Oof, tough situation… you are battling morals and standards (pre-marital sex) while also living in violation of morals and standards (deceptive lies)… Can I also add: if the string, forgiving bonds of love can’t overpower the haunting subconscious mind of “dirty penis”…. I don’t think anyone can help you through these circumstances…
He is being stupid.. the vagina does not become more loose it is probably that you’re more comfortable and accommodated to him. Tell him there’s nothing to be upset about.
This. Focus on pleasure, not orgasm, and you can achieve both. Focus on being more vocal about what specific sensations you want, with constant positive feedback. “Touch me here” “Your mouth feels so good on me” “I need your tongue inside me” etc. And debrief the positives outside of sex, to emphasize that he's doing good and should continue. He took himself not being able to pleasure you at first as a failure that likely resonated with some personal insecurities. It can take time and effort to get past it, but if he's worth it then it's totally feasible.
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Just check it in a couple of days?
Oof, tough situation… you are battling morals and standards (pre-marital sex) while also living in violation of morals and standards (deceptive lies)… Can I also add: if the string, forgiving bonds of love can’t overpower the haunting subconscious mind of “dirty penis”…. I don’t think anyone can help you through these circumstances…
Very good
honestly if she just copy pasted this reddit post it would probably be pretty effective
Act like a big boy and use your words.
He is being stupid.. the vagina does not become more loose it is probably that you’re more comfortable and accommodated to him. Tell him there’s nothing to be upset about.
This. Focus on pleasure, not orgasm, and you can achieve both. Focus on being more vocal about what specific sensations you want, with constant positive feedback. “Touch me here” “Your mouth feels so good on me” “I need your tongue inside me” etc. And debrief the positives outside of sex, to emphasize that he's doing good and should continue. He took himself not being able to pleasure you at first as a failure that likely resonated with some personal insecurities. It can take time and effort to get past it, but if he's worth it then it's totally feasible.
110% gay in fact
See cunnlingus video on xvideos. It is Indian kamasutra style video. It may look like porn but it is very descriptive regarding what to do .