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1. First, I would let your BF read this post. I commend you for being reasonable in his discomfort, it must really suck for him to have seen those videos, no matter how secure and confident he is, I can see this being soul crushing. Your ex on the other hand… I’m no legal expert but this sounds like revenge porn violation, you should look into this and make sure there are consequences for him. He knew what he was doing when he did this and it’s sad to see that it had the intended effect.

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2. This isn't a perfect analogy but if you think of desire as being similar to hunger, then the differences are like this: Spontaneous desire = you're hungry all the time. Even if you just had a meal, you still feel the desire for more. Responsive desire = you're really only hungry when someone puts food in front of you or you taste a dish first, then that triggers your hunger. But that feeling of hunger doesn't show up out of nowhere. Something has to initiate it (hence: responsive) This is why people with spontaneous desire have a really hard time understanding people with responsive desire. For the SD person, they think “my god, why aren't you hungry? I'm hungry all the time, how the hell are you not hungry, like me?” And the RD person would simply say “I just don't feel it. Even if I got a long time without eating, I won't get hungry. But if someone gives me something tasty to try, then I can get hungry.” The main difference here is that you will literally die of hunger whereas no one dies from lack of sex but you get the idea, hopefully. So your BF basically doesn't get hungry on his own. Like, the idea of eating (having sex) doesn't just randomly pop into his head. He needs something more to kickstart his desire. In contrast, your desire probably just shows out, seemingly anywhere, anytime, right? That feels natural to you. Well, same for your BF. His responsive desire feels natural to him. And to be really really clear: his desire isn't about you. I know it feels personal but it's not. He can find you to be attractive and sexy and awesome but his desire to be with you sexually rarely will emerge spontaneously in the same way to pops up for you. The fact that, as you say, “his dick gets perfectly hard whenever I touch him” indicates that, yes indeed, he is responsive to your sexually. But he needs that touch. It doesn't get hard without you initiating.

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3. I feel, for the most part, that there are several factors here, not one particular thing. Pretty much, if you're enthusiastic, willing to try things, and vocal about what you like, that makes for amazing sex. If you want to get better at handies or BJ's just ask, “Which feels better, this or this?” My lady (whom I consider amazing in bed) and I, like it a little rough (more Mr & Mrs Smith than BDSM, although we've dabbled some). We also love dirty talk, mostly just narration of what's going on or what we want or like, using cuss words; if it sounds like porn we're doing it right. I also love it when she suddenly takes control and just uses me to satisfy her own needs. When this happens, I'm usually finishing right behind her. Just some ideas. PS: Do your Kegal exercises regularly.

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4. Bodily autonomy means the woman in question gets to decide what feels good to her, and especially what she wants to do or strive for with her body. OP said she wants to not squirt anymore, and instead of being supportive, you compared her question to some sort of self mutilation. If you were really trying to be supportive of her and validate her, you would have just given your suggestions (although the ones you gave aren't backed by any science or anecdotes from other women in the thread). Hope that helps, love you too

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