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Confront is strong word. Talk with her and tell her you noticed things changed. Ask her how she is feeling about college and everything going on. How is the relationship….
Hey! You still doing meetups??
It is!
Good philosophy. It’s just a bit more transactional with dudes who are looking to fuck, I guess
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This is a complex question. Can it? Yes, absolutely. Does it always? Definitely not. For all practical purposes, from the outside, people would expect my BF to be the dominant one. He's older, much bigger than me, etc. Realistically? Not even close. He's very submissive. Now, women are more commonly submissive. So that plays a role in all of this as well. Men are more often dominant, though to a slightly lesser degree. So the most common dynamic is a man Dom and a woman sub, regardless of other factors. What is important is that everybody is happy and consenting and agreeing to whatever power dynamics exist sexually. This requires conversation. In depth, ongoing conversation.
Yikes. That's just crazy. No. You're NTA.
Did you read her comment?
This isn't about sex, really, the sexual content is just incidental. The issue is that your mother betrayed your trust, and invaded your privacy, in a way that I personally would find difficult to forgive. I think the important thing to remember is that you have nothing to be ashamed of. It's not unusual to feel shame or embarrassment when violated, but this is not your fault and you did nothing wrong.
No, I like her my ex would come out of the shower, I’d bend down unwrap his towel, on my knees and it was hot. If you feel degraded by it, then obviously, it’s degrading to you. Never once crossed my mind that it was degrading.
Yeah, my girlfriend can cum from nipple & breast sucking/licking alone. Really fun thing to have on the list of things I can do to her
I had suspicions about the birth control for awhile. Not because of sex, but an increase of depression and anxiety a few fears back, that she just couldn't shake. We had talked about stopping it before, but she was always afraid to. Pregnancy, horrible periods again, what if everything got worse, etc — so we left it alone. Life happened and time got away from us. But here we are, and I have become opposed to hormonal BC as the default. I even wandered if it had something to do with my own parents relationship failing. (She was on it 14 years!)
She doesn't have self-esteem issues. I told her that the way she said it was offensive and she apologized. I think she's just really not attracted to me. Maybe I fucked it up because I told her one of my fantasies is if a woman has a bad day and wants to dominate me, I wouldn't mind if she spits in my face and told me to thank her. I told her it's just a fantasy and I wouldn't want to do that on my first time. But she was still shocked and then I tried to play it off. Honestly, I don't think there was ever a chance that I would fuck her anyway but it's the fact that she said it and removed all possibility off the table.
Nope, unless you're cold you should be totally naked for sex! But really I have cold feet from diabetes and I still sleep and have sex without socks. There's a blanket!
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All women are hot . That's my theory 🥵
I would ask her in sex to do the same again and ask about her insecurities like she might be worried she hurt you or as if she doesnt like the smell, regardless. I would tell her I am sure she will get into butt play like the way you lime if you approach this way.
Or a humiliation kink, like me lol
Okay, but why is “sexual anthropologist” in inverted commas? 😅 Anyway… in my case, it's likely a combination of an innate oral fetish, plus years of mental conditioning through porn: When I started viewing porn in my teens, it began with BJs – which I instinctively found the hottest. Fast forward 15 years and I still exclusively watch oral scenes, albeit more hardcore ones now. It's conditioned my brain to the point that I don't actually get aroused to the thought nor act of vaginal sex anymore. Mind you, I still partake in it (and all other types) to please my partner, but the only thing I actively desire – and can orgasm to – is receiving oral. Just my own experience tho, which probably wouldn't be representative of others like me.
Spoken like a pedophile.
You’re only 17, and let’s be honest, this is probably not the guy you’re going to be with for the rest of your life (nor should he be, it’s been a week and he’s already disrespecting your boundaries). Let him know, firmly, that no condom means no sex. If he doesn’t like that, end things and move on. There are literally billions of guys in the world and many of them would be more than happy to respect this boundary. Do not ever let a man guilt you into doing something you’re not comfortable with (but also don’t beat yourself up if you do, we’ve all been young and manipulated before). It is 2023 and we’re not letting men get away with bullshit anymore!
No, I prefer you get a vasectomy, so you don't ruin lives and then justify it to yourself with these ridiculous mental gymnastics. Thought I was pretty clear about that from the start tbh.
Write “Dtf?”
Then yeah, you're only left with breaking up or resigning yourself to less sex then you want.
Sounds like he made a bold move and it worked out.
Wtf
I feel for you, I really do. It's been a few years but my wife went through the same thing, if I remember right it was a six week no touch zone for her. It was tough laying in bed naked together. The future is bright you'll make it through. No more periods yay!
I understand. I love my wife though and I am always loyal to her, it's just I cheat on her ocassionally.
I think if you already have some cues that he's into it, the surprise would go down well. It's quite thoughtful and shows you're listening and take into account his wants and needs. If it's something you're into too, I'd say go for it. I think those are natural worries, but you don't know if you don't try. And if it's a natural thing for you to think to do, and not forced. Then it probably comes off even better that you arent hiding anything that some would find silly/weird, but I think it's more common a thing than you think
Yah blowjobs generally always involve the hands as well. Very rare for a full hands free BJ. Same as giving head to a woman usually involves tongue and fingers too! The more tools in your tool belt the better!
