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Do you mean keeping the head covered or keeping it exposed during sex? If they are keeping it covered, that sounds like phimosis. It’s supposed to glide freely over the head during sex.
It's not normal.
We mostly do me on top and we have tried her on top as well. Sometimes i get ed but not usually.i pleasure her for as long as i can and then i pull out and masturbate to finish. Have seen a doctor as well and he says its all in the mind.
I cum from PIV but have heard it’s rare.
There are people who have chubby belly kink. I would know 😉. Be yourself fully!
Ok?
This is unfair to him and you. Don’t stay in this relationship
I get it. It helps when you find the right therapist and someone you know is going to be with you long term.
Disappointed? Hell no! Boobs are sexy if they're saggy. And if they're perky. And if they're bouncing. And if they're sitting still. And if they're hanging down when she's on her hands and knees. And if they're laying there when she's on her back. And if they're small. And if they're big. And if they're medium sized. And if they're of any shape. And if they have big areolas. And if they have small areolas. And if they have medium sized areolas. And if they have dark areolas. And if they have light areolas. And if they have medium-colored areolas. And if they have big nipples. And if they have small nipples. And if they have medium sized nipples. And if they have inverted nipples. And if they are veiny. And if they're black, white, brown, or any other color. And if they are two different sizes. And if there's one because the other one had to be removed. The most sexy boobs in the world are the ones that are on my partner when she's on top of/under/in front of/next to/behind me. TLDR: Yes, boobs are sexy. TL so still DR, so shorter: BOOBS!
You're right. I'm being avoidant. Easiest for sure is to just do it more with her. Unfortunately, being college seniors, we just haven't had a lot of time this past month
Agreed with this. Even when freshly showered, there's still a light “him” smell and it's wonderful. It doesn't smell like sweat or dirtiness, it's just him.
Damn it….. i wish for this situation all the time… lol. Ill trade a free tattoo for a BJ any day if the week. If you like the work, and the guys not gross thats all up to you.
OOP obviously doesn’t realize sexual coercion is abusive. If he doesn’t want to and she convinces or pressures him…? Imagine if he was a woman. This whole this is a giant red flag
These are some fiesty ideas- love them 🔥
Lol you're right you didn't put much thought into this . Now you're going to have to either shave it with a razor blade and shave cream just like you would your beard, or let it grow back. Lol you can probably find a YouTube video on how to shave it
Do you mean to say you do not deserve to connect to any person beyond the verbal level? Do you really believe that you don't deserve to be in pleasure together with X person that chose you and you chose?
She's 30% older than you! She is also sensitive about younger girls flirting with you which is bound to happen. You can play the “fast-forward” game in your head to where you see this relationship going in the next 7 years, and have that discussion with her. Maybe all she wanted was a FWB, or maybe she wants someone to settle with. I can't make that determination for you
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Based on the things she said, in the past few fights, you’re probably right.
I mean this isn't even a problem….
Depending on who you ask, any form of foreplay can be better than PIV sex. But agreed, OP is definitely missing out
Yeah, plan b!
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According to a lot of the commenters most women’s gspots seem to be very shallow, because what it is is the backside of the clitoral gland!
I think you have to talk…. find a way you are both comfortable
It’s much like every single thing there has ever been. Some yes, some no. Find a match and save time analyzing
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As a woman who has had one too many boyfriends fall asleep while fingering me after sex, I salute you for your foresight.
Is it so hard for you to open ur mind. Obviously we aren't going to change anyones minds. I'm asking a question. Is it better to have mindless sex on the side of a sexless marriage and keep the marriage and household, or is it better to break it up and destroy the other partners life and make them start all over again?
If you not satisfied than don’t do it anymore it’s simple!
Wow you’re kinda upset over a random internet person having a different opinion up in here, take a few minutes and breath honey. I truly hope it doesn’t happen to you. Saying a prayer for your husband to keep his virility so he doesn’t become platonic and then gone. 💙
It’s a lifetime commitment of mutually giving to each other. When you get married you don’t say, well I’m marrying you becuase I want more of this, but I’m staying forever even if you completely stop doing the things I am signing up for. If one person decides to stop contributing to the RELATIONSHIP financially, or with chores, or spending time together, or, yes, having sex, then they have now pulled a bait n switch. When you get married you are committing to CONTINUE your relationship as you have been doing prior to tying the knot. Small changes here and there, with negotiation, is one thing. A complete removal of something important, is another
Exactly. Take your time. Find a guy who is trustworthy. Sorry, but your ex was creepy. You will find a decent guy. Someone who is looking out for your best interest.
Shorter the dress get, hotter she looks. Sorry, but me and my boys agreed on it long back.😂
For most people, yes. Sex is the glue that keeps all the pieces together of a marriage. In saying that if you both are on the same page then that's really all that matters.
No.
She said it turned her on so…
Question: are you masterbating frequently? Getting enough sleep?
Probably because she's pressuring him to have more sex than what he actually wants. He's being sexually abused and his body is responding to that.
