to feel personally hurt if a partner couldn't talk to me about having been assaulted.
I'd be disappointed if you didn't
Fine but not healthy. Anal is the same
Definitely use tongue. Also explore different parts of the body. One of my FWB goes wild when I lick his neck in a figure 8 motion.
As the other guy said, just be honest and truthful about the work that you do. If you are passionate about it, explain to her and show her your work that would speak to her and see it the way you do. Lay out pictures of your work (if you can blur out or censor the faces just to show respect to your models) and do your explanation, treat it as if you are doing a business presentation to a client but in a less formal way. Be open minded and always keep in mind that your partner has ZERO knowledge about it (even if she does) as this will help you have a clear mind and possibly answer her questions without assumption on things. Also bring her in one of your shoots after the talk (if she and the model is willing) just to show her that everything is done professionally and there is no possibility of lust or cheating happening. Best of luck!
Who said about worrying? It isn't really about the kink. It is about his reaction and gaslighting her into thinking she is just a fun killer.
How cowardly are you to bring up assault when he said unwanted attention lol
Most intense orgasm…intercourse + prostate massaged. If he's experimental and you guys haven't tried this, you definitely should.
I remember my early sex life with disdain. For years, no one did anything for me, even if I discussed it. Finally I met a man who was a great lover, and I never went back.
Things changed after we were hanging out with a friend of his and we all got drunk and ended up having a 3some. It was genuinely an enjoyable experience for us and we repeated it several times with other friends of his. I see you two didn’t once actually discuss opening, just dove headfirst in. As someone in an ENM/Open partnership, this is why. It’s a big no-no to just start having an open relationship without any communication long before you open. We continue to have sex a few times a week with just us and I find that I have become indifferent to it. It’s almost like I don’t think it’s worth the effort to get undressed, have sex, and clean myself up afterwards because the level of satisfaction that I get with him alone just isn’t there. That’s because the sex bores you. When we find sex boring, opening it closed, with our primary partner, we will stop having interest in them. Hence why people slowly end up in what is called “dead bedrooms”. I have tried spicing things up in the bedroom by bringing toys, talking about our fetishes, doing roleplay, etc but it’s not working. That’s not why it’s boring. You two aren’t passionately having sex in the sense that the anticipation that leads up to undressing, the way you two are touching each other before touching any genitals, you two stop actually having real genuine foreplay. Great sex has great fore play, even if it’s just between two people. How do I tell him that he doesn’t measure up (literally and figuratively) to his friends without emasculating him. The question is he better at oral? You may want to focus on oral sex more as a need so penetration is better. Sometimes having mind blowing oral sex can in fact make PiV so much better. I wish that he and I never introduced other sexual partners into our relationship. But this is where we are now. Pick up a copy of “Ethical Slut”, it’ll change your world about open relationships and maje you realize you guys skipped steps 1 through 10 when you on a drunk whim had sex with a third. You can back track. Many open people do go back to mono for good or temporary reasons. Some don’t and breakup if it’s something they now realize the other partner wants. Sometimes opening actually creates the cold water in the face effect, waking up one partner to the reality this relationship wasn’t actually as compatibility as they thought and opening just confirmed this.
Oh yeah, me too lol. But I really don't think that's the case here..
It's all fun and great until you get stabbed in the dick with an IUD string
Tbh I dislike cum, main reason is the texture. The precum I don’t mind but cum to me is not my favorite thing. My guess is it has nothing to do with you personally, some people just don’t like the taste/feel of cum. Could something have happened to her in a past relationship? Also, please don’t use disinfectant wipes on her, ever. That’s so bad for the skin.
Maybe he’s being too rough? Going too fast or too big “thrusts” I guess you can say with his hands. I’ve felt like that before with my bf. Try asking him to go a little slower or softer with his movements and see if that helps.
Does it matter if he denies it when deep down you know it’s the truth and he’s lying to you about it?
I don’t have a particular preference for it but I don’t avoid sex if me or my girlfriend are menstruating
We’ve only done it a couple times but I don’t come from it either. I did once, but she was rubbing my dick so I think that was why. As for positions, doggy is pretty obvious but if the dildo is in the harness in the “up” position, she’s not hitting your p spot because it’s on the front wall. I think I’m the back is best but it’s tough if you don’t have good hip flexibility and if you don’t like feeling like a sub or whatever that one may not be fun. Another really good one is you on your side and her on her knees behind. You can pull your butt cheek up and it’s easy to relax in that position. That’s also one of my absolute favorites for regular piv sex too. Another one (which I haven’t tried yet but want to) is standing spread Eagle and laying over something like a bed. I also recommend getting a sex pillow like the wedge and/or ramp from Liberator. They’re amazing for all sorts of stuff, including pegging. Good luck!
