In my younger days I could do two back to back if it had even a while since my last encounter. If it had only been a day or two it would take about 5 to 10 minutes before I could âre-loadâ. I never really thought that much about it till after my second divorce. I was dating this lady about 10 years older than me and after I came, I paused just long enough to finish ejaculating . She pulled me tight and we were kissing and I just kept slow stroking and she pushed me back a little so she could see my face. She asked me, âdid you not cum?â I said yeah why? She said youâre still going. I looked sort of confused and she said men usually get soft after. I told her I do sometimes but when really horny and turned on like you have me I usually donât till the second time. She was surprised but smiled a big smile and said well ok then, and we went back at it. (This was our first time together btw) We were not exclusive more of a FWB thing and she worked in the store I hauled fuel for. I came in to work a few days later and was asked by TWO girls that worked there if I wanted to go out sometime. They had never really flirted with me or anything. I told the first one sure then the second asked me I knew something was up. So I asked her, ok so whatâs going on,?
It shouldnât be expected. Communicate to her that youâd like to try it, but donât expect it to be just her giving you head. Youâve got to give too. In my opinion, there is nothing worse than a guy who refuses to give you oral, but expects you to give him head. Yes, you can state you donât like eating women out, and thatâs fine, but if she says she doesnât like giving head or swallowing or whatever, you donât get to be pissed. You both have the right to not want to perform oral. You could also compromise with her if she feels like youâll just ask for head all the time and she gets nothing in return. Play with her every once in a while WITHOUT expecting anything in return. If she returns the favour, great! If she doesnât, then youâll soon realize what itâs like to give someone else pleasure and not get anything in return. In my relationship, blowjobs are usually a part of foreplay, but I do enjoy giving them. If he isnât up for sex, but would like a release, Iâll happily give him a blowjob. The thing is, heâll do the same to me without expecting sex. Iâm one of those women who can have nipple orgasms and neck/back orgasms. Sometimes Iâll ask for him to give me a âback-gasmâ (pretty much kiss/lick/make-out with my neck and spine), which heâll gladly do for me without expecting anything in return. Do I often âgive backâ? Yes, but itâs nice to not feel like I have to. Talk to your wife about this, but do NOT expect her to give you head. Some women donât like to give head, just like how some men donât like to eat women out. Respect her response, even if you donât like it. You can offer to reciprocate, but do not coerce her. For example: You: hey, would you ever be willing to give me a blowjob? Is that something youâre into? Iâd be willing to do [X] if you wanted so that you donât feel like itâs one sided. If not, thatâs okay, I just wanted to throw the idea out there.
I seem to switch so it's hard to say… but generally probably not given I've never been attracted to anyone friends have tried to set me up with. I tend to think people often swing between a public appearance and near opposite of it. If someone is powerful and respected in life they may get off being helpless, or vice versa, etc.
In my younger days I could do two back to back if it had even a while since my last encounter. If it had only been a day or two it would take about 5 to 10 minutes before I could âre-loadâ. I never really thought that much about it till after my second divorce. I was dating this lady about 10 years older than me and after I came, I paused just long enough to finish ejaculating . She pulled me tight and we were kissing and I just kept slow stroking and she pushed me back a little so she could see my face. She asked me, âdid you not cum?â I said yeah why? She said youâre still going. I looked sort of confused and she said men usually get soft after. I told her I do sometimes but when really horny and turned on like you have me I usually donât till the second time. She was surprised but smiled a big smile and said well ok then, and we went back at it. (This was our first time together btw) We were not exclusive more of a FWB thing and she worked in the store I hauled fuel for. I came in to work a few days later and was asked by TWO girls that worked there if I wanted to go out sometime. They had never really flirted with me or anything. I told the first one sure then the second asked me I knew something was up. So I asked her, ok so whatâs going on,?
This is really cute I wish it happened to me omg đ©
So why isn't he eating you out to orgasm prior to intercourse?
It shouldnât be expected. Communicate to her that youâd like to try it, but donât expect it to be just her giving you head. Youâve got to give too. In my opinion, there is nothing worse than a guy who refuses to give you oral, but expects you to give him head. Yes, you can state you donât like eating women out, and thatâs fine, but if she says she doesnât like giving head or swallowing or whatever, you donât get to be pissed. You both have the right to not want to perform oral. You could also compromise with her if she feels like youâll just ask for head all the time and she gets nothing in return. Play with her every once in a while WITHOUT expecting anything in return. If she returns the favour, great! If she doesnât, then youâll soon realize what itâs like to give someone else pleasure and not get anything in return. In my relationship, blowjobs are usually a part of foreplay, but I do enjoy giving them. If he isnât up for sex, but would like a release, Iâll happily give him a blowjob. The thing is, heâll do the same to me without expecting sex. Iâm one of those women who can have nipple orgasms and neck/back orgasms. Sometimes Iâll ask for him to give me a âback-gasmâ (pretty much kiss/lick/make-out with my neck and spine), which heâll gladly do for me without expecting anything in return. Do I often âgive backâ? Yes, but itâs nice to not feel like I have to. Talk to your wife about this, but do NOT expect her to give you head. Some women donât like to give head, just like how some men donât like to eat women out. Respect her response, even if you donât like it. You can offer to reciprocate, but do not coerce her. For example: You: hey, would you ever be willing to give me a blowjob? Is that something youâre into? Iâd be willing to do [X] if you wanted so that you donât feel like itâs one sided. If not, thatâs okay, I just wanted to throw the idea out there.
I seem to switch so it's hard to say… but generally probably not given I've never been attracted to anyone friends have tried to set me up with. I tend to think people often swing between a public appearance and near opposite of it. If someone is powerful and respected in life they may get off being helpless, or vice versa, etc.