I lost mine after being on a medication for about 18 months. It came back only slightly. Foreplay worked well, as did just having sex. It seems like the more I had, the more I wanted. After a few days without, it was back to ground zero to start over again.
I love PIV. I love the feeling and I love being intimate with my husband. It is hard for many women to orgasm through PIV alone so that is normal. I myself have only done it a handful of times, I find it easier to orgasm through PIV if I’ve already orgasmed at least once from oral or toys. Regardless, everyone is different but yes that is something I greatly enjoy!
Good for you. I'm 51m and my wife is 50f been married 27 years, we have more sex now than ever. Sometimes 4 or 5 times a week. Sometimes we can't do multiple rounds. But we don't stop. Alot of times I will pull it out and cum in her mouth and hurry up and stick it back in her pussy. Sometime times it works and sometimes Nope not at all. My ego is to make her happy.
I've spent hundreds if not thousands on all sort of lingerie and though yes it's for my lover then or husband's now eyes …… they were more so for me. Wearing lingerie has always made me feel sexy and naughty so when I see the look on his face when he sees me wearing a skimpy, see thru teddy hmmmmm!!! Sets the right mood. Yes it probably will end up on the floor besides the bed but it's been worth every penny in my opinion 😜
Give her time, it's only two encounters. You know your dick better than any woman ever will and no the precise combination of techniques and grip pressure needed to cum so of course you can take care of business. She's going in blind and having to figure out the combination herself so of course it's a struggle. Having her watch you masterbste or just make mental notes of what it is you are doing to yourself that makes you able to finish and then relay that info to her. From there its just a matter of time and patience
The nature of a kink is that it originates from our subconscious so while I wouldn't say they're permanent, trying to deprogram your own subconsciousness isn't very straightforward. If you're with someone who has a cuck fetish and you're not into that at all, the most you could do is roleplay it with him but I could imagine how even that might be a step too far for someone's interests. In general, relationships between people who don't share the same kink are going to be inherently difficult in regards to sexual fulfillment. I'm not saying it needs to be instant break-up but it does require a fair amount of patience, negotiation and compromise.
Porn is performance. Off camera, there is a lot of planning, uncomfortable positions for the sake of getting specific camera views, and expectations from directors who hold your paycheck. Sex is not purely for pleasure in that environment. It’s work. Having sex with you, will be purely for the pleasure of your company. Pornstars are not going to be looking for a woman to act the same way outside of porn. This isn’t to say that there won’t be acts that he won’t want to being with him from work, but that’s where communication comes in. Don’t try to perform, he will likely notice. Just be yourself and be open to trying fun things with him. If he’s good at his job, he will be an excellent communicator, will make you feel comfortable, and will rock your world. Just be yourself. Comparing will keep you in your head and away from the sex.
Honestly, you should seek therapy. I don’t mean that in a condescending way. That’s a highly self destructive trait and you’re gonna really hurt people along the way just indulging this the way you are.
He's a jerk! He is either guilty of something or insecure as fuck. You are 22, you got all these hormones running through you. He should be so excited you got a high libido. Do not feel like crap young lady! You did nothing wrong, he is the one that should be feeling crappy. Just give him space, no calling, no texting, just space. You deserve an apology
From what I read if someone correctly there is 96% if people did it correctly. I’m not saying it’s easy and that everyone should do it. All I’m saying is that if some correctly it is effective. Using the withdrawal method isn’t nothing btw still a form of birth control.
Depends mostly on our libidos, and stressors, which definitely don’t always match. Rn though, after 17 years together (in 30s) we’re having the best sex of our lives (about 5-6 days per week)
Have you considered a position like 69, so you can both have fun at the same time? (Doesn't always work due to bodies getting in the way, but if it does, it's usually quite enjoyable for everyone). Don't feel bad that it takes time. I'm sure he doesn't mind, especially if he's never made you cum before. Consider it like climbing a mountain together. The first time could take way longer, but once you've summited together, it should get easier next time. Next time, when you feel the need to do stuff to him, either hold off and give him an extra reward if he can get you off (head later or some jazz usually works 😉 ) or switch back and forth repeatedly until you've cum. Don't give in and give up. That won't solve anything, and will only perpetuate the mental block it sounds like you're setting up in your head.