Piggybacking because this is true but has an alcohol interaction so be careful. It is common to have a severe headache if you mix Cialis with alcohol. Sauce: this happened to me and it fucked up a good night and I looked it up on the internet a bunch after it happened. I don't suffer from migraines or anything but had a debilitating headache after mixing Cialis with moderate alcohol consumption. Cheers, mate.
I mean, is he dripping spitnso he can slide his thumb in your butt? Otherwise that seems funny. Like the visual is funny. All zoned and just a big old line of spit dripping off of his lip onto your back.
… Waiiiit. This sounds like a fanfic
Not a dealbreaker but I was just talking to my girl the other day about how different a blowjob is when you know you can cum vs trying to hold it back so you don’t surprise your partner with an unwanted mouthful of cum. Also, there is nothing like finishing in your partners mouth and they keep sucking until you feel like you can’t take it anymore. One of my favorite things ever. However, as awesome as that is, I hate doing anything my partner doesn’t like and wouldn’t be able to enjoy it if she felt forced. That’s not fun for anyone. I’m just as happy to give her a warning and she can finish me with her hands.
aw this comment is cute for some reason. but seriously thank you for the advice!
Yup exactly. Both getting routine and caring more. You already know what's up. Good job figuring it out. Everyone has those kind of thoughts because we can't read minds. Just let them come and just as quickly allow them to go. Fear of being judged makes everyone shy and timid. Instead accept you're not perfect and allow yourself to be fine with that.
No I’m way too shy to do that. I’m sure a man like him has a gf anyways
I cross my thighs and then squeeze putting pressure on my genitals until it feels good
I agree with what everyone's saying, and wanted to pick up on one thing: I already compensate for the lack of physical affection doing other nice thing for him, like yesterday I was able to cook his favourite meal with the helps of the kids. That's already way more than you should be doing! You just had a major surgery, he should be cooking you your favourite meal and sucking up the lack of sex. He needs a reality check.
The problem is in your mind.
Sizing is great, very accurate. I do have one! I’ve tried a lot of different brands and RodeoH is by far the most comfortable
Vaginismus is real.
Some people like to hear it. I have to ask permission first, which I love doing, but if you don’t like saying it just tell them that. If they’re doing their job, they’ll know without you explicitly telling them 😉
No bidet?? Good old anal douche! Easy Squeezey!! Prepare for any roll in the hay as though you may receive a thorough bum tonguing!!
Woman here, my boyfriend is a dad and I love that aspect of him, and I love my stepson, but if he were to bring up his son during sex I would be running away. Ewwwwww. I even have a breeding kink since I met him so I will say some pregnancy shit during sex, but everything regarding him being an actual dad would give me the ick and doesn't belong in our sex life. Especially anything implying he's my dad. I mean, it's great for people who enjoy it and whatever floats your boat, but it's one of those things I don't understand… And I'm into BDSM and sort of extreme shit. Maybe it's because I'm old enough to be a mom and my boyfriend is a dad.
We have MANY toys, I just so happen to be her favorite one
Some men definitely enjoy it. You see it a lot in BD/sm relationships, though it's not specific to that. Some men are indifferent. Some will feel badly if they make you gag. I would guess that many are in the indifferent to enjoy it category. If he kept pushing your head down, I'd venture to believe he's in the enjoy it category. Communicate that you don't enjoy that and you are not giving him that control to push your head down. If you feel the need, tell him to keep his hands off your head altogether. Sex is always a two way street, your feelings matter too. If that ends up being something he needs, he can find it elsewhere if it's not something you want.
everything will smell like latex, sweat, and genitals. It’s normal. Your penis is also right next to your balls so if your dick is getting wet so will your balls, generally speaking.
Bro your entire post history is about her sex life. If you have this much of an issue with it and you still haven't communicated it to her directly, break up.
Sadly don't have a vibrator, but that is intriguing 👀
Sounds like you did great, you warmed her up, had sex and still pleased her afterwards. If more guys did this, women we be much better off.
Yes
He wasn't bad at it by any means. I have a high libido. And I wasn't getting enough.
I watched some and will definitely be sharing this! Thank you! 🙂
You reminded me of when I was reading a science textbook and then I asked my mum what public hair was 😭
It's because you only have meet boys. You need a real man. We don't mind some hair. Just my two cents
Get DNA test if it's not yours then dump her. It's not selfish at all
Just go for it! Does he know you were a virgin? Just start kissing down his body until you get to his penis. Then give it a kiss and go to town. He’s not gonna hate it. If anything he’ll help guide you.