This sounds awful! Unfortunately, this is somewhat common, and I’ve experienced this too (from the perspective of the girlfriend). I wrote you a book too: I got an IUD that meant I had period cramps like 75% of the time, and they got worse during sex. But I also have a history of sexual abuse, so I got it into my head that my value as a person came from pleasing my partner. So while sex hurt, I and I let my boyfriend (of two years) know, I always sucked it up and had sex anyway. Eventually, I realized what I was doing was hurting us. I explained the nuances to my boyfriend. He’s a great person, he’d never intentionally harm me, and he was really understanding. I’ll never forget what he told me: “I don’t have you over to have sex with you, seventeenflowers, I have you over because I like you, and I want to spend time with you.” He told me that we can start or stop, pause or break at any time. He made very clear to me that he wants to be my life partner, and it was wonderful. And that- kind of broke the spell for me. The problem didn’t disappear, but it got a lot better when I stopped believing my relationship was conditional on me hurting myself. The psychological aspect of the pain disappeared. I was able to connect with him again, and have those quiet, honest, intimate moments you need to make love. TL;DR: how does this relate to you? It sounds like your girlfriend feels very guilty, and she sees just how much this is affecting your relationship. She’s outright says that she feels she’s broken. It’s very possible that there was originally a something that made her not want to have sex. But I hypothesize that this has compounded into a monster of fear and self-doubt. Right now, every time she thinks about sex, she: – feels she’s letting you down, and that her future with you is coming to an end – absolutely hates herself – feels like she can no control • she doesn’t know what’s going on and can’t stop it • when she doesn’t have sex with you, she feels she’s being controlled by a phenomenon she doesn’t understand and can’t control. • when she does have sex with you, it doesn’t feel like a choice, but rather a reaction. She’s not doing it for herself, she’s doing it in opposition to the phenomenon she can’t understand. • either way, she feels powerless If you felt that way every time you thought about sex, you probably wouldn’t want to have it either! This also explains why she continues to masturbate. I don’t think the issue is that she’s lost her innate sex drive. So sex (and intimacy!) are still needs for her. It’s It’s like how you need to eat to live, but that doesn’t mean the food has to be tasty. Sex has been reinforced in her mind over the past year as things that make her feel like a garbage person. So to follow the eating analogy, instead of eating the delicious home cooked meal you’ve made for her, she wants to eat a brick of raw tofu, because tofu doesn’t make her feel bad about eating carbs, being fat, etc. what you can do about it! The problem is that sex has become associated with – being a garbage person – making you resent her – being powerless Your job (together!) is to help disprove those feelings. Words of affirmation help, but they’re only a start. What we need is to help your girlfriend have empowering experiences around sex. Right now, she feels completely controlled. When she decides not to have sex, she feels controlled by fear. When she decides to have sex, she feels controlled by fear of losing you. It’s lose-lose. Either way she decides, there’s a negative moral value attached. Part A of the plan: This is a collaborative endeavour. I’m really glad to hear that you and your girlfriend are good at settling your rare disagreements, because respectful and collaborative problem solving will be necessary here. I need you two to set aside some quiet time together to discuss this. “The dread” = that awful cringy feeling where you want to exit your own body and run away. Ask her about what situations make her feel “the dread”, and more importantly, what forms of love and intimacy don’t make her feel the dread. She might not have considered this before: there are often some forms of intimacy that don’t have this negative moral value attached, that she can express freely. Remembering these exist is important. These are the things she owns, and remembering them helps her remember what it feels like to own herself. Part B of the plan: Now this is a gambit- you need to make clear that there is no situation where her not having sex with you will cause her to lose you. This is a really difficult thing to say, and you have to truly mean it. And reinforce it over time with your actions, words, and attitudes. It’s not easy work, but you love her. If you can show her that your love isn’t conditional, you can help her stop feeling controlled by the fear of losing you. When she chooses to have sex with you, it will feel like a real choice for her. She’ll no longer feel controlled and caged in. It’s liberating. It’s worth it!
Probably just self conscious. My husbands is really tiny when soft but grows to 6 inches and thick too. We both make fun of how tiny it is when soft lol. He doesn’t care because he knows it doesn’t matter how big it is when soft plus I enjoy watching it grow. Let him know that you like the way it looks soft and he doesn’t need to hide it.
I know OP states their not body shaming, but their comments prove otherwise. They just commented something insulting people (most likely women) having a high body count equals they have an std which is not often the case. It’s a stereotype and an assumption.
100% not fiction. I used to be very turned off by the thought of being cucked or just cuckery in general.
Communication is always the key in a relationship. ONS/hookups don't qualify. Personally, I would want someone to tell me.
That’s fair. I don’t consider oral as foreplay though
She'll understand
Being comfortable enough to say no at any time you're truly uncomfortable with what's happening is a key part of sexual activity. You and your partner both felt uncomfortable with the guy this time. Neither one communicated it in the moment. Have a conversation about why that was. After that, discuss how or if you want to move forward with this type of experience. Do you use safe words or phrases? If not, maybe one could be useful to tell your partner you're not feeling it. It may be that you need to put more effort into vetting the other guys before moving to sex. Just have the conversations and set up structures or rules to keep you both happy and fulfilled.