Your technique isn’t going to be great your first time no matter what, but especially if you aren’t really aroused or in the mood and the sex is just to check off a box on your life list. Part of what makes sex fun is normally the chemistry with the other person. It would be hard to have good chemistry with an escort. Also, smoking or drinking right before isn’t going to help either!
I feel like Smithing is a good term for this. Like a blacksmith using a hammer.
Your technique isn’t going to be great your first time no matter what, but especially if you aren’t really aroused or in the mood and the sex is just to check off a box on your life list. Part of what makes sex fun is normally the chemistry with the other person. It would be hard to have good chemistry with an escort. Also, smoking or drinking right before isn’t going to help either!
Don't mix work and pleasure. If it goes poorly you have to face them each day.
act the same way you been acting with him. Just be yourself so far as what you should wear, wear something you will be comfortable in as well.