RED FLAG. I literally had a BBL and lipo bc of my insecurity when I was with my 1st boyfriend and 3yrs later my left glute is suffering bc of fat necrosis 😭 Not that bad… but regret instant. And he'd also make comments in the beginning like how he wants a girl that cld break in the wind – like super skinny. Also following insta thots with big ass tits. I broke up with him – started lifting weights and feeling SO much better HONEY THERE ARE MORE MEN OUT THERE TRUST ME. I even contemplated breast implants at one point and I'm a 34C. Truly this guy does not deserve your virginity. Imagine what he'll say abt u to others.
I struggled with getting BV a lot, prior. I still get it but if I treat it with boric acid for a few days, it goes away. I would recommend a ph balancing wash to use regularly when you shower and avoid getting any other soap in there as it can be irritating and throw off the ph balance. i know you said you use the iud, but do you use a diva cup by chance (if/when you bleed)? I found my vaginal health improved when i started just letting myself free flow with cloth pads or the thinx period undies and stopped holding stagnant blood inside me. Another thing – how is your partners cleanliness? do they shower before you have sex? making sure that your partner is clean is ofc crucial as well. It very well could be that your hormones need some balancing. I know you said your iud s non hormonal, but that doesnt mean your natrual hormones don't need a little extra support. you could try incorporating herbs in your diet/daily vitamin intake that helps keep the vagina healthy and happy. one more thing, and i know some people will disagree with this and it is what it is, but i also found once i started doing “yoni steams” on a more regular basis or after my period, it made a massive difference and i don't experience bv so much anymore. i hope any bit of that helps, sorry my thoughts are kinda jumbled, i just woke up lol. let me know if you have any questions aboout herbs and i can make some suggestions if youd like.
Speaking from someone who has weird kinks based on childhood molestation, I would say you aren't really gay in the traditional sense per se but it's more your brain translating what happened to you into something more pleasurable. Do with that information what you will
I think for this guy he was into slave kink and like calling me a slut etc. it felt very much like I was his toy. His pleasure was prioritised. So I think this is more than just not using toys if that makes sense he’s maybe just more interested in his own pleasure than mine
everything you're saying screams depression – as someone who has depression and has a solid therapist. It sounds like it might be time to seek new doctors
RED FLAG. I literally had a BBL and lipo bc of my insecurity when I was with my 1st boyfriend and 3yrs later my left glute is suffering bc of fat necrosis 😭 Not that bad… but regret instant. And he'd also make comments in the beginning like how he wants a girl that cld break in the wind – like super skinny. Also following insta thots with big ass tits. I broke up with him – started lifting weights and feeling SO much better HONEY THERE ARE MORE MEN OUT THERE TRUST ME. I even contemplated breast implants at one point and I'm a 34C. Truly this guy does not deserve your virginity. Imagine what he'll say abt u to others.
I posted for some advice, please don't be that pessimistic on my behalf 😬
She already gave you your answer. She dislikes them. You can either decide you’re fine with that and stay, or decide you’re not, and leave.
Send him a drink and wave when it's delivered. No guy wouldn't come talk to you.
Generally speaking tight is a good thing for the man because it puts more pressure on the pp. Like you feel more.
I struggled with getting BV a lot, prior. I still get it but if I treat it with boric acid for a few days, it goes away. I would recommend a ph balancing wash to use regularly when you shower and avoid getting any other soap in there as it can be irritating and throw off the ph balance. i know you said you use the iud, but do you use a diva cup by chance (if/when you bleed)? I found my vaginal health improved when i started just letting myself free flow with cloth pads or the thinx period undies and stopped holding stagnant blood inside me. Another thing – how is your partners cleanliness? do they shower before you have sex? making sure that your partner is clean is ofc crucial as well. It very well could be that your hormones need some balancing. I know you said your iud s non hormonal, but that doesnt mean your natrual hormones don't need a little extra support. you could try incorporating herbs in your diet/daily vitamin intake that helps keep the vagina healthy and happy. one more thing, and i know some people will disagree with this and it is what it is, but i also found once i started doing “yoni steams” on a more regular basis or after my period, it made a massive difference and i don't experience bv so much anymore. i hope any bit of that helps, sorry my thoughts are kinda jumbled, i just woke up lol. let me know if you have any questions aboout herbs and i can make some suggestions if youd like.
But “mañanero” first lmao then breakfast 😂
As a male? Prolonged sexual stimulation, breathing deeping, edging, upper body stimulation, the connection I feel with my fiance.
are u a guy?
Speaking from someone who has weird kinks based on childhood molestation, I would say you aren't really gay in the traditional sense per se but it's more your brain translating what happened to you into something more pleasurable. Do with that information what you will
I think for this guy he was into slave kink and like calling me a slut etc. it felt very much like I was his toy. His pleasure was prioritised. So I think this is more than just not using toys if that makes sense he’s maybe just more interested in his own pleasure than mine
Yess. Do a drug test now. Go into hospital
There's no such thing as a g-spot…..
everything you're saying screams depression – as someone who has depression and has a solid therapist. It sounds like it might be time to seek new doctors
Have him ejaculate before you start so he’s less sensitive
Others would not kill to be in your situation unfortunately. Unless they're asexual.