I read just fine, but you should probably break up with him. Save the dude from having to put up with you bitching
Try to weigh the pros and cons of each situation. Ie. Staying as it currently is and being positive and patient, trying to open the relationship(gl with that one), cheating or leaving. Is not having sex THE deal breaker for you?
I've always been confused by the whole “can't consent while drunk”. Even if the other party is drunk Why is it that way but then- If you get behind the the wheel of a vehicle, get into a fight, or kill someone…you will be held criminally liable.
Express And direct
As a guy I'm glad to hear that a woman actually edges herself that many times, I love to do that. Also thanks for the info on the g spot, I think I was going too deep when I tried it with her, now I know not to go that deep. Thanks for the info
Her statement was definitely insensitive. But there is a thing as masturbating tooo much. Idk what’s normal or not- I personally think it’s subjectively but over stimulation will mess with your nerve endings
I wouldn't be mad. Sex is tiring and if he wants to get off, why not? Long as I get sex too lol
Well, I'm not saying no but it's making me uncomfortable
but she still didn’t say that porn was the cause. she says that sex & intimacy waned & then says he watches porn. in her lengthy post not once did she say my bf won’t have sex w/ me & instead watches porn. she does not mention if she initiates at all & if he rejects her.
Yup
It really is not that hard to clean yourself out thoroughly with a few deep enemas. I would consider that absolutely necessary if you are going to be doing anal, otherwise it's just disgusting. I would absolutely make sure I was cleaned out as much as possible when I did butt stuff and stuff like that was almost never a problem, and if it was I'd stop right away because I hate it as well. Also, whist I'm single as hell now, when I had a gf pegging was something we'd do rarely as I don't think most women like it that much. It was more because I was the dom 90% of the time, so I played it into allowing her to “get her own back on me” occasionally, which I think she enjoyed? I mean I've had some mind-blowing orgasms from it but It was never the first thing we did because at the end of the day, you are just dry humping someone with a bit of plastic. You have to be really turned on by the idea or close to cumming (or both) for it to be fun imo.
Sounds like you two aren’t sexually compatible.
I think its just a better experience if you decide to have sex, its with someone who you care about and feel like you have a connection to, especially if you are showing signs of worry about how someone would react to you.
Sharp face looks hot, could be achieved just by using eyeliner. Wide hips and V necks are like eye candy. That's it think.
Maybe grow a beard? If you have a good personality, are funny, and have a good career, you don't need to be great looking.
You should always get verbal consent from new partners because you're still learning about each other, but consent isn't always verbal. It can be obvious or more subtle, but the right person will notice either way. For example, my fiancé was eating me out the other day and he knew almost immediately that I wasn't into it. I was having trouble getting in the mood and he could tell that something was wrong, so we skipped it and just used lube (my decision). “No means no” is a little misleading, especially to those who don't want to read between the lines. In reality, many things mean no. “I'm not interested,” “I'm not sure,” “Um, I guess so,” silence, etc.
How would you go about it though?
They are probably too slow.
The rubbing alcohol can make the shower floor slippery if it spills, but generally you take a few drops, rub your hands together, and then rub the oil into your skin. There shouldn't be much spillage. I will say that the oil, once you rinse it off, can eventually build up in your pipes.
Be careful. Just bc he said he deleted it doesn't mean he didn't upload it first anywhere or has it saved somewhere
Boy is ur gf in for a treat when she meets the other 4 billion males on earth.
If i'm interested in a relationship then i like to first get to know the person a little so I know I like them before I have sex with them. Have worked so far. Plus you gonna be a bit hornier then cause you been wanting to sleep with them for a little while before you actually do it.
Hey bud, if your worried about how it's gonna go now then it's already off to a bad start. If you aren't interested in watching someone else please your partner, potentially in ways you can't it's not for you. I've had a couple runs with 3sums. A majority of them involved another male. Some were hung like a fucking horse and thats what I wanted for her. It wasn't easy to get past the thought that I'd never give her that experience myself but being apart of it was rewarding in its own way. Just remember sex doesn't define your relationship or the quality of it. It just shows how open minded you are to your partner and without an open mind I highly suggest sticking to toys.
Thanks!
That’s true
The rule (not boundary, you don't enforce boundaries on others) comes from not being able to handle the feelings of her being around a former lover. That is the definition of insecurity
She just wasn't ready mentally and it's okay. Just show her you respect her and keep things PG. You can always use a safe word and check up on her repeatedly if you do anything again. Just next time , try to take five minutes to rethink your choices and make sure you want what you want. It's okay to not feel ready and whatever issues she has she will have go work on them on her own, you just need to be there to support her and make aure she knows ahe is loved and respected eitherways.
