If you're going down on a woman after a session of penetration you can't just use tongue only, fingers have to be involved as well. More often than not the finger and tongue action will need to match the intensity of the last part of penetration. This does not mean there shouldn't be some finesse included but definitely on the more aggressive side because, as stated above, the warmups already happened.
I know that feel of wanting to be clean rather than having sex. I have a lot of underlying problems to unpack. Maybe your bf has something similar. Speaking of not prioritizing the fun in sex, low self esteem, seeing sex as work to do not something to relax etc. Did you two talk about the issue how you are feeling and he is feeling? I do shower or have baths everyday and now switch to having sex before that to feel more clean to myself. Maybe that’s something for you too
I have the same issue with my bf. He also blames it on the weed and how it makes his depression worse, but he doesn’t do much to get better like no therapy, relapsing with weed… we’ve been apart during Christmas and now gonna meet again, I will see if he stops using weed and if it gets better, otherwise will have a serious conversation about our future.
I need to be super relaxed AND super horny to have really good anal sex. So it's not an every time thing, but when the stars align, it's very good. Makes for explosive, grunting level orgasms when combined with clitoral stimulation Start very slow. Much more lube than you think. Coconut oil is a good choice if you're not using condoms because it's edible. More foreplay than you think. Try fingers or even rimming first, to relax her. She has to get into the idea that you're enamored with her asshole and associate it with sexual pleasure, which comes easier for some women than others. Once she's really horned up and you've eaten her out and paid attention to her asshole, she should basically be begging for your dick up there. Expect to probably cum very quickly, her asshole has more friction around your penis than any vagina, but it'll be a fun time.
No, my point was most would spit out bad tasting food since chewing it means tasting it. Sorry if my comment offended you.
If you're going down on a woman after a session of penetration you can't just use tongue only, fingers have to be involved as well. More often than not the finger and tongue action will need to match the intensity of the last part of penetration. This does not mean there shouldn't be some finesse included but definitely on the more aggressive side because, as stated above, the warmups already happened.
It depends on how good it was. 😅
It could also be partly from the birth control.
I know that feel of wanting to be clean rather than having sex. I have a lot of underlying problems to unpack. Maybe your bf has something similar. Speaking of not prioritizing the fun in sex, low self esteem, seeing sex as work to do not something to relax etc. Did you two talk about the issue how you are feeling and he is feeling? I do shower or have baths everyday and now switch to having sex before that to feel more clean to myself. Maybe that’s something for you too
You’ll be ok. Vagina will taste like vagina not flowers or candy don’t let these little boys fool you
Some people are socially different, why would you assist in making their life more difficult?
I have the same issue with my bf. He also blames it on the weed and how it makes his depression worse, but he doesn’t do much to get better like no therapy, relapsing with weed… we’ve been apart during Christmas and now gonna meet again, I will see if he stops using weed and if it gets better, otherwise will have a serious conversation about our future.
What does that say exactly, if you don't mind me asking?
He’s a dickhead, tbh
I need to be super relaxed AND super horny to have really good anal sex. So it's not an every time thing, but when the stars align, it's very good. Makes for explosive, grunting level orgasms when combined with clitoral stimulation Start very slow. Much more lube than you think. Coconut oil is a good choice if you're not using condoms because it's edible. More foreplay than you think. Try fingers or even rimming first, to relax her. She has to get into the idea that you're enamored with her asshole and associate it with sexual pleasure, which comes easier for some women than others. Once she's really horned up and you've eaten her out and paid attention to her asshole, she should basically be begging for your dick up there. Expect to probably cum very quickly, her asshole has more friction around your penis than any vagina, but it'll be a fun time.