You can't. If he doesn't want to, he doesn't have to. To keep harping on him when you know he feels uncomfortable is sexual coercion. It's no different than when a guy does it to a girl.
but tensing up delays and limits orgasm How did this get so many upvotes. “Sexual arousal needs tension” is the first search result when looking for vaginal tension during sex. Orgasms mostly express themselves as uncontrolled contractions, meaning rise and fall of tension. “The type of tension that helps reach orgasm is muscle tension”. I'm sure everyone who has had sex knows the ebb and flow of tension and its relationship to arousal. Right before orgasm, tension in the vaginal is usually the highest, to the point where it is often hard to even move inside. The way you presented this information was at best misleading. If your point is that people shouldn't cramp up, that's a different thing, but undifferentiated relaxing as advice is very unhelpful.
Agreed with everything, just want to add that having a supply of wet wipes (like baby wipes) is a game changer for both everyone involved.
You have talked to her. She has refused to listen. And, basically gave you an ultimatum. Which is very not cool. What else in the future will she not listen to and make ultimatums about. Seems you are at an impasse. I don't often say this, but you are 23, it might be time to break it off and seek out non smelly vagina.
anything
Open legs/pull panties aside. Allow fuck for 2-3 minutes. Done. Sometimes, oftentimes, with him I like it quicker. I would welcome a new partner that wasn’t super quick. I need a new partner…
I’m on a very healthy weight loss journey since I’m done having kids and mine are both about to be in school – so I’m finally focusing on myself. So I’m losing but in the right, healthy – it’s not coming back – way and my sex drive has skyrocketed- I’m just starting to feel better about myself. Every time I fit in something that used to be too tight I feel better. And it’s made me less self conscious with my husband. I have a long way to go still but the progress and the sex benefits are so much motivation.
you absolutely can find someone who's just as “great” as her and also matches your sex drive Not true, lets just discount this as a possibility for the sake of this discussion. she should be willing to let you watch porn I understand why she does not and I want to respect it. I know I failed in the past and betrayed her but I am trying to hard to do better. All your comments here talk about yourself as a villain when clearly you are just unhappy I am genuinely so unhappy and horrified about the person I have become
I think you edited your answer that’s why I said that but yeah makes sense
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The thing with relationships, both platonic and romantic, is that people are going to upset each other. It naturally happens. Truly good relationships get worked through the frustrations, and the good things become all the better due to the strength of being able to talk to each other through the hard times. I will say i know plenty of asexual people who make cartoon porn. Relationships have been hard for them to keep, admittedly, but often because they just dont want to have sex and many people do. Trying to make your partner asexual, as your gf seems to want to do to you, is trying to change someones sexuality. That doesnt just happen, and its manipulative. If shes not interested in sex, and doesn't want you watching porn, then what else are you going to do? The answer should never be cheating since thats a scumbag thing to do, but having an open and honest conversation about the differences in your needs. And if she wont budge on what youre “allowed” to do in your free time, while refusing to participate in your needs, then she would be a better friend than a partner. If she doesnt want to stay friends then that is her boundary to have.
What could I try to spice up our relationship again? Nothing. He's made it clear he's not sexually invested in your relationship anymore. It's time to go.
bulgarian split squats OP, you can just go with regular split squats at first if you're a beginner.
I didn't see yesterday's post. But when I respond to those, my stance is never that the man must do oral. It's that he must do something to help her get off. That can be oral, that can be fingers, that can be a vibrator… he just has to care about her pleasure and do something about it. If he doesn't, he's selfish. With women not wanting to go down on men, it's a bit of a different picture, because most men can come from PIV, whereas most women cannot. In any sexual relationship, both parties should care about their partner's pleasure and ensure that their partner gets off (unless their partner doesn't want to get off). What particular sex acts they use to get there isn't important; they are allowed to have boundaries and not want to perform certain sex acts. But if one person always gets off, their partner doesn't, and they don't do anything to fix that, then yes, they're selfish.
Long term relationship? Or one night stand? For a one night stand, lie and say “wow, that’s never happened before!” He will likely love it and be super proud of himself. Long term, I’d just be honest and up front, don’t start a relationship with a lie.
Based only on OP text it doesn’t seem like “he isn’t listen” or “he is rushing things”. May be the case, but based on what he says seems like she is super shy about sex in particular. But yeah, OP is is the verge of being a rapist, I guess that makes you feel better.
“No.” is enough. You don’t know to explain why. You don’t even have know why. All you need to know is that you don’t want to do it and that’s the end of it. Also, he’s allowed to be disappointed, but he’s not allowed to be upset with you, it’s not in your control what you are comfortable with and forcing you to go past your limits is a form of coercion which is a form of rape. He’s just an immature boy who needs a lesson in consent. His sexual need is not greater than your boundaries. You don’t owe him anything because you’re with him.
I can’t do Casual Sex again.
both your mom and your boyfriend are absolute batshit crazy, this is some movie stuff right here. cut them both out of your life and run away, move with a friend or relative. id rather be homeless than live with that fucktard poking holes in condoms and trying to curse me to motherhood forever
“Call me fucking Ishmael, you goddamn hamster.”
