You canât , youâve done it and he is selfish and lazy so yeah – you are too much for him. Everybody deserves partners who are willing to give and to receive and it shouldnât be battle. If someone doesnât understand the principle of equality then itâs time to move on. Find someone with matching sex drive.
Older guy here, so take my comment with that knowledge. đ In my 40âs I had several flings with women in their mid to late twenties. I got universally fantastic feedback. Two of them literally wrote me thank you notes. Another one I caught up with after a couple of years and she said that our time together completely changed what she looked for in a partner. Because it isnât just about being a lover â itâs about attentiveness, knowing how to listen, being responsible and showing up on time, and having experience and practice at both life and the bedroom. I know that Iâm a far better lover now than I was in my twenties – and a lot of that really is skill and control over my own body. That said, be careful for manipulative bastards. Those are definitely out there.
Sorry Iâm not quite sure what youâre asking but Iâm assuming itâs something along the lines of âif she should have him stop using condoms because he wonât have sex with her?â If thatâs the question Iâd say no, like I said she shouldnât stop just cause he doesnât want to have sex. However itâs well within his right to not want to have sex as much as it is her right to wanna use condoms and itâs unfair to push him if he doesnât want to. Just like it would be unfair to push her to stop using condoms.
You canât , youâve done it and he is selfish and lazy so yeah – you are too much for him. Everybody deserves partners who are willing to give and to receive and it shouldnât be battle. If someone doesnât understand the principle of equality then itâs time to move on. Find someone with matching sex drive.
Older guy here, so take my comment with that knowledge. đ In my 40âs I had several flings with women in their mid to late twenties. I got universally fantastic feedback. Two of them literally wrote me thank you notes. Another one I caught up with after a couple of years and she said that our time together completely changed what she looked for in a partner. Because it isnât just about being a lover â itâs about attentiveness, knowing how to listen, being responsible and showing up on time, and having experience and practice at both life and the bedroom. I know that Iâm a far better lover now than I was in my twenties – and a lot of that really is skill and control over my own body. That said, be careful for manipulative bastards. Those are definitely out there.
Kiss him, initiate french kiss, made his penis erect again
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Sorry Iâm not quite sure what youâre asking but Iâm assuming itâs something along the lines of âif she should have him stop using condoms because he wonât have sex with her?â If thatâs the question Iâd say no, like I said she shouldnât stop just cause he doesnât want to have sex. However itâs well within his right to not want to have sex as much as it is her right to wanna use condoms and itâs unfair to push him if he doesnât want to. Just like it would be unfair to push her to stop using condoms.
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