Thanks. Yeah it’s been 3 days so not sure if plan b will help. Sorry I’m not too experienced sexually. Do you think it’s ok to engage in foreplay like rubbing the penis on the clit/vagina without a condom?
Lotus flower I had a past partner that was significantly taller and most of this height was his torso. It worked perfectly bc I ended up being face to face (more or less) with him
Nah, he's being weirdly controlling about your body and sexuality. Does he ever masturbate? I bet he does. If he makes a big deal about it, tell him to kick rocks.
Mine too… sometimes if I’m not giving them enough attention she’ll just grab my hand and tell me to squeeze them, or she’ll shove her tits in my face and tell me to suck them.
I’m really experienced too, so is my wife. But sometimes when she really really wants to start going, it’ll just slip out. Like I always imagine a 8-9 incher could handle when she starts really going.
Restraints can be fun.
If you don’t want to do it, then no is a completely acceptable answer. Don’t do anything you don’t want to.
Double ender?
I lost mine after being on a medication for about 18 months. It came back only slightly. Foreplay worked well, as did just having sex. It seems like the more I had, the more I wanted. After a few days without, it was back to ground zero to start over again.
Came here to ask if she was already using a steroid or steroid cream because that can cause skin thinning!
I don’t talk about my sexual exploits in great detail here or anywhere really
I love really much! But the quality of feelings depends of level of my of sexual arousal and monthly cycle too.
I love PIV. I love the feeling and I love being intimate with my husband. It is hard for many women to orgasm through PIV alone so that is normal. I myself have only done it a handful of times, I find it easier to orgasm through PIV if I’ve already orgasmed at least once from oral or toys. Regardless, everyone is different but yes that is something I greatly enjoy!
Good for you. I'm 51m and my wife is 50f been married 27 years, we have more sex now than ever. Sometimes 4 or 5 times a week. Sometimes we can't do multiple rounds. But we don't stop. Alot of times I will pull it out and cum in her mouth and hurry up and stick it back in her pussy. Sometime times it works and sometimes Nope not at all. My ego is to make her happy.
it’s not the size of the wave but the motion of the ocean brotha
I've spent hundreds if not thousands on all sort of lingerie and though yes it's for my lover then or husband's now eyes …… they were more so for me. Wearing lingerie has always made me feel sexy and naughty so when I see the look on his face when he sees me wearing a skimpy, see thru teddy hmmmmm!!! Sets the right mood. Yes it probably will end up on the floor besides the bed but it's been worth every penny in my opinion 😜
Give her time, it's only two encounters. You know your dick better than any woman ever will and no the precise combination of techniques and grip pressure needed to cum so of course you can take care of business. She's going in blind and having to figure out the combination herself so of course it's a struggle. Having her watch you masterbste or just make mental notes of what it is you are doing to yourself that makes you able to finish and then relay that info to her. From there its just a matter of time and patience
Different strokes for different folks
The nature of a kink is that it originates from our subconscious so while I wouldn't say they're permanent, trying to deprogram your own subconsciousness isn't very straightforward. If you're with someone who has a cuck fetish and you're not into that at all, the most you could do is roleplay it with him but I could imagine how even that might be a step too far for someone's interests. In general, relationships between people who don't share the same kink are going to be inherently difficult in regards to sexual fulfillment. I'm not saying it needs to be instant break-up but it does require a fair amount of patience, negotiation and compromise.