Hate to break it to you If anything I just want to know what culture group this is that goes around to every thread on the topic of female ejaculation saying this exact thing and I suppose taking delight in “breaking the bad news” to people? Is it a watersports kink thing? I am genuinely asking because this is the theme over and over and over, same tone and lines, it feels like a “thing.” As for if it's urine or not, it's mostly water. I don't care where it comes from if it's mostly water. I don't think anyone really does. It's not produced from regular urinary action, it's something else and who cares if it's safe and feels wonderful. No, really. Why does everyone who does this assume that they're making people disappointed or weep for something that we obviously have clear experience with already? I guess the question is this, do you guys think we're dumb and enjoying feeling smart about this one, specific, odd thing, or is there sexual kink to it? Mods have already banned several people spamming this all over this very post. You can use one of those un-reddit sites to see them all.
He used DARVO on you. He is probably a narcissist.
She can masterbate too?
You need a new boyfriend
As someone who has a active history in sex, culture and community, I highly doubt your partners are enjoying it nearly as much as you think.
Tests are detecting a body's immune-response to the infection, not detecting the actual virus directly. It takes time for an immune system to build up a detectable immune response. It can take 3 months for HIV and 9 months for Hep-C. So a negative test from last week doesn't prove that your partner wasn't infected with HIV 2 months ago, and is now contagious, or was infected three weeks ago and will soon be contagious. Even if he weren't banging someone else (risking infection every time), his test results wouldn't mean that he isn't infected with something. To be safe from HIV, you would need to be monogamous (and trust that he isn't cheating) for at least three months, and then both get tested. Getting tested has value because a positive test is a red flag, not because a negative test is a green flag.
If he's dead set on not meeting in public, it isn't worth the risk. Wash your hands of him and move on
I doubt you caused this. Some people are just not into it.
Thank you so much, this is the comment I was looking for because I simply don’t know if it was meant to be great from the start or if it builds up. I need to be patient and give him more time bc I give up so early
You don’t have to be worried about that, is just a guy that doesn’t know how to handle different situations, and it’s better to get away from people like him. I’ve been with woman to tight and May be could be difficult but after a while finding the right position is just a a paradise in earth. And also any woman is to tight, you just have to know how to touch it correctly to get ready, is also kind of getting the time to taste, touch and take your time to prepare the are before go in.
Those are completely normal kinks. My guess is your friends are still very immature. I think you should find some new friends if they can't get over you having different kinks then them.
Im so sorry you’re dealing with that. Your “friends” sound like toxic assholes. Real friends don’t kink/slut shame.
I love them they keep it harder, makes his orgasms better and he lasts longer with it too! Everyone should try them atleast once in their life 😉
I would still use a condom cuz not all birth control works.
My boyfriend has a belly and I love to hold and kiss it, it's just a part of him I can grab 😁
I personally agree with Dan Savage, good lovers are game, will try things even if not experienced with them, when a lover suggests something new. Good lovers enjoy your bodies, and all the silly slipups, sudden noises, little smells, laughing when something is funny, ignoring when the situations asks for it. Good lovers enjoy your pleasure, and know when to be selfish too. Good lovers aren't afraid to do without, when there is a need for quiet. Above all, they know when something is wrong, and react to it.
Dont overthink , if we think this way we can't even enjoy a movie
It was one of two things: Semen, though, perhaps with less sperm and more seminal fluid, or That was pee. Barring some alarming medical conditions, those are the things that come out of the penis.
The dirtiest thing about this post is you referring to your vagina as Puss
Yeah Now if I try breaking up I'm sure he'll remind me of all the promises I made him Man…I fucked up big time
If she handed them to you I'm sure she's fine with it. A lot of people will take a whole ass shower after sex, wiping your face shouldn't bother anyone.
Fucking, to me, is an all encompassing term. However, fuck me hard is pretty direct and different. We're devolving into semantics here.
Is this something you knew before getting married? If so, why would you decide to marry her? Sex is a huge part of a relationship. I don’t care what anybody says.
its her cervix! xD
If you’re looking to strengthen your erections try doing some Kegel Exercises
Omg … A woman could be the sexiest woman on Earth and give sex five times a day. But if she doesn't care! How corrosive.
Don’t. Breathe. It’s ok. Sex workers are increadibly unlikely to have an STD. BREATHE. It’s ok.
We all have preferences, fetishes and kinks. The important thing is does it harm or dehumanise anyone if the answer is no then it's not a problem it's called being human.
You live in a dark place, nothing you are describing is close to reality with healthy people. you refusing it does not mean its not true – there is more than enough evidence and statistics that show that we as species see male life as of lower worth I see examples of it everywhere – false accusations, men not getting any sympathy, unsuccessful men being considered trash while loser women get help, male suicide magnitudes higher or the fact women hold all the power socially and romantically hell, it's still legal to genitally mutilate male infants how are men not second class citizens?
Thwy are normal check out r/puffies and you can see there are many woman like you.