Have you communicated your wants/desires with him? Tell him what you want? Maybe have some suggestions ready to spice it up (e.g. handcuffs, role play ideas, or certain positions you want to try.) Also keep in mind “desire” or “sex drive” works differently for different people. He might not have “low” desire; he might just have less spontaneous of a desire. And more of a responsive desire where the mood needs to be right (like Cuba). Do some google searching on spontaneous vs responsive desire to see if that sounds right. That frame switch can work wonders if it really is the problem.
You’re saying no and he’s continuing, that’s rape.
Yeah I feel this way man. I just don't know for sure. Which is why this is so shitty. I'm depressed
Have you communicated your wants/desires with him? Tell him what you want? Maybe have some suggestions ready to spice it up (e.g. handcuffs, role play ideas, or certain positions you want to try.) Also keep in mind “desire” or “sex drive” works differently for different people. He might not have “low” desire; he might just have less spontaneous of a desire. And more of a responsive desire where the mood needs to be right (like Cuba). Do some google searching on spontaneous vs responsive desire to see if that sounds right. That frame switch can work wonders if it really is the problem.
It hasn't for a very long time