You say he has a lot of performance anxiety. Is je relatively inexperienced? How long have you been together and has he always had performance anxiety with you? Let me say this straight. It's not okay for him to keep pressuring you to do something you arent comfortable with. To me(and that's just how i choose to read it), it seems like he is very insecure about something and he doesn't see how to improve it. Maybe you calling him daddy makes him feel like he's in control or gives him some sort of confidence boost. I don't know if you are against a domination kink in general or if it's just the word daddy that puts you off. But if you have no issue with a domination kink then it might be the same for him to be called “master” or something along those lines. Obviously it's still not okay for him to pressure you into anything
I’m sorry you feel this way, it’s not about their specific trauma. It’s about how they handled it and how they moved forward. And you don’t speak for everyone, people are okay ignoring me, going off like yourself, or venting and talking about it like the handful doing so. It’s not for personal gain, I’m sorry you are upset by it. I hope you have a good day
You have to communicate. You can do that without getting angry. If that does not work, then it may be time to find someone you are sexualy compatible with. Sex is VERY important to both me and my fiancée. I would bit be marrying her if we were both not on the same oage sexualy. Good luck.
Lube. Whatever you think you need. Triple that. Add a bit for good measure. A bit more of it. Fuck it, use the whole bottle. There's never too much! Also warmup as others have mentioned.
You say he has a lot of performance anxiety. Is je relatively inexperienced? How long have you been together and has he always had performance anxiety with you? Let me say this straight. It's not okay for him to keep pressuring you to do something you arent comfortable with. To me(and that's just how i choose to read it), it seems like he is very insecure about something and he doesn't see how to improve it. Maybe you calling him daddy makes him feel like he's in control or gives him some sort of confidence boost. I don't know if you are against a domination kink in general or if it's just the word daddy that puts you off. But if you have no issue with a domination kink then it might be the same for him to be called “master” or something along those lines. Obviously it's still not okay for him to pressure you into anything
Hmm, interesting 🤔 it's getting added to the list too.
I most definitely intend to return the favor in all the ways he enjoys! 😊
I’m pretty sure they were being sarcastic and pointing out the things that OP essentially signed up for
I’m sorry you feel this way, it’s not about their specific trauma. It’s about how they handled it and how they moved forward. And you don’t speak for everyone, people are okay ignoring me, going off like yourself, or venting and talking about it like the handful doing so. It’s not for personal gain, I’m sorry you are upset by it. I hope you have a good day
My guess is he suffers from premature ejaculation and this is a way for him to control it.
You have to communicate. You can do that without getting angry. If that does not work, then it may be time to find someone you are sexualy compatible with. Sex is VERY important to both me and my fiancée. I would bit be marrying her if we were both not on the same oage sexualy. Good luck.
Lube. Whatever you think you need. Triple that. Add a bit for good measure. A bit more of it. Fuck it, use the whole bottle. There's never too much! Also warmup as others have mentioned.
Have him masturbate with condoms.
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