This sounds like black magic to me, but im super happy for you! My partner stumbled upon some pictures when she was growing up so she might be a bit paranoid in the privacy department but as long as we're careful hopefully we will be able to go the same route as you.
I think people don't realize that we are all responsible for our own orgasm. Yes, it is important to be a giving, generous lover, and to find a partner like that. But at the end of the day it is up to yourself to communicate what you need to get off. If your partner isn't able or willing to do that it's up to you to decide if that's a deal breaker. Plus, I think an orgasm is an orgasm, shouldn't matter a whole lot if it's from masturbating, a toy, or your partners penis/mouth/fingers. What matters is if they're still involved in the orgasm. I find it very intimate and enjoyable for my bf to kiss and touch me while I rub my clit or use my vibrator to cum if I'm too sensitive for oral sex. This is not an inferior way to cum vs him doing it “directly”. It's just different. What's important is that he's involved and cares about my pleasure, even after he's cum. I would not want to stay with a man who either doesn't try or does not care. But sometimes you only realize this disparity of orgasm prioritization after you've had sex, and for some that may be months or years down the road. Lucky for me i had sex the first date so I didn't have to wait to find out.
That’s kind of weird
This sounds like black magic to me, but im super happy for you! My partner stumbled upon some pictures when she was growing up so she might be a bit paranoid in the privacy department but as long as we're careful hopefully we will be able to go the same route as you.
Umm well we’re long distance so it’s kinda me sayin the stuff to her
If he likes eating you out, it means he loves you, Otherwise dump him.
I think people don't realize that we are all responsible for our own orgasm. Yes, it is important to be a giving, generous lover, and to find a partner like that. But at the end of the day it is up to yourself to communicate what you need to get off. If your partner isn't able or willing to do that it's up to you to decide if that's a deal breaker. Plus, I think an orgasm is an orgasm, shouldn't matter a whole lot if it's from masturbating, a toy, or your partners penis/mouth/fingers. What matters is if they're still involved in the orgasm. I find it very intimate and enjoyable for my bf to kiss and touch me while I rub my clit or use my vibrator to cum if I'm too sensitive for oral sex. This is not an inferior way to cum vs him doing it “directly”. It's just different. What's important is that he's involved and cares about my pleasure, even after he's cum. I would not want to stay with a man who either doesn't try or does not care. But sometimes you only realize this disparity of orgasm prioritization after you've had sex, and for some that may be months or years down the road. Lucky for me i had sex the first date so I didn't have to wait to find out.