It sounds like either you're not into this guy at all, or you are asexual. If cuddling and kissing is one of the things that you need from your SO, how would you feel if you discovered that they really don't care for it, could do without, but are doing it to placate you?
No being sick makes no difference but you seriously need to educate yourself on sex, risks, birth control etc before you have sex again
It sounds like either you're not into this guy at all, or you are asexual. If cuddling and kissing is one of the things that you need from your SO, how would you feel if you discovered that they really don't care for it, could do without, but are doing it to placate you?
you're performing just fine, dude!