Well that’s some personal shit that you have to workout then. I understand disappointment can be a troubling thing to deal with for many, it’s okay to be selfish when it comes to sex as long as you make your intentions clear and don’t lead people on getting them to think it’s anything more. As long as you follow those guidelines then it’s on them. If disappointing others is that much of an issue I’d recommend speaking to a therapist if you feel it can effect day to day interactions with others. If not it might just need to be something you train yourself on
Well that’s some personal shit that you have to workout then. I understand disappointment can be a troubling thing to deal with for many, it’s okay to be selfish when it comes to sex as long as you make your intentions clear and don’t lead people on getting them to think it’s anything more. As long as you follow those guidelines then it’s on them. If disappointing others is that much of an issue I’d recommend speaking to a therapist if you feel it can effect day to day interactions with others. If not it might just need to be something you train yourself on
I can understand feeling like that but I would never share it, let alone with someone I was dating.