To be clear I'm not sure her reasoning. We didn't get to that part before we decided I was too pissed to actually have a conversation about it especially with her not understanding why I was pissed. She has horrible sexual trauma that exceeds rape that she hasn't taken care of mentally. It's probably the reasoning whether she'll admit it or not. It's probably a subconscious thing
What high horse?? How am I in the wrong for wanting to be satisfied with that specific sexual act?? I’m not about to spend the rest of my life without it. If he’s not willing to give it, then I’m not staying. Simple. He doesn’t have to give it and I don’t have to stay in that relationship.
This is false, women are typically infertile for at least 1.5 months after birth on average. Google post-partum infecundability. That being said, nothing is impossible but along with the plan b, the chances are almost zero.
To be clear I'm not sure her reasoning. We didn't get to that part before we decided I was too pissed to actually have a conversation about it especially with her not understanding why I was pissed. She has horrible sexual trauma that exceeds rape that she hasn't taken care of mentally. It's probably the reasoning whether she'll admit it or not. It's probably a subconscious thing
Seconded…, He wants you to give him pleasure while he doesn’t want to give you it in return? So selfish
Then make sure it stays that way and don’t over think it. Good luck to you.
What high horse?? How am I in the wrong for wanting to be satisfied with that specific sexual act?? I’m not about to spend the rest of my life without it. If he’s not willing to give it, then I’m not staying. Simple. He doesn’t have to give it and I don’t have to stay in that relationship.
This is false, women are typically infertile for at least 1.5 months after birth on average. Google post-partum infecundability. That being said, nothing is impossible but along with the plan b, the chances are almost zero.
It takes time to learn to stand up for yourself and your comfort.
You're totally right about not generalizing.