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1. Try to see it from their perspective though, they really want to have sex and they think there is a chance I might be saying no just to see how much they want it and how much they're willing to try to get me to do it. From their perspective, I just need to firmly say “no” and that's it, that would leave no room for them to hope that I give it up. Maybe they don't realize that if I was as firm as they expect me to be it would totally ruin the mood, especially if we're just getting to know each other.

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2. That is very simple just be honest tell them you want to take things slow and get to thoroughly know each other first because you don't want to have sex too soon even though you really like them and you have to stand your ground if they have a problem with that if they're unwilling to wait and treat you right and spend time with you then they are not worth your time and you need to move on no matter how much you like them because if someone can't respect how you feel and accept that then they're never going to respect you and any other aspect

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4. You do need a therapist then. If it's not any kind of SA, that's great, but SOMETHING is seriously holding you back. Another honest question then because you don't mention it in your post: are you honestly attracted to your boyfriend? If you are sexually shy as you say, and cannot even have sex for medical reasons, have you perhaps discounted how important attraction is to a relationship? If you are not asexual and have no history of SA, your bursting into tears when he initiates sex is a VERY extreme reaction that points to something equally important that your body is positively SCREAMING at you not to ignore – have you perhaps gone with your bf because he's a “safe” choice for you, one who makes you feel safe, warm and cuddly but that's ALL? Ask yourself honestly as you say you've felt attraction and arousal towards a particular celebrity so you are capable of feeling attraction. I'm not asking “is your bf attractive?” because knowing someone is attractive and FEELING attracted to them are two different things. Have you EVER looked at your bf and felt those flutters you describe?

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5. His hands

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6. I had this exact conversation with my husband last week after I asked if this was a problem. Here was the outcome. (His words paraphrased) So yes, there is a loss of feeling friction making it super slippery and there is less feeling, but it is not a bad thing. The wetness is good because it is validation of how good he is doing/ how much I am enjoying him. Another thing is when I orgasm and my vagina convulses and tightens the wetness makes it really good for him like I am pulling him into me. He finds it really hot. From me now, if it is a problem for your partner, try some keigels and focus on constricting and releasing your vaginal muscles during sex it can provide more sensation and for me it can create back to back orgasms.

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