I say 'I need to pee, be right back' and go and fart in the bathroom and have a wipe to make sure I'm still squeaky clean.
I am no expert on arthritis but I would think there are natural supplements out there that may help
Someone's trying for the corner office in hell…
As long as you're not using the butt plug while having sex with a married person it's not sodomy. More generally, whether you believe sex not for procreation or in unconventional ways is a sin is between you and God. Personally, I don't think He minds me using the body He gave me to find pleasure in a consensual manner any way I like, and if I'm wrong then Hell sounds like a more fun place than a heaven a God like that would design.
Didn’t say he was raw, did he?
It is definitely hard to tell if it’s him or me. My ex sexually abused me a couple times before I left so sometimes I am more scared of my current partner than necessary. That is also part of his frustration.
Asexuality is a spectrum. Some asexuals don’t feel sexual attraction at all nor enjoy the sex. Others are willing to/like sex but don’t feel the desire. There are also ones who like masturbation or just feel very little sexual desire.
I’d say brainwashing and trauma. The real ONE TWO PUNCH!!
Nothing should be “expected” in any relationship. Communication is key. In every relationship. From your friends to kids to your SO's. Sex shouldn't be different, it should be talked about.
Same. Absofrigginlutely. Like, ok you f*ck me but you don't fund me to GTFO.
Sometimes I'll tell my partner before we start that I don't plan to have an orgasm. It relieves a lot of pressure from me and gets my fears out in the open. I can focus on how I feel instead of striving for a goal.
It's understandable that you feel frustrated and unfair about the situation. In any relationship, sexual compatibility and mutual pleasure are important factors. If you feel uncomfortable or unfulfilled in the bedroom, it's important to communicate this with your partner and try to find a compromise that works for both of you. It's important to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your feelings and concerns. Let him know that it's not fair for him to expect you to perform oral sex on him while refusing to reciprocate. Ask him if there is any specific reason why he doesn't like going down on you and if there is anything you can do to make the experience more enjoyable for him. It's important to establish boundaries and stick to them. If you don't feel comfortable giving him oral sex all the time, it's okay to say no. Likewise, if he is not willing to go down on you, that is also his choice. It's important to respect each other's boundaries and work towards finding a compromise that works for both of you. Remember, a healthy and fulfilling relationship requires communication, respect, and compromise. If you can't find a resolution to this issue, it may be worth seeking the help of a couples' therapist or counselor.
She used to full on uppercut
You did a good thing brother, you won’t regret this 5-10 years from now. You learned a lesson without the consequence! There will always he an opportunity to get you dick wet
There’s really nothing that can be done, though. These people are trying to help in the only way they can.
No I have never cum with a normal masturbation, but yes I can “stay” hard if I try that way too, but its not as hard as if I masturbate with a pillow or bed. Is that a good indication that my problem is not irreversible? I dont want to wait for a full year to finally have sex with my gf lol fuck life this is supossed to be the easy step, I already got the girl now I just need to be able to fuck her lmao WHY I CANT NOTE: I cant reach orgasm that way, I find it difficult
That was definitely one of the first things discussed. When roles were reversed somewhat, where she dominated me (she REALLY enjoys that), I never had to use the safe word because I also really enjoyed that dynamic. I'm certainly going into this with all the precautions but overall this is a really new and surprising thing to hear from her.
Choose the toys, obviously (Anyone who poses a ridiculous ultimatum without even having any meaningful conversation first deserves to be dumped. Cut your losses and be glad you dodged that bullet)
Don't put your trust in some other girl. Also, it sounds like the plan is for pull out to be the primary method of BC? Another terrible idea.
The thought just crossed my mind that if you go the ski mask route, you might want to use other scents (soap / deodorant etc) than what you usually wear, to further separate the person in the ski mask from you.
Yessss thanks
I don't know if bargaining power completely applies here because I am pretty overweight. You're offering sex to someone 22 years your senior. I'm assuming he has an indication that you're overweight and is completely fine with it. From personal experience, overweight women can be fantastic in bed, you absolutely have all the bargaining power you can imagine and then some, trust me! people have treated me like shit about it for my entire life Yeah that just sucks, and I'm sorry to hear that. I decided it was time to put myself out there and explore what I am curious about. That's awesome! Good for you! I communicated with him a little more, and we're meeting in public first. If the vibes are off after that, then nothing has to happen. That's fair. As long as your friends know where you are, and his address too, and you use common sense, you're being fairly reasonable. Life is a risk and there is only so much one can do. But if the vibes don't check out, trust your inner-voice and bail. But good luck! I hope that you have an amazing time! 🙂
Hello there! It's nice to hear about your experience. However for posts of this kind we have the daily sexual achievement thread. You're welcome to post it there; while I'll remove this one.