Porn is performance. Off camera, there is a lot of planning, uncomfortable positions for the sake of getting specific camera views, and expectations from directors who hold your paycheck. Sex is not purely for pleasure in that environment. It’s work. Having sex with you, will be purely for the pleasure of your company. Pornstars are not going to be looking for a woman to act the same way outside of porn. This isn’t to say that there won’t be acts that he won’t want to being with him from work, but that’s where communication comes in. Don’t try to perform, he will likely notice. Just be yourself and be open to trying fun things with him. If he’s good at his job, he will be an excellent communicator, will make you feel comfortable, and will rock your world. Just be yourself. Comparing will keep you in your head and away from the sex.
Is it because it's fake or because she is doing as you directed?
Honestly, you should seek therapy. I don’t mean that in a condescending way. That’s a highly self destructive trait and you’re gonna really hurt people along the way just indulging this the way you are.
He's a jerk! He is either guilty of something or insecure as fuck. You are 22, you got all these hormones running through you. He should be so excited you got a high libido. Do not feel like crap young lady! You did nothing wrong, he is the one that should be feeling crappy. Just give him space, no calling, no texting, just space. You deserve an apology
Yup well he just did a relationship-ending performance! Congrats on losing the loser, op.
He was just striking out in anger. Stupid thing to do
From what I read if someone correctly there is 96% if people did it correctly. I’m not saying it’s easy and that everyone should do it. All I’m saying is that if some correctly it is effective. Using the withdrawal method isn’t nothing btw still a form of birth control.
Depends mostly on our libidos, and stressors, which definitely don’t always match. Rn though, after 17 years together (in 30s) we’re having the best sex of our lives (about 5-6 days per week)
Wrap your heels around his legs and let the tension flow that way. Also, he'll love it.
:((( thsnks
If you're gonna party at Mr. Poops house, don't be surprised when he shows up.
What about male nudes or shirtless pics of men? Can that be a turn on?
not really though. yes, there IS trace amounts of urine but it definitely is not all just piss.
Have you considered a position like 69, so you can both have fun at the same time? (Doesn't always work due to bodies getting in the way, but if it does, it's usually quite enjoyable for everyone). Don't feel bad that it takes time. I'm sure he doesn't mind, especially if he's never made you cum before. Consider it like climbing a mountain together. The first time could take way longer, but once you've summited together, it should get easier next time. Next time, when you feel the need to do stuff to him, either hold off and give him an extra reward if he can get you off (head later or some jazz usually works 😉 ) or switch back and forth repeatedly until you've cum. Don't give in and give up. That won't solve anything, and will only perpetuate the mental block it sounds like you're setting up in your head.
Thanks. Yeah it’s been 3 days so not sure if plan b will help. Sorry I’m not too experienced sexually. Do you think it’s ok to engage in foreplay like rubbing the penis on the clit/vagina without a condom?
33 and his parents don't approve? Leave this boy and find a man.
But that in male tho
Lotus flower I had a past partner that was significantly taller and most of this height was his torso. It worked perfectly bc I ended up being face to face (more or less) with him
Having a pullout game is an excellent way to have an unwanted pregnancy.
Nah, he's being weirdly controlling about your body and sexuality. Does he ever masturbate? I bet he does. If he makes a big deal about it, tell him to kick rocks.
Husband of the year right here
Mine too… sometimes if I’m not giving them enough attention she’ll just grab my hand and tell me to squeeze them, or she’ll shove her tits in my face and tell me to suck them.
Put the butt plug in you.
Can you just let a man dream? Lol jk but seriously my nails are not an issue.
Girl, you shouldn't be in any type of relationship, if this is your relationship to yourself. Stay single and seek growth within first. This is wild.
Get yourself going a bit before it starts, and it probably won’t take as long.
I’m really experienced too, so is my wife. But sometimes when she really really wants to start going, it’ll just slip out. Like I always imagine a 8-9 incher could handle when she starts really going.
IUD hurt like hell. I had my period straight for 7 months. But it last for 8 years so I love it ♥️
Dude sound like a loser
Yeah the ponding away might be an issue. Measured stokes with a slight pause at the end of each might help.