This used to be me (during the start of our relationship) because I had a very long dry spell (3 years). If your boyfriend is used to finishing off himself, his penis needs to 'train' by being used to the feeling of having PIV. I've been in his shoes and if he's worth it, it's best to be patient and understanding. I'd say keep on having sex until he gets used to it. In my case, it took me a few months to finally be able to maintain my erection throughout the whole session.
Agreed right here. OP being intrested in the person romantically creates a conflict of intrest. No matter how OP trys to reason it OP asking that question is unethical for their friendship.
Thanks for your comment, I'm so glad that it wasn't necessarily down to something that I did wrong. And for real, I was so frustrated afterwards! Like, no wait, don't leave, come back haha!
Have you considered wearing clothes like a t-shirt or a thong during sex? If you aren’t able to shower before sex, you could use a washcloth to wipe your thighs, genitals, and butt crack. Hopefully, you have so much fun during sex, you forget to worry about the funny noises and smells. Would it help to name the fear? Realistically, what could happen if the other person sees your acne or hair?
How much bigger?
This used to be me (during the start of our relationship) because I had a very long dry spell (3 years). If your boyfriend is used to finishing off himself, his penis needs to 'train' by being used to the feeling of having PIV. I've been in his shoes and if he's worth it, it's best to be patient and understanding. I'd say keep on having sex until he gets used to it. In my case, it took me a few months to finally be able to maintain my erection throughout the whole session.
Agreed right here. OP being intrested in the person romantically creates a conflict of intrest. No matter how OP trys to reason it OP asking that question is unethical for their friendship.
Thanks for your comment, I'm so glad that it wasn't necessarily down to something that I did wrong. And for real, I was so frustrated afterwards! Like, no wait, don't leave, come back haha!
yes yes take lots of drugs
Have you considered wearing clothes like a t-shirt or a thong during sex? If you aren’t able to shower before sex, you could use a washcloth to wipe your thighs, genitals, and butt crack. Hopefully, you have so much fun during sex, you forget to worry about the funny noises and smells. Would it help to name the fear? Realistically, what could happen if the other person sees your acne or hair?