I hope you can leave your abusive relationship soon. As for the exploration… Ideally it should never stop. I am in my thirties and every year it just gets better. If anything you are still very young 🙂 Enjoy the road ahead!
Nah, it'd be fun to know though if he indeed was one.
This sub has unrealistic answers when it comes to anal. It's like taking a shit basically the entire time
That’s 100% been my experience with submissive women as well. They want to be fucked and dominated but that requires you to do all the mental and physical work and it’s exhausting.
Would it be hot or horrible if he held your legs back and didn't give you the chance to squirm away? My wife was struggling with how to deal with the 'too much' sensation and the only thing that seemed to help was just powering through the feeling to the orgasm on the other side. We went from her asking me to stop all the time to her rarely asking me to stop. We are about 9 months into exploring this. And yes, it's going to make a mess, a very sexy mess.
Yeah isn't that renewed sexual energy and drive the reason why a lot of people do this stuff in the first place?
Wish I was there, always fancied a threesum, never been lucky
I agree, so I have no plans doing that. She's obviously not planning on telling me either. Not that she necessarily has any reason to anyway. Nope, as stated in the post.
It probably just surprised him and he got turned off. He may have thought he did something wrong and it scared him and he needed time to process. It’s not your fault and I’m sure he doesn’t think anything different of you for something that naturally happens and out of your control. Talk to him calmly about it when you feel is right to clear the air. I’m sure it will go just fine.
I agree, hindsight and all that. Staying messed up my daughter way more than I thought it would, and I deeply regret it.
Sex educator here: It’s a combination of PC muscle control and also just overall endurance. So I always recommend people get in better shape as orgasm is a muscular response. That said, one of the easiest ways to prolong sex aside from doing kegel exercises is to focus on breathing deeply during sex. People don’t realize that they’re straining like a weightlifter and thus tensing their leg muscles and simultaneously robbing their muscles of oxygen from lack of breathing. So relaxing your muscles (especially legs) and breathing deeply can help you last longer. And their dicks don’t get desensitized, but their brains do. And yes, they don’t feel the need to ejaculate until they build up to it. And yes, switching it up also helps. If you feel yourself building up toward orgasm early, slow up the pace, change the angle, etc. to give yourself different stimuli. As for the boundaries talk, keep it simple the first time and stay within the lines. It’s always good to let them know that you’ll respect boundaries, and especially that you have condoms and care about their health. But save the advanced boundary talk about safe words for once you’re more comfortable with each other and you can start busting out the more advanced sex acts.
You should take legal action against her. She didn’t disclose her std to you before engaging in intercourse. She willingly withheld that information and it could be detrimental to you and your life. I’d definitely look into suing her.
No it's not offensive at all, she just wants you to be clean. I would get it if she said 'oh you smell disgusting, here's a baby wipe' then i would find this offensive.
You could try out a thigh harness, which might help with some of the dysphoria by putting the pegging device somewhere other than your groin.
Be open about it. But in reality this will be a lot more complicated. Try to get to know them before engaging in sexual activities. Men usually tend to… bend reality when it comes to sexual prowess. I think what you’re looking for is a man with confidence. With a bit of practice you can tell who’s actually confident and the ones who are pretending. Sadly this method is not foolproof, but it usually gets you a good indication.
Yup, that’s how STDS work. Doesn’t matter how many people you sleep with, just that you sleep with an infected person
Good point.
A subtle question with the right body language or hand movements go a long way. Like a hand on his thigh grazing upward while you ask hey you wanna go upstairs? You want to meet me in the bedroom after we finish cleaning/brushing our teeth? Want to have some fun tonight? You don’t have to be so direct if you don’t want to use the word fuck or sex
What?! NO. Bro really? *FACEPALM*
Depends on how safe you want to be and/or on how much of a rush you want straight up If you go with option one, it feeds into an established scenario in both your minds. It'll be the hottest and most taboo choice for you both in the moment but will the drawback of things going south at work if the relationship deteriorates Option two is safer though potentially awkward for you both. You may find yourself not getting into the sex with him as readily as your work mate, and it still has the potential to make things strained between him and your boyfriend and they're besties Option three will be difficult and time consuming to find the right guy. Don't expect to find the right match straight away or even on the 2nd or 3rd attempt. I'd definitely wear protection until a great deal of trust is established
Troll post people, move along.