So you've told him you feel ill and you're spewing unpleasant, non-sexy fluids out of each of these three holes he loves so much, and he still wants to stick his dick into them? I almost admire his resolve but also that's pretty fucked up, especially because you don't feel up to it. It's possible he's just not getting the concept, or maybe he doesn't care quite enough, which is what I worry about. If he doesn't care that you even feel ok, that is not acceptable.
No. He is. But talk to him about what you want. And how. You will open his mind and you will both have far better sex.
Obviously, communication is always the key and this case, it's going to be a very carefully planned conversation.
So you've told him you feel ill and you're spewing unpleasant, non-sexy fluids out of each of these three holes he loves so much, and he still wants to stick his dick into them? I almost admire his resolve but also that's pretty fucked up, especially because you don't feel up to it. It's possible he's just not getting the concept, or maybe he doesn't care quite enough, which is what I worry about. If he doesn't care that you even feel ok, that is not acceptable.