I've come to the conclusion that I must be somewhere between meh and terrible at sex Rather than blindly guess this, why not ask someone you've been with for feedback? You're not in a relationship with them so they have nothing to lose in being candid with you. It could be there's some wholly other reason why folks aren't trying to put you on their speed dial for hooking up.
Sounds like you need some couples counseling. Reddit can only get you so far with such limited info. I’m sorry your heart has to bare this burden. Your husband seems to have completely checked out, and you have every right to strive for something better. Couples counseling is a start, don’t DIY this.
When you play in the mud you just might get mud on you. She's a clown
Do not seek private chat in /r/sex
I've come to the conclusion that I must be somewhere between meh and terrible at sex Rather than blindly guess this, why not ask someone you've been with for feedback? You're not in a relationship with them so they have nothing to lose in being candid with you. It could be there's some wholly other reason why folks aren't trying to put you on their speed dial for hooking up.
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Sounds like you need some couples counseling. Reddit can only get you so far with such limited info. I’m sorry your heart has to bare this burden. Your husband seems to have completely checked out, and you have every right to strive for something better. Couples counseling is a start, don’t DIY this.