If RvW is her reason, is she willing to do other things like oral or a hand job? If she's willing to do those things for you, is that enough? If there isn't a good compromise, it's time to find something that will make you happy.
I wouldn't overreact like half the comments in here are suggesting you too. His reaction is of a man who thinks he might be “losing” you to the men who sub to you. He's trying to maintain “ownership/control” over his prized possession. This is a panicked reaction to that taking you for real. This man loves you and is all about you. He isn't trying to pimp you, you joked about it not him. He wants you to be his but if he's not getting 100% you then he wants something in return for what he sees as losing some of you. But like the rest of the redditors, I don't know anything about either of you or your relationship so my response is an educated guess at best (with experience) Don't panic about a potential red flag over a hypothetical situation.
If RvW is her reason, is she willing to do other things like oral or a hand job? If she's willing to do those things for you, is that enough? If there isn't a good compromise, it's time to find something that will make you happy.
Life is too short for shitty sex. Is he selfish in other ways too?
I wouldn't overreact like half the comments in here are suggesting you too. His reaction is of a man who thinks he might be “losing” you to the men who sub to you. He's trying to maintain “ownership/control” over his prized possession. This is a panicked reaction to that taking you for real. This man loves you and is all about you. He isn't trying to pimp you, you joked about it not him. He wants you to be his but if he's not getting 100% you then he wants something in return for what he sees as losing some of you. But like the rest of the redditors, I don't know anything about either of you or your relationship so my response is an educated guess at best (with experience) Don't panic about a potential red flag over a hypothetical situation.