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I am a woman and I am never in my fantasies-I see them like a movie. I have never seen any porn. I‘m a very sexual person and enjoy sex always, but never fantasize about my partner or a celebrity or anyone I know. I’m pretty vanilla, so I think this must be a common thing.
Take control of the blow job after he releases your head give him a squeeze of the sack or a flick the tip of his dick
Thank you for saying that, when they said future employability I lost my shit, how utterly heartless and non understanding, he's fucking dying and all I see is toxic hustle culture
You don't even care lol. It's so extremely selfish. It's not just a moment. It's like no matter where we go you'll never allow it. That's what it is. Whatever.
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Early 20s and yes.
curious question, any opinions on men who want it waxed?
Why's that?
You are bassically stupid…
This sounds like the sort of thing a guy who is trying to justify his shitty behaviour would say…
I am m42, and I'm exclusively attracted to chubby women. The way your body is should not make you feel certain way unless it is causing health issues in which case you have a reason to be concerned. If you are healthy (i.e. cholesterol, sugar and blood pressure numbers are normal), you should not be worried. It is an issue that your hubby watches porn, be it skinny ones. I mean would you be comfortable if he watched porn where the women were chubby? After all, no matter what the body type is, it is another woman he's ogling at right? I don't know the answer to what you can do about his porn addiction issue. I can only share what goes on in my mind when I decide to watch porn. I have issues in my life that I am struggling with (loneliness, career, etc) and when I feel too stressed about any of those issues, I need something that relieves my stress. Porn is a coping mechanism for me. It gives me a shot of dopamine in my brain that momentarily makes me feel better. However, the next time around, I need something more intense to get the same level of mental relief. So I start to watch more weird stuff. I then figured that this is a very common pattern in men who resort to porn as a coping mechanism. There are a lot of great YouTube videos about porn addiction. I feel that “addiction” is not the right word. It is just a coping mechanism. Some people become smokers, drug addicts, alcoholics, and some of get into porn. I don't know about your hubby, but I'd have the greatest relief if I had a partner who truly loved and cared for me. A kiss and a hug during bad times goes a long way. Your hubby is lucky to have you. Ask him if he is going through any mental traumas, or if there is something that is causing a lot of stress to him. As regards to the subject of his fantasies being skinny women, I'd not worry about it. It is skinny women today, and it might be something else tomorrow, when he'd need more stimulation to give him the same level of mental relief.
It really isn’t. Most straight men I know (I happen to be a gay guy) would find the idea of other people fucking their partner extremely unpleasant.
Tell him to grow up or just move on, yes that last one is hard after 10 years, but this is not how relationships work. Withholding sex in any shape or form as a punishment is absolutely not okay. People saying she should stop sucking his dick are in the exact same ballpark as he is, bad advice. Talk with him, explain you have needs, tell him it's not okay to punish you this way, if he doesn't wanne explain himself or change, end it.
I love it and what's even better is when you both cum together, I always find it extends the orgasm for both parties when I can feel her contractions while Cumming to.
no offense or anything but that would definitely make me feel desperate if i said that
I think for most of us when we are younger the experience of a older woman is so appealing even if we don't match up to be able to do most of it. I'm 51 and my preference has done a complete 180 that I need a younger woman and why it's changed I don't know. I still find a older woman sexy but preferences have changed, who cares about the age factor when the person can mean the world so enjoy
There's your problem! Oil-based lube breaks down latex. Only use water-based lubes. One of my faves is Fuckwater for vaginal, and Sutil Rich for anal.
She could have been given doxycycline which is a general antibiotic that can work on Chlamydia . If you want her to send a picture of her negative results to ease your mind you can ask her, but it's probably not necessary.
It’s not just that she watches gangbang porn. It’s that she’s had group sex, watches group porn, and wants more group sex. All of that taken together highly suggests it’s not just about what she likes to watch.
She's unsuccesfully gaslighting him into thinking he is gay and still trying so she can have her way. I can't believe this sentence holds truth.
When post gets bigger it usually gets overrun with comments and upvotes like that No, that's not a thing that happens.
I have to disagree, sorry. Getting off while looking at exclusively men isn't straight. You are deeply in denial if you believe it is.
I’ve always heard that excessive amounts of sex with larger guys can stretch them over long periods of time. Coupled with childbirth of course. So no truth to that I’m guessing💁🏻?
Y'all really can't see how a 19yo girl, first time smoking weed, blowing her (presumably) straight boyfriend, (conclusion: experience level: vanilla) would be wigged out by him just waylaying her with autoerotic cum-eating? Y'all can't wrap your heads around that? Kink positivity is great, but so is getting your partner's consent when introducing new sex acts. Glad OP got some good “chill out & talk about it” advice.
I’m the type of guy that can watch porn and have sex with my wife I don’t pick one or the other but sometimes the choice is made for me when my wife not in the mood
I’m not really submissive and I know how to initiate in a way thats not masculine haha
No due to the fact it’s a women fucking you, I’ve been pegged twice and it felt absolutely amazing one of the best orgasms I’ve had. It was the first time I came hands free aswell.
Thank you, I think it is, even in the challenging moments.
If you’re facing him you want to be closer to the headboard to give you something to hold on to
Condoms are only 98% effective if used correctly. It appears your boyfriend does not know how to use them correctly, so they're effectiveness is much lower. I would suggest both of you look up resources about how to use them in a way that will give you their full level of protection. For example, one of the things you must do when pulling out after ejaculation is holding the condom at the base of the penis to prevent then from slipping off. There are many more details about how to use condoms correctly, and since one isn't born with that knowledge, you must seek it out. Make it a fun activity together!
Exactly lol
It's best to be honest and direct. I'd just say something like “I noticed we've had a lot less sex lately, and I am feeling confused about what changed. How do you feel about it?”
I never Not want to have sex with my hot ass wife if I'm understanding the question 👍
Sex is a long journey together and should be fun Don’t get lost.
No, just at work.
I don't mind this AS LONG as I cum first. My boyfriend is sometimes a quick finisher but he always looks after me before or after or sometimes both 💦 it doesn't always have to be about the PIV
Stomach cramps could just be her menstrual cycle starting up. Or it could’ve been bad food or a stomach bug. Could have also been cramps from exercising her hip thrusts. Like others said, what you’re doing has nearly zero risk but is not zero. You know what is zero? Oral. And that is what women want to experience more anyway.
The states.
She doesn’t seem very invested in this relationship. You two have been together for a long enough time where you should both feel loved and cared for. I can’t entirely speak on her feelings based on this post, but it seems to me that you genuinely are about her and don’t feel that in return from her.
That's just how life works I'm afraid. Some men are dealt a more difficult hand in life than others.
Depends on the man. My partner enjoys it a lot.
I find those who secluded themselves from the world very attractive because their souls are pure and they don't show people how wonderful they truly are because of fear and lack of social skills or self consciousness but they just don't see how beautiful they truly are. :heart_eyes:
Generally speaking, most men prefer a not-freshly-showered vagina over a freshly-showered one. Sure, there will be guys who do not. But, generally speaking… My wife is the same way, I actually prefer her taste and aroma after her working all day, as compared to right out of the shower. It the taste and aroma and pheromones. Not all, but most, men love it!
Maybe your eggs have been… waiting… haha. Do the fertility test in private if you like, then talk about babies. Maybe you can get the son with a surrogate, who knows…
Honestly it just sounds like immaturity. So, not necessarily that he’s selfish, but that he’s not that sexually matured yet. Some guys go well into their adult lives never even knowing if the woman he’s with actually climaxes. They just assume if a woman is moaning and screaming that must mean she did. You may absolutely be ok with not for now, but that will likely change as you age as well. Why not tell him and show him how to get you there? It will benefit you both in the long run.
Nah, he was the one who brought up the fact that since his wife won’t fuck him it’s causing intrusive thoughts. Maybe don’t blame your partner for your shit and get it together and they’ll want to fuck you more.
Dump her
I always know when I come. It’s never in question.
Good answer
Sorry, but could you please elaborate on that further. Like pull the skin up and back down with the mouth/lips?
Take it slowly and work your way to having sex. This could be kissing or even foreplay just don’t rush into it overstimulating yourself. I don’t know the dynamics of your relationship but sometimes honesty with your partner helps.
It does until it doesn't. Don't bang without a condom if you aren't ready to make a baby
You should take a dive into Taoist sexology, my friend 😉 check out Mantak Chi interviews. It’s some wild stuff, but when taken with a grain of rice, wonderful food for thought!
It brings me down to earth when I'm way too up in my head.
Alot of guys feel like “sexy” is outdated.
Your bf is a square
The dump it in me part was unnecessary but im very glad you included it
Exactly
What brings you to orgasm first?
what do you use to get off? Does he know about it? If you are self conscious you can also ask him to pick a video for you. It may help
60m 25f was perfect, little issues at the moment due to external issues,but working on being perfect again. Frequency was very high
Well, for me this age gap at that stage of life is inappropriate, seven years is a lot, she’s not even a full grown adult yet. We also only have your side of the story.
Interesting 😅 I guess I just can't Imagine IT because of my low sex drive