For several decades using condoms has been the default, especially with a new sexual partner, independent of other birth control. You shouldn't bother to have sex with a man that can't bother to wrap up.
Yeah..you’re right. But we get on so well and we have the same values, that it seems so absurd to just end things because I am not comfortable. What if I’m totally wrong about what he thinks and does?
Most gay men know to do some sort of prep before anal play. I think the same could be expected of a straight man. Maybe calmly bring it up with him that you’d like things to be more hygenic when it comes to anal play, and see if he would be cool doing some sort of prep work
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For several decades using condoms has been the default, especially with a new sexual partner, independent of other birth control. You shouldn't bother to have sex with a man that can't bother to wrap up.
Are you self-advocating or just silently fuming and hoping that he'll decide to do better on his own?
It will only go down hill from here. The balls in your court now. Decisions will have to be made.
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Yeah..you’re right. But we get on so well and we have the same values, that it seems so absurd to just end things because I am not comfortable. What if I’m totally wrong about what he thinks and does?
try returning the favor and get your phone. browse for sex toys that are bigger than him, lesbians; and/or black dudes.
This guy fucks
Most gay men know to do some sort of prep before anal play. I think the same could be expected of a straight man. Maybe calmly bring it up with him that you’d like things to be more hygenic when it comes to anal play, and see if he would be cool doing some sort of prep work
Adding to this, most books by Annabel Joseph are also BDSM-based smut.