I more want to do it for personal reasons. I want to regain some sensitivity and overall try and lower my sex drive because it can be distracting at times.
not stupid because i would feel the same way… i want to be desired by him, but that's pretty much ALL I want. It's kind of hypocritical of me I guess, because I want something (to be totally fully sexually desired) that I can't give back to my partner. It's not really fair. I get that.
But that’s the same risk as when licks the vagina yet no one talks about it there. Or does it need to get in deeper?
I more want to do it for personal reasons. I want to regain some sensitivity and overall try and lower my sex drive because it can be distracting at times.
not stupid because i would feel the same way… i want to be desired by him, but that's pretty much ALL I want. It's kind of hypocritical of me I guess, because I want something (to be totally fully sexually desired) that I can't give back to my partner. It's not really fair. I get that.
I haven’t asked today…. I’m just too nervous 😟
Thank you for the advice! Very insightful to my dilemma. Not easy at all.