A major fear is the fear that she is way out of my league and I'll never find someone that good again. I have very low self-esteem (or appropriate levels of self-esteem, depending on how much worth I actually have) and so that's tough to consider.
Funnily enough this is one of the reasons I’m sober today. Day after drinking heavily and acting a proper fool I was super horny and made a move on my girlfriend (now wife) and it was NOT the day to do that…
And OP should too, because apparently they both don't know how it works. Or do you only get hostile when men don't understand vaginas? Why aren't you mad that OP didn't know either?
I had trouble releasing with another person doing any kind of stimulation. I could masturbate and tip over the edge. For some reason I could get to the edge with someone else but never drop over. My husband took it as a challenge. I don’t know if I had a mental hang up I had to get past or if I needed to learn how to use my muscles. He was determined to figure out my body and eventually he did. Now he can make me do whatever he wants lol. My point is just give it time. Explain to your partner what’s going on and hopefully they will understand.
Maybe she’s just not in the mood. See if there’s anything stressing her out or anything you can do for her. You can’t just walk in the house and be like “so we fuckin’ or what?”
Well try distance first, you can get a confidence in it
I love looking at them. All shapes, colors, sizes.
No, difficult, but then trauma will do that to ya.
A major fear is the fear that she is way out of my league and I'll never find someone that good again. I have very low self-esteem (or appropriate levels of self-esteem, depending on how much worth I actually have) and so that's tough to consider.
I can't imagine most would care or even notice.
Funnily enough this is one of the reasons I’m sober today. Day after drinking heavily and acting a proper fool I was super horny and made a move on my girlfriend (now wife) and it was NOT the day to do that…
And OP should too, because apparently they both don't know how it works. Or do you only get hostile when men don't understand vaginas? Why aren't you mad that OP didn't know either?
He’s having this thing called death grip syndrome I believe, but basically he beats his pp too hard and it makes the vagina feel more loose to him…
I had trouble releasing with another person doing any kind of stimulation. I could masturbate and tip over the edge. For some reason I could get to the edge with someone else but never drop over. My husband took it as a challenge. I don’t know if I had a mental hang up I had to get past or if I needed to learn how to use my muscles. He was determined to figure out my body and eventually he did. Now he can make me do whatever he wants lol. My point is just give it time. Explain to your partner what’s going on and hopefully they will understand.
Maybe she’s just not in the mood. See if there’s anything stressing her out or anything you can do for her. You can’t just walk in the house and be like “so we fuckin’